Ukuthola Ukungazinzi: Ukunqoba Ukukhathazeka Nokucindezeleka

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Kunoma yimuphi unyaka onikeziwe cishe abantu baseMelika abayizigidi ezingama-40 bazohlushwa ukuhlangana okhubazekayo nokukhathazeka. Esikhathini sempilo yakho yonke, kunamathuba angama-25% wokuthi uzohlangabezana nesifo sokukhathazeka esixilongwayo. Lesi yisilinganiso esimangazayo sokuhlupheka. Kubonakala sengathi sizijwayeze inkambiso entsha — eyodwa yokungakhululeki okukhulu. Sijwayele — futhi sajwayela — ubhadane lokukhathazeka.

Uma abantu abayizigidi ezingama-40 begula ngokuzumayo, i-The Center for Disease Control ibizosebenza isikhathi esengeziwe ukuthola imbangela nekhambi. Njengesiko, sibheka phezulu kuphela embangela yokukhathazeka futhi sigxile kakhulu ekwelashweni - imenenja ejwayelekile yokuphathwa ngemithi. Sidinga ukwenza kangcono kakhulu. Njengodokotela wezengqondo osebenzayo, bengilokhu ngibheka ukuthi kungani sihlupheka ngale ndlela. Isikhathi sokuphazamisa ukungazethembi kwethu lapho sihlukunyezwa.

Ukucindezeleka kuyinto evamile ezimpilweni zethu ezisheshayo. Singabheka ingcindezi njengomkhiqizo wokuzivumelanisa nezinselelo esibhekene nazo. Ingcindezi ingumphumela wokuzibandakanya kwethu ngokujulile nempilo okungaholela ekukhuleni, ekufundeni okusha nasekukhiqizeni. Kepha uma ingcindezi iphenduka ingcindezi kuthikameza ikhono lethu lokuphila kahle, lokuphila ngenjabulo. Ukucindezeleka kubala ukukhathazeka. Ngakho-ke, umbuzo uwukuthi: kungani sihlushwa yile nkinga yokukhathazeka? Nakhu engikufundile.

Ukukhathazeka-emthonjeni wayo - kungenxa yobudlelwano bethu nemicabango yethu. Ikakhulukazi lena yimicabango ehlala ifuna ukuqiniseka. Sifuna ukwazi ukuthi ikusasa lizolethani, nokuthi imiphumela yezinqumo zethu izoba yini. Kepha lelo kusasa alaziwa. Futhi-ke, siyakhathazeka njengoba sizama ukuvika okungaziwa. Lokhu kuholela ekutheni singabi phakathi kokugeleza kwempilo njengoba sizama ukubamba ikusasa. Zibuze, "Yini engibangela ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka?" Ngabe kuhlobene nokungaqiniseki kwakho ngekusasa, ukwesaba kwakho ekuthathweni kwezinqumo?

Bengisebenza nowesifazane oneminyaka emaphakathi owafika wazobona ukukhathazeka kwakhe maqondana nekusasa lakhe. Ubeseshade ngokungajabuli isikhathi eside futhi ehlanganyela ukuthi yena nomyeni wakhe bebengaphumeleli ekwelashweni komshado. Babehlukanisile, bephikisana futhi bengafani kangako.Wazizwa ukuthi umshado wakhe wawudonsela empilweni yakhe. Ngenxa yokuthi wayengenazo izingane futhi ezimele ngokwezezimali ngabuza ukuthi kungani ekhetha ukuhlala eshadile. Uthe, “Angazi ukuthi ngizoba ngubani njengomfazi ohlukanisile.”

Kwakukhona lapho. Ukwesaba kwakhe lapho engaziwa khona — okwakumnika impumuzo namathuba amasha — kwamgcina eboshwe ngexhala. Empeleni wayekhetha ukuhlala kabuhlungu kulokho okwaziwayo kunokuba abhekane nokungaqiniseki kwendlela ehlukile — okungenzeka ukuthi kwamlethela injabulo. Umbuzo, "Ngingaba ngubani?" kwamkhaqisa uvalo.

Simema ukungaqiniseki ezicini eziningi zempilo yethu. Siyakujabulela ukubukela ezemidlalo nama-movie ngenxa yenjabulo yokungazi. Kepha ezimpilweni zethu uqobo siminyaniswa ukuqagela nokuqiniseka. Ukufuna ukuqagela kubanga ubuhlobo bethu, ilukuluku lethu nokuzibandakanya kwethu kakhulu empilweni.

Ngakho-ke kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi sinamathele kakhulu ekudingeni ukwazi ikusasa kusengaphambili? Ngilandela imbangela kusosayensi omkhulu wekhulu le-17 u-Isaac Newton. Uyala ukuthi uma sinolwazi olwanele — enkulumweni yanamuhla singayibiza leyo datha — singabikezela ikusasa ngokunengqondo. Lokhu kwaziwa njenge-determinism. Futhi sesiyimilutha yale ndlela yokucabanga.

Ukuzimisela kusizuzise ngezindlela eziningi, kepha ngokweqile kuholele ekuguleni okuningi. Siphila impilo sengathi sidlala umdlalo we-chess. Sihlala emuva bese sibala ukuhamba kwethu okulandelayo. Singase sikhathazeke ngokuthi isinqumo sethu sizoba “iphutha” yini. Siyasika futhi sidayise futhi sihlaziye imiphumela engaba khona yezinqumo zethu bese siba yiqhwa. Asiqhubeki phambili njengoba le nkinga yokwesaba ivimba ukuhamba kwethu kwempilo. Uma uzizwa ukhathazekile ngokwenza izinqumo, kungenzeka ukuthi ungumlutha wokufuna ukubikezela.

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