Ukubonga Ngisho Ngokulahlekelwa

Ngesonto elizayo, umama ubezoba neminyaka engama-95. Ubezoba mdala kakhulu, abe mdala kuneminyaka engama-85 ayitholile. Noma kunjalo, nabathandekayo, abakaze babemdala ngokwanele ngathi ukuba badlule emhlabeni, futhi impela akusiso isikhathi esifanele yize sebekhulile. Ngiyamkhumbula umama wami, futhi, ngokudlula kwakhe emhlabeni, ngizwe sengathi ngilahlekelwe ubaba futhi, ngoba ngezwa sengathi ngokuzumayo Ngangingenabo abazali. Kodwa-ke nganginokunethezeka nesipho sokuba nabazali bami iminyaka eminingi. Umngani wami othandekayo uMarion udlule emhlabeni eneminyaka engama-49, washiya izingane zakhe ezintathu ezincane. Babengenalo ithuba lokuthi umama wabo aguge nabo, futhi babengeke babelane naye ngezigaba zabo ezingenakubalwa, ngakho-ke ngiyazi ukuthi ngaphiwa isipho sesikhathi sabazali bami. Ngiyabonga ngalokhu.

Lapho umama eshona, ngaba nomunye umuzwa ongemuva kobuhlungu bokulahlekelwa kwakhe. Kwakungukubona ukuthi sasingekho isizukulwane ngaphezu kwami ​​esingivikela kulokho okwakuzoba isikhundla sami esisha njengomdala womndeni kanye nesilandelayo kulayini womjikelezo wempilo yemvelo. Ngokubona kwami, ngangisemncane uma kuqhathaniswa, kodwa ngathatha isikhundla sowesifazane omdala kunabo bonke emndenini wakithi, umcabango osangulukisayo. Ukulahlekelwa kungenze ngangena ngaphakathi ukukhulisa hhayi kuphela ukungabaza kwami ​​nezinselelo, kepha futhi nokubonga kwami.

Umama uhlala nami njalo, futhi kwesinye isikhathi ukulahlekelwa kwakhe kujule kakhulu kuze kube sengathi amaphaphu ami awanamoya. Ngisakuzwa ukulahlekelwa kwakhe lapho ngithatha ucingo ngo-4: 00 ntambama, isikhathi esizoba nezingxoxo zethu zansuku zonke, kuphela ukukhumbula ukuthi ngeke abe kolunye uhlangothi. Ngaleso sikhathi sokuhlukaniswa lapho ngifuna ukuhlanganyela izindaba, ngikhohlwa ukuthi akasekho. Ukubona okuthile kuthelevishini engaziyo ukuthi angathanda ukukubuka, bese ngikhohlwa, ngibuye ngithathe ifoni yami ngimshayele. Ngizwa ukudabuka okubuhlungu lapho ngibona isalukazi, sikhothame kancane, engalweni yendodakazi yaso eneminyaka engama-50 ubudala njengoba behamba phakathi kwenxanxathela yezitolo ndawonye, ​​bekhuluma futhi behlanganyela ezweni labo lokuqonda komama nendodakazi . Ngokukhunjuzwa nokugcwaliseka ngakunye, ukulahlekelwa kukamama kuba kabusha futhi nobuhlungu bokugwazwa buhlala ngokushesha nangokubukhali.

Ngoba ubudlelwano bami nomama babunamandla futhi bunzima kakhulu, ulwazi lwami lokulahleka kwakhe lukhulu futhi luyinkimbinkimbi ngokufanayo. Ngenkathi ngangimthanda ngonya, ngaphezu kwanoma yimuphi omunye umuntu wesifazane omdala empilweni yami, futhi wayenguyena muntu owayengenza ngizizwe ngingaphansi kunesenzo nje sesandla esilula noma ukubukeka kobuso noma ukuvalelisa okungahambi kahle ocingweni. Angizange ngizisole lapho engishiya, ngoba ngamtshela ngothando lwami ngaye, nokho ngisazizwa ngidabukile ukuthi besingenakuba nobudlelwano ebengibudinga futhi ngibufuna kangaka. Kepha, ngiyazi futhi ukuthi wenze konke okusemandleni akhe njengomama wami futhi ngiyamthanda ngalokho. Ngobudlelwano bethu, ngifunde ukuthi ngingakhetha izinkumbulo zobuntwana nezokuba mdala zikamama engingazithwala impilo yami yonke.

Njengenkokhiso kumama ngakho konke anganginika khona, Uhlu lwami Lokubonga lungolwakhe:

Ngiyabonga nge:

1. Uthando lwakhe olungenamibandela emadodaneni ami.
2. Amajazi afudumele asebusika, ikamu lokufundela, namaholide awanikeza abafana bami lapho sasingakwazi ukukukhokhela kalula kanjalo.
3. Umqondo wami wesitayela, lokho kungenxa kamama wami.
4. Uthando lwami lomculo, ubuciko nolimi, ngoba waqinisekisa ukuthi nginezifundo zepiyano, izifundo zobuciko, izifundo zaseSpain, nesihlalo eSan Francisco Ballet.
5. Uthando lwami ngeThe Nutcracker, ebesilubona ndawonye njalo ngezikhathi zamaholide ngisakhula.
6. Indlela ahleke ngayo into ehlekisayo waze wakhala, okwenza nami ngihleke ngikhale.
7. Uthando lwami lokufunda, ngoba wayehlala enencwadi eduze kombhede wakhe.
8. Amakhono ami okupheka ahloniphekile, ngoba ngangijwayele ukumbuka elungisa ukudla ngenkathi sixoxa ekhishini.
9. Indlela ayebathanda ngayo abangane bakhe, engifundisa ukwenza okufanayo.
10. Indlela ayemthanda ngayo umalokazana wakhe (umalokazana wami nomngani wami omkhulu) ngendlela ayethanda ngayo indodakazi yakhe.
11. Uthando lukamama olungenamibandela nokuzinikela kubaba, ikakhulukazi ngemuva kokushaywa unhlangothi.
12. Ubatshele kanjani abanye ngokuziqhenya kwakhe ngami noma engakwazi ukungitshela ngqo.
13. Ukuya kwakhe ekuthwesweni iziqu zobudokotela yize wayehamba ngesihlalo esinamasondo futhi engakhululekile neze.
14. Ukwamukela kwami ​​ekugcineni naphezu kokwehluka kwethu okukhulu.