Ekufuneni Izinkumbulo Ezilahlekile

Ngokufaka ikhodi nokugcina, inkumbulo yethu iyamangalisa - ingena futhi imele inani elikhulu kakhulu laphakade elivela emhlabeni. Ngokutholwa, noma kunjalo, inkumbulo yethu ikhawulelwe ngokuphawulekayo. Eqinisweni, ukubuyisa kusala kungenye yezimfihlakalo ezinkulu zememori - kungani ezinye izinkumbulo zibuyela kithina kalula, kanti ezinye zihlala zifihliwe, noma ngabe kwenziwe imizamo ephindaphindiwe yokuzithola. Nazi ezinye izindlela zokukhuthaza ukubuyiswa kwezinkumbulo zomuntu siqu kusuka kuwebhu enkulu, exhumekile eyimemori.

1) Phinda uhlole i- izindawo yememori.

Uma kukhulunywa ngenkumbulo, thina can buyela ekhaya futhi. Izindawo zesikhathi esedlule zinikeza izinkomba eziphumelelayo zokubuyisa izinkumbulo zomuntu ezikude. Ukuvakashela izindawo zakudala ezimpilweni zethu kungabuyisa izinkumbulo ezingakhunjulwa iminyaka eminingi, ngokukhanyayo nangokuningiliziwe. Ngokuchichima kwezimpawu zokuthola okuqondile, indawo iyindawo encane kakhulu, ebiza izinkumbulo esezikhohliwe.

Izindawo ezikhethekile zingabuyisa izinkumbulo ezindala ngokushesha futhi ngqo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lezi zinkumbulo ezintsha ezitholakele zibiza ezinye izinkumbulo, zengeza enkumbulweni yethu yomlando womuntu futhi ziguqula inqubo ejwayelekile yokukhipha eza nesikhathi neminyaka.

Ukubuyekeza izindawo zesikhathi esedlule kukhombisa ukuthi ukubuyisa inkumbulo yesikhathi eside kufaka izinto ezimbili: ukumelwa kwememori uqobo kanye nendlela yokubuyisa eya kuleyo nkumbulo. Izethulo zenkumbulo zemicimbi yomuntu siqu zihlala zicacile futhi ziqinile eminyakeni eminingi, noma izindlela zokubuyisa zifihlekile futhi zingafinyeleleki ngokungasetshenziswa. Lapho lezi zindlela ezinamandla zivuselelwa yizinkomba zokubuyisa ezivusa amadlingozi ezindaweni zangempela zemicimbi, izinkumbulo ebesingazicabangi iminyaka zingabuya ngamandla amakhulu nangokucaca.

2) Cabanga ngesikhathi esithile empilweni yakho bese ugxila kuso eyodwa isipiliyoni sokuqonda.

Gxila ephunga noma ebusweni noma engomeni noma ekuzweleni komzimba. Lokho okuhlangenwe nakho okugxile kokuqonda kungaholela kokunye okuhlangenwe nakho okuhambisanayo, ekugcineni kuveze inkumbulo ephelele kakhulu.

Ungakwenza lokhu ngengqondo noma ungasebenza kakhulu ngokweqile. Ngabe wawuhlala eduze kwesitolo sokubhaka useyingane? Hamba uvakashele i-bakery - noma iyiphi i-bakery - bese ubona ukuthi iphunga liqala yini izinkumbulo. Dlala ingoma endala. Vakashela inkundla yokudlala bese wehla ngesilayidi, ukhumbula imizwa yakudala. Bona ukuthi yimiphi imizwa yokuqonda ebuyayo, bese ulandela imikhondo yabo.

Uma inkumbulo yakho ifaka umuntu othize futhi wazi ukuthi imaphi amakha noma insipho lowo muntu ayisebenzisile, thola lawo makhumulo noma insipho, uyihoge, bese ubona ukuthi ivusa ziphi izithombe. Noma uma kuhilelekile ukudla, sampula lokhu kudla bese ugxila kokuthandwayo okuthile. UMarcel Proust wayekulindele ukucwaninga okuningi kwememori lapho eqaphela inqwaba yezinkumbulo ezigeleza zisuka ekunambitheni kwe-madeleine encane efakwe etiyeni.

