Ingabe Ukuthula Kuthule?

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• Isikhala Sokubheka Amathuba
• Isikhala sokuhlanganisa
• Isikhala sokunikeza ukukholelwa kumzwelo
• Athule uZero

Uma ukuthula kuthule, ingabe kuyisiteshi sokuphumula noma indawo yamandla?

Uma unenselele empilweni yakho, wake wayisebenzisa isu lokuthula?

Angikaze ngicabange ngokuthula njengecebo, kepha lapho ngicabanga kakhulu ngakho, ngibona ngokwengeziwe ukuthi kufana nomyalo othi 'ukungathathi isinqumo ukuthatha isinqumo.'

Lapho ngisebenza, ngidinga ukuthi indawo engikuyo ithule noma igcwale umsindo kangangokuthi ayikho into ekwazi ukungena engqondweni yami. Kwangenza ngacabanga ngemvelo yokuthula nendima yayo ezimpilweni zethu. Ngitshela amaklayenti ami ukuthi imizuzu emihlanu ngosuku ehleli athule ibalulekile kubo njengoba besebenzela ukwakha ukuqina kwabo. Kodwa ingabe lesi yisikhathi sokuthula ngempela?

Ngifunde kakhulu. Ngenkathi angikhumbuli umuntu ekhuluma ngokuthula njengecebo, mhlawumbe ngivele ngakuphuthelwa noma ngakukhohlwa. Ngoba ukuthula kuyindlela ephawulekayo yokuthola izixazululo, ukuthola ukuqonda okusha, ukwakha ukusekelwa, ukwakha ubuhlobo, ukuqinisa ukuqina, nokuxhumana. Kuyisu esingalikhetha. Sikunikeza amagama amaningi - ukuzindla, ubukhona, ukucwilisa, ukucabanga, ukuthula. Ngicabanga ukuthi akuyona enye yalezi zinto. Ