Ungayibeka Kanjani Imigomo Yokuvelela Engaphezulu

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• Amaphuzu abalulekile
• Isebenza Kanjani
• Ukugqugquzela Ukufundwa Okubalulekile
• Ukuthi "Ingadi Yangaphakathi" Kungakusiza Kanjani Ukufinyelela Imigomo Yakho

Amaphuzu abalulekile

• Ukwenza izinqumo zezindlela ngezindlela ezibonakala zingahambisani nezinhloso zomuntu empeleni kungaholela kumuntu ukuthi azibekele imigomo yokuvelela, ucwaningo olusha luthola.
• Ukuziphoqa, hlela imigomo ngendlela "engahambisani nezinhloso".
• Ukuncika emizweni engemihle engakhiqizwa ukwakhiwa okungahambisani nemigomo kungakhuthaza ukuzibekela izinhloso.

nguSonja Prokopec, Ph.D., uSolwazi Wezokumaketha e-ESSEC Business School, noJulia Smith, uMhleli Oyinhloko we-ESSEC Knowledge

Ngabe uzizwa ukhuthazekile ukwenza ushintsho oluthile — mhlawumbe ngenxa yesimo sezulu esifudumele nethuba lokuthi ingxenye yakho yomhlaba iqale ukuvula? Mhlawumbe izinyanga zokuvalelwa phansi zikukhuthazile ukuthi ugijime umncintiswano we-marathon lapho izinhlanga ziqala kabusha, noma mhlawumbe usuthathe ama-pilates angokoqobo futhi ufuna ukuba ngcono kuwo ngaphambi kokuya ezifundweni zabantu.

Ngenxa yocwaningo, sazi kahle ukuthi ukubeka lezi zinhloso kuzokuthinta kanjani ukusebenza nokusebenza kwakho. Sazi okuncane mayelana nokuthi yini eyenza abantu banqume izinga yemigomo yabo, noma kunjalo-ngokwesibonelo, ukunquma ukujima kabili ngesonto noma kathathu ngesonto.

Sihlala njalo sibeka amazinga emigomo empilweni yethu yansuku zonke — ukuzivocavoca kabili ngesonto, songa amaphesenti angama-20 eholo lethu, noma ukuya emaphesentini angama-80 ezinkulumo zethu zasenyuvesi. Lapho sibeka imigomo ephathekayo, elinganisekayo, sithambekele ekubeni sethubeni lokuyifinyelela kunokuba besivele sizibekele imigomo “yokwenza konke okusemandleni akho”. Ngamanye amagama, kuphumelela kakhulu ukusebenzela ukonga amaphesenti angama-20 omholo wakho, uma kuqhathaniswa nokusho okuthile okufana nokuthi, “Ngizokonga ngangokunokwenzeka kule nyanga.”

Lokhu okuningi sekuvele kusungulwe kahle: Kunomkhakha omkhulu wocwaningo ohlola imiphumela yokubeka izinhloso. Sazi okuncane, noma kunjalo, mayelana nezimpawu zokubeka izinhloso. Ocwaningweni lwakamuva, mina, (Sonja Prokopec, ESSEC), Mirjam Tuk (Rotterdam School of Management, Erasmus University), kanye noBram Van den Bergh (Rotterdam School of Management, Erasmus University) ngibheke ukuthi abantu bangakhuthazwa kanjani ukusetha okuningi imigomo yokuvelela.

Sibheke izindlela ezimbili ezihlukene zokuhlela izinhloso: Uma kubhekwa ukuthi mingaki imisebenzi engaguquguquki yemigomo okufanele uyihlanganyele (izinqumo ezingaguquguquki kwemigomo) uma kuqhathaniswa nokuthi ucabanga ukuthi mingaki imisebenzi engaguquguquki yemigomo okufanele yenziwe (izinqumo ezingahambelani nomgomo). Isibonelo, lapho uhlela ukusebenzisa kwakho masonto onke, ungahle uthi "Ngizosebenza kane kuleli sonto" (ukubiyela okungaguquguquki kwemigomo) noma "Ngizophumula kuphela izinsuku ezintathu kuleli sonto" (ukubiyela okungahambisani nomgomo).

