Abantu Abanezinhliziyo Eziphanayo: Lezi Zindlela Ezihle Eziyi-8 Zibahambisa Kude Empilweni

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• Yiziphi izici abantu abanomusa nabaphanayo abafana ngazo?
• Izinzuzo zokuphana
• 1. Banempilo engcono yengqondo
• 2. Bangazizwa bengcono ngokuncane
• 3. Uthando luyasiza abantu abasha bakhule kangcono
• 4.Dala amanethiwekhi athembekile kalula
• 5. Bangaba ingxenye ebonakalayo yomphakathi
• 6. Babuye basuswe ekucindezelekeni ekugugeni
• 7. Bangakwazi ukugxila kakhulu emicabangweni eyakhayo
• 8. Ubungako besikhathi eside sokuphila?

Yiziphi izici abantu abanomusa nabaphanayo abafana ngazo?

Abantu abaphanayo bavame ukuchazwa njengabaphumeleli abakhulu ezinsukwini zanamuhla ENtshonalanga imiphakathi, lapho kutholakala khona ukuzimela wedwa nokuphishekela ukuzijabulisa.

Lokhu, okususelwa engxenyeni ethile yeqiniso, kungukuhlanekezelwa kweqiniso, njengoba ukuphana kuphinde kuvuzwe ngochungechunge lwezinzuzo zomzimba nezengqondo.

Izinzuzo zokuphana

Futhi ngukuthi, ngokuphambene nalokho esingakucabanga, ubugovu obumsulwa bushiya nezindawo ezithile eziyimpumputhe lapho izinkinga nobunzima bungahlasela khona: ukungazinzi kobudlelwano, ukuntuleka okuhlobene kwezinhlelo zokuxhasa kanye nomphakathi oqinile osebenza njengesivikelo, njll.

Nazi ezinye izinzuzo abantu abaphanayo abaqala ukuzithokozela.

1. Banempilo engcono yengqondo

Lapho izidingo zokunakekela abanye zingadingi kakhulu ngokwesikhathi nangomzamo, ukuzidela kuhlotshaniswa nokuthambekela okukhulu kwempilo enhle yengqondo. Imiphumela engokwengqondo yokuzazi ulusizo kwabanye abadinga kungaba ngemuva kwalokhu.

2. Bangazizwa bengcono ngokuncane

Ngokungafani nabantu abanobugovu, okudingeka bathole imivuzo yezinto ezibonakalayo ngomzamo wabo wokuzizwa belungile, benabantu abaphanayo bayakwazi ukuzizwa kamnandi ngokwenza imisebenzi yokuzidela, abangakwenza noma nini lapho befuna ngoba bathembele kubo kuphela. Ngemuva kokubandakanyeka kule misebenzi, iningi labo lizizwa linomdlandla ngokwengeziwe ngokomzimba, linobuhlungu obuncane kanye nengcindezi, futhi nokuzazi okungcono, okuthinta zonke izingxenye zempilo yabo.

3. Uthando luyasiza abantu abasha bakhule kangcono

Kwaziwa isikhathi eside ukuthi labo banakekeli, ngaphezu kokuhlinzeka izingane nentsha ngokunakekelwa okusemthethweni "okuyimpoqo" njengokudla, amanzi nendawo yokulala, banethuba elikhulu kakhulu lokuzungezwa yinzalo engakwazi ukubanakekela. ngesikhathi sokuguga. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi, ngokwakhiwa kwamabhondi okunamathiselwe, ikhono labantu abasha lokunakekela abanye abantu nalo liyavela.

4.Dala amanethiwekhi athembekile kalula

Ihomoni i-oxytocin, ehlobene nokuziphatha okunomusa nokuzidela, ibuye ihlotshaniswe nokwakhiwa kwamabhuloho okwethembana, okungaba wusizo olukhulu ekwakhiweni kwamaphrojekthi abizayo futhi abizayo angenziwa kuphela uma abantu abaningi bevuma futhi bebambisana isikhathi eside. Lokhu kusho ukuthi abantu abaphanayo bazokwazi ukubeka imizamo yabo ekwenzeni amaphrojekthi anezinhloso zesikhathi eside afinyelele enhlosweni yawo.

5. Bangaba ingxenye ebonakalayo yomphakathi

Abantu abaphanayo bayakwazi ukunikela ngokungazideli isikhathi eside noma ngabe ikhona imivuzo noma imivuzo ehlobene nokugqugquzela okungaphandle. Lokhu kusho ukuthi bayakwazi ukwenza abanye bababone njengabanomusa ngasikhathi sinye, esikhundleni sokulandelana ngokulandelana: kunezikhathi lapho abantu abaningi beye bazuza ngosizo lwalolu hlobo lwephrofayili ngaphandle kokubanika noma yini ebambekayo.

Ngale ndlela, kwenzeka kaningi ukuthi amalungu omphakathi, ebona ukuthi wonke umuntu ubheka ukuthi kunomuntu ophana ngokukhethekile, isithombe esidlangalaleni salo muntu sifinyelela ezingeni elisha, okuvame ukuthi lihlobene nendima yokuvikela, ngakho-ke, yegunya.

6. Babuye basuswe ekucindezelekeni ekugugeni

Abantu abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengama-65 abazinikele ukusiza abanye mancane amathuba okuthi bahlakulele ukudangala, ngenxa yokuhlangana komphakathi okukhiqizwa yile misebenzi. Lokhu kuyasiza kakhulu, uma ucabanga ukuthi ukuzicabangela nokuzicabangela kungancipha lapho usugugile uma umhlalaphansi utolikwa njengophawu lokuthi awusasizi muntu.

7. Bangakwazi ukugxila kakhulu emicabangweni eyakhayo

Abantu abaphanayo banamathuba amaningi okusiza abanye ngokuzidela, okuyi kwakha isimo sokuzethemba nethemba elithile. Lokhu kubenza bavezwe kakhulu ezimeni lapho ukunakekela kushintshela emibonweni yethemba nejabulisayo, okulusizo ukugcina amazinga amahle enhlalakahle.

8. Ubungako besikhathi eside sokuphila?

Noma izifundo zokuphila isikhathi eside kwabantu abanomusa kusadingeka zenziwe, ukuthambekela kokugxila emibonweni emihle nasekuziphatheni okususelwa othandweni kukhonjisiwe ukwandisa impilo ende futhi kuhlotshaniswa nokuqinisa amasosha omzimba.