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Yize ukubhala kwami ​​ku Ngabe Ngiyoke Ngiphathe Kahle Ngokwanele? Ukuphulukisa Amadodakazi Omama BamaNarcissistic. Amakhasimende ami wesilisa afunda incwadi yami yamanje, kodwa futhi acela imininingwane ethe xaxa. Njengamanje ngenza ucwaningo kule ndawo futhi ungasiza. Bhalisela ukubuzwa imibuzo ngasese ngaphansi "Abesilisa Kuphela" kuwebhusayithi yami yencwadi ethi www.nevergoodenough.com.

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Incwadi: Ngabe Ngiyoke Ngiphathe Kahle Ngokwanele? Ukwelapha Amadodakazi Omama BamaNarcissistic http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/the-book-2/buy-the-book

Incwadi yomsindo: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/the-book-2/buy-the-book

Indawo yokusebenzela: Ukuphulukisa Amadodakazi Womhlangano Wama-Narcissistic Omama Wokusebenzela. Ukubuyiselwa emsebenzini ngasese ekhaya lakho, kugcwaliswe ngezethulo zevidiyo nomsebenzi owenziwa ekhaya: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/workshop-overview-healing-the-daughters-of-narcissistic-mothers

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