Ukuthi uhlela kanjani umgomo kungenza umehluko. Kungani? Ngoba uma uthatha isinqumo esingahambisani nezinhloso zakho, lokhu kungadala imizwa emibi njengokuzisola nokuzisola, okuzokhuphula ugqozi lwakho lokuzithuthukisa futhi kukukhuthaze ukuthi ubeke amazinga aphezulu emigomo. Ngakho-ke esikhundleni sokuzivocavoca kathathu kuphela ngeviki njengasesibonelweni esingaguquguquki semigomo ngenhla, ungahle usebenze kane noma kahlanu ngoba ukweqa ijimu amahlandla amane ngeviki kungahle kungazizwa kahle.

Isebenza Kanjani

Esifundweni esiyisikhombisa kusetshenziswa ukuxubana kwezilungiselelo zomhlaba wangempela nezelebhu, ababambisene nami futhi sabheka ukuthi abantu bawabeka kanjani amazinga ezinhloso ezimweni ezahlukahlukene, babavumela ukuthi bavivinye izici ezahlukahlukene zethiyori. Sithole ukuthi ukwenza izinqumo ezingahambisani nezinhloso empeleni kwenza abantu babe nesifiso esikhulu, nokuthi lokhu kubambe kungakhathalekile ukuthi ileveli yamagoli yethulwa kanjani - njengebhokisi lokuphendula elivulekile, isikali esisheshayo, noma uhla.

Izimo ezingabaluleki kangako ekufezweni kwezinhloso (ukweqa ijimu noma ukweqa izitebhisi) kufakazele amathuba amancane okuvusa leyo mizwa engemihle eshiwo ngenhla, futhi kulezo zimo, abantu babencane amathuba okuthi babeke amazinga aphezulu emigomo naphezu kokuvezwa umgomo-ongahambisani ukubiyela. Ngokufanayo, uma abantu behlinzekwa ngesiqiniseko esithile esihle, nabo bebengavami amathuba okuba nemizwa emibi bese bebeka izinhloso eziphakeme.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lapho abantu babenza izinqumo ezihambisana nezinhloso, nokubaluleka kwesimo emgomweni wabo noma ukuthola ukuqinisekiswa okuhle akuthintanga izinga lezinjongo abazibekile, okukhombisa ukuxhumana phakathi kokuthatha izinqumo ezingahambisani nezinhloso nokuvela kwemizwa engemihle.

Ukunqanda ezinye izincazelo, ithimba labacwaningi liphinde labheka abanye abashayeli abangahle bakhuphuke emazingeni emigomo. Lapho "ukhetha" noma "wenqaba" isinqumo (isb. Isinqumo sokudla ukudla okunempilo uqhathanisa nokudla okungenampilo ngezenzo ezingaguquguquki, noma ukweqa ukudla okunempilo uma kuqhathaniswa nokudla ukudla okungenampilo kwalabo abangahambisani nezinhloso), okuyiyona nto ethinta kakhulu amazinga abo ezinhloso abeselokhu ukuthi isenzo sihambisana nezinhloso zabo, hhayi uma bekhetha noma benqaba ukukwenza. Baphinde bathola ukuthi inani lomzamo abawutholayo alizange liwathinte amazinga ezinhloso abazibekile, noma ngabe inani lomzamo lenziwa ukuthi libe ngaphezulu noma ngaphansi kusethingi lebhu: umphumela usabiliswa phansi kwethonya lohlaka.

Ngakho-ke ukwenza isinqumo esingahambelani nenhloso kusishukumisela kanjani ukuba sizisunduzele phambili? Njengoba kushiwo, lolo hlobo lwesinqumo lungenza imizwa engemihle ngathi, njengokuzizwa sinecala, sizisole noma sidumele ngesinqumo sethu. Mina nozakwethu sathola ukuthi le mizwa kamuva yakhipha ugqozi lokuzithuthukisa, okwabe sekushayela abantu ukuthi bazibekele amazinga aphezulu emigomo. Ngamanye amagama, abantu bafuna ukuxazulula leyo mizwa engemihle ngedrayivu yabo ukuze ibengcono ngakho-ke bazibekela amazinga ezinhloso zokuvelela.

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