3) Landelela emuva imithombo yokuqala yemiqondo yakho ngomhlaba.

Khuluma nabazali, izingane zakini, abangane bakudala, kanye nababengothisha mayelana nemiqondo ethile nezimo zengqondo onazo. Abakushoyo kungaveza izehlakalo ezithile eziholele kulemiqondo nezimo zengqondo.

Ukufunda okuhlangenwe nakho kuyaqhubeka lapho izinkumbulo eziphindaphindwayo zemicimbi efanayo zihlangana kulwazi olujwayelekile. Ukuphinda uphindele ezindaweni zokudlela kuholela ekuqondeni okukhulu izindawo zokudlela zizonke - njengoba nje sikhohlwa imininingwane yesidlo ngasinye.

Lesi ngesinye sezizathu esenza ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi sixube okwenzekile ngezikhathi ezithile. Simboza imininingwane kusuka emicimbini efanayo njengezithombe eziphakeme, imininingwane yokubeka kabi ngenkathi sithola ulwazi oluthe xaxa.

Yingakho futhi ngezinye izikhathi izingane zibonakala zinezinkumbulo ezingcono kunezabantu abadala. Ingane encane ingakhumbula ngokusobala ukuxhumana okuthile ngenkathi iyothenga izingubo ngenye intambama ngoba leyo ngane kungenzeka ukuthi iye yezitolo iyothenga izikhathi ezimbalwa kuphela. Umuntu omdala, noma kunjalo, mhlawumbe uye wayothenga amakhulu amahlandla. Yize ingane inenkumbulo ecace kakhudlwana yaleyo ntambama, umuntu omdala unenkumbulo ecebile, egcwele ngokugcwele yezitolo zezingubo ngokujwayelekile.

Leyo yinqubo ejwayelekile yokufunda. Kepha leyo nqubo ingabuyiselwa emuva ngokuthola imicimbi ethile ehlanganiswe nolwazi jikelele. Njengomswakama omkhulu onamandla ungadala ukuthi umfula osebenza echwebeni uhlehlise inkambo futhi ukhuphukele phezulu umfula, ukukhuluma nabantu ababeyimithombo yokuqala yemiqondo yethu ejwayelekile kanye nezimo zengqondo kungadala ukuthi izici zezinkumbulo ezijwayelekile zigobhoze zikhuphuke zikhuphukele emifuleni yazo. Ngaleyo ndlela, singakwazi ukubuyisa izinkumbulo zemicimbi eyenzekayo.

4) Lapho inkumbulo efunwayo ifika kuwe, urekhode .

Chaza imemori ngokubhala noma uthwebule into efanele. Izinkumbulo okunzima ukuzithola kunzima ukuzithola ngesizathu. Izindlela zabo zokubuyisa sezikhulile futhi azifinyeleleki. Izinkumbulo ezinjalo - noma zicace kanjani ekugcineni lapho zibuya - kungenzeka ziphinde zikhohlwe futhi. Kulokhu, inkumbulo yangaphandle ithembeke kakhulu kunememori yangaphakathi.

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Inkumbulo yesikhathi eside iqukethe iqoqo elikhulu lemicimbi kusuka esikhathini esedlule. Empilweni yansuku zonke, kwesinye isikhathi siyaqaphela ukuthi inkumbulo yethu iphethe malini. Sihamba ngephunga elijwayelekile eliyisimanga esingakaze silinuke eminyakeni eminingi bese inkumbulo endala ibuya ngokungazelelwe. Ngenkathi sifunda incwadi, inkumbulo ehlukile ingena ekuqondeni kwethu - inkumbulo ebonakala ngathi ayihambisani nalokho esikufundayo. (Izinkumbulo ezinjalo zokuzibandakanya zibalulekile ukuzazi, ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi zizama ukukutshela okuthile okubalulekile.)

Uma unenkinga yokukhumbula okuthile kusuka esikhathini esedlule, thatha ikhefu, kepha ungapheli amandla. Imemori iphakathi lapho, ndawo ndawo. Udinga nje ukuthola indlela efanele yokubuyisa.