Ukwakha Isimilo Ezemidlalo Zentsha

Muva nje, bengifunda okuthunyelwe ngumngani ezinkundleni zokuxhumana maqondana neqembu lebhola lebhola lendodana yakhe iPop Warner. Bengikade ngilandela okuthunyelwe ukuthi ngibone ukuthi abafana bafefa kanjani ekupheleni kwabo komncintiswano wesizini. Umngani wami ubeshilo ukuthi bangene esikhathini esengeziwe kathathu ukunqoba umdlalo. Ngacabanga kimi, Wow, lokho kudinga ukuphikelela nokuqeqesha ngesineke . Ngokwengeziwe, ngacabanga kimi, Ngabe lo mqeqeshi unesiyalo esanele yini sokukwazi ukuthola izici zobuntu ezizothinta abagijimi bakhe kulezi zimo? Ngabe uyazi umdlali ngamunye ngamunye ngokwanele ukwazi ukuthi ngubani ozokhuphuka futhi asukume aye kulo mcimbi? Kule minyaka, ingabe izimo zinquma izindlela ezithile zokuziphatha?

Njengomqeqeshi uqobo lwami, kanye nomeluleki wezemidlalo yezengqondo, inkolelo ukuthi imicimbi efana nalena iqala ukubumba ubuntu. Ubuntu buchazwa ngokuthi “isamba sezici ezenza umuntu ahluke” (Weinberg and Gould, 2015, p. 27). Abantu baziphatha ngokuguquguqukayo okubathintayo endaweni yabo. Kulolu chungechunge lwemidlalo, abaqeqeshi baqala ukubona abaholi abasebancane abasukumayo nabanye abadlali abakhothamayo ngenxa yengcindezi yomdlalo. Kwesinye isikhathi ayikho indlela yokunquma ukuthi abadlali abancane bazosabela kanjani lapho bebhekene nobunzima nengcindezi. Okuhle ngalolu hlobo lomncintiswano ukuthi laba badlali basebancane futhi bayakwazi ukufunda ukuthi bangobani nokuthi bazosabela kanjani. Abadlali abakwazi ukunquma njalo ukuthi bazosabela kanjani ngokuzayo. Bangakhetha ukuzama ukushintsha izenzo zabo, kepha bangahle babhidlike lapho bebhekene nobunzima. Lokhu yilokho okwakha isimilo futhi kufundisa izifundo ezingaphezu kweminyaka yabo. Ibuyela emuva ukulwa noma ukundiza.

Kukhona okumele kushiwo ngokwakha isimilo nezingane ezibhekene nemidlalo edala ingcindezi enkulu. Lapho laba badlali kufanele badlale esikhathini esengeziwe esiphindwe kathathu, babevele badlale. Laba baqeqeshi kumele ngabe babekwazi ukuzinza nokuziphatha okwakhuthaza laba basubathi abasebasha ukuthi baphume bayodlala ukuze banqobe.

Yize kunezici eziyisisekelo ezifakwe ebuntwini, kunokuhlukahluka okuningi okuzofaka isandla ekukhuthazeleni nasekuguqukeni kokuziphatha ngesikhathi semidlalo. Ngiyaziqhenya ngokuthi iqembu engikhuluma ngalo livela endaweni yangakithi (e-Abington). Laba bafana bafanelwe yikho konke abakwenzile kulo nyaka. Izifundo abazifundile kule sizini zizobathwala impilo yabo yonke. UKudos kubaqeqeshi ngokungasunduzeli abadlali abebemi emuva kancane ngenxa yengcindezi, njengoba abanye abaqeqeshi bebengabajikijela emabhubesini labo badlali.

Lapho siqeqesha izingane, kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi zizokhula ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene nasezimeni ezihlukile. Ukubavumela bakhule njengoba laba baqeqeshi benza, kulolu chungechunge lwemidlalo olucindezelayo lukhombisa ukukhathazeka kweqiniso ngabo bobabili abadlali kanye nenhlalakahle yengqondo yabo. Ukuvumela laba bafana ukuthi bahlale ngaphandle kungahle kubakhuthaze ukuthi bakhuphuke baye phambili noma kubasize ekutheni babone ukuthi ukudlala ibhola kungenzeka akuyona into abayifunayo. Nakancane, lokhu kube yinto yokufunda ebalulekile yalaba bafana lapho bezokwazi ukukhula njengabasubathi nangabantu ngabanye. Futhi, Sihalalisela i-Abington Raiders nabaqeqeshi babo.