Ukujaha Imigomo Ebalulekile? Ukuzilawula Kweqa Amandla Okusebenza

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• Ukuzithiba Kufundwa Okubalulekile
• Ukuzilawula

Ukufeza izinhloso zakho ezibaluleke kakhulu kudinga okungaphezulu kokuphikelela, isikhathi, nohlelo lokusebenza oluzokufikisa lapho. Futhi kudinga ukuzilawula okusebenzayo-inqubo ebucayi kepha enganakwa kangako yengqondo nokuziphatha.

Ukuzilawula ngokwakho kungumphathi wakho ophethe.

Amandla okuzilawula ngokwakho izenzo zakho ezindleleni eziya ekufinyeleleni imigomo yakho ivela kakhulu ohlelweni oluphezulu lobuchopho. Imisebenzi ethile yokuphatha ifaka phakathi inkumbulo, ukulawula ukunakwa (isici sokuzimisela), ukulawula ngokomzwelo, nokwenza izindlela ezintsha zokuziphatha.

Leso sigaba sokugcina mhlawumbe saziwa kancane kunamandla okuzimisela nezinye, kepha siyinkundla evundile, enekhono elikhulu lokwenza izinguquko ezidingekayo njengoba abantu belandela ikusasa abalifunayo. Ifanelwe ukunakwa kakhulu kunalokho ejwayele ukukuthola, ngoba isisiza ukuthi sizibekele imigomo emisha, sihlele amasu namasu angcono kakhulu wokuyifeza, futhi senze ukulungisa okuhle endleleni.

I-Proaction iyinjini yokuzilawula.

Ukusebenza kahle ukukhetha mathupha isenzo sakho esikhundleni sokuhlehlisela izidingo nezingqinamba zesimo, ukucabanga kanzima ngezindlela zamanje nemiphumela engaba khona, nokuguqula inkambo yokwakha ikusasa elingcono. Kwesinye isikhathi ukwenziwa komsebenzi kubanga umthelela osheshayo, kepha imiphumela emihle ivame ukuza kuphela ngemuva kwezikhathi ezengeziwe zokuzilawula ngamasu. Ukuzimisela kuyasiza, kepha futhi kubalulekile ukulungiswa kwenkambo ngokucabangayo ekuphenduleni ukugxekwa, ukumelana, nezingqinamba, namathafa.

I-Proaction isebenza kangcono kunokuthambekela kwethu okuzenzakalelayo.

Imisebenzi yethu, imisebenzi yethu, kanye nezimpilo zethu ngokungenakugwenywa kufaka zombili izinkinga namathuba. Akunandaba ukuthi iyiphi esibhekene nayo, singaphendula ngokungenzi lutho noma ngenkuthalo.

Lapho sibhekene nenkinga, singayiziba nje, sifise sengathi ingadlula, noma sethembe ukuthi omunye umuntu uzoyilungisa. Uma sikhetha ukuthatha isinyathelo kuqala senze izixazululo ezinkulu, khona-ke sithola inqubekela phambili nokukhula. Ukulungisa izinkinga osekunesikhathi eside noma ukufaka ezintsha ku-bud kusula ingxenye yesikhathi esedlule futhi kudala ikusasa elingcono.

Amathuba aveza izinketho ezifanayo: ungazinaki, wenze umzamo kodwa uwushiye lapho kuhamba kuba nzima, noma ukulandela ngokuzimisela usiya empumelelweni. Njengokuxazulula izinkinga, ukuthwebula amathuba kudala ikusasa elingcono.

Ukuthatha isinqumo sokwenza okusebenzayo kweqa izimo nokulinganiselwa komuntu okubonakalayo. Kukhiqiza izinketho ezintsha lapho kungekho okwaziwa ngokushesha. Ukuzizwa ungenamandla futhi ukhungathekile ngenxa yezingqinamba namaprojekthi amisiwe kuba yivelakancane lapho ingqondo ithi: "Kufanele kube nezindlela ezingcono, sidinga nje ukuthi sisebenze ngokuhlakanipha," kunokuba sithi "Anginakho ukukhetha ... Simile ... lokhu akunakwenzeka ... Mina / asisoze safika lapho. "

Unama-upsides amaningi nezinketho kunalokho okwaziyo.

Cabanga ukuthi ubeka izinhloso zakho empumelelweni ephawulekayo kwezemidlalo noma emsebenzini noma emkhakheni othile. Uzodinga ukusuka esimweni se-quo naku-trajectory yakho yamanje bese uqala ukusebenzela ukufisa kwakho okusha. Yimiphi imigomo okufanele uzibekele yona, futhi iziphi izinguquko okuzodingeka uzenze? Ngomsebenzi wakho wokuphatha ozilawulayo, ushintsha usuka (kunalokho) kunqubo engenangqondo nakwebhizinisi-njengokujwayelekile uye kokuphishekela okuthuthukile, okushintsha ikusasa. Imininingwane incike kuphrojekthi yakho, kunjalo. Kepha izinhloso zezithombe ezinkulu kanye nezinguquko zihlala ziphathelene, futhi zivela kumuntu ongenhla walesi siqephu.

Ngoba kuzofanele ucabange futhi wenze ngezindlela ezintsha, isibalo sinento ebheke phezulu ebonisa izinhloso ezibalulekile zokucabanga nengxenye evundlile ekhombisa imigomo ebalulekile yokwenza. Ukuya phambili kwalesi sibalo kudlulisa ukunyakaza kuye ezinhlosweni zakho zokugcina. Uyasebenza uma wazi futhi unquma ukusuka esigabeni esisodwa sokucabanga noma sokubamba uye kwesinye.

Inhloso ebalulekile ekuzilawuleni ngokwakho ukuguqula indlela umuntu acabanga ngayo. Lapho ubhekene nezinselelo ezintsha, uyasebenza uma usuka ekusetshenzisweni okungacabangi kweSystem 1 uye ekucutshungulweni okucabangayo kweSystem 2, ikakhulukazi lapho ubhekene nezimo nezinselele ezihlukile. Okusebenze esikhathini esedlule ngeke kusebenze manje, futhi udinga ukucabanga ngamabomu ukuthi wenzeni ngokwehlukile.

Ukusebenzisa ukucabanga kweSystem 2 ngokujwayelekile, noma ukusebenzisa ukucabanga kweSystem 2 manje, kuyinjongo yokusebenza. Kanjalo nokusuka ekucabangeni kweSystem 2 ngamabomu kepha okwejwayelekile, ngakho konke ukucwaswa kwamaphutha nokungapheleli, ukuthola amakhono amasha ekucabangeni okujulile. Thatha isinyathelo esingajwayelekile sokubandakanyeka ekuboneni-ukucabanga ngamasu ngokucabanga komuntu. Unganquma ukuthi ungagcini nje ngamabomu, kodwa wenze kahle, ngokujulile, nangokuhlakanipha okuphelele kanye nokusebenza.

Ukuzithiba Kufundwa Okubalulekile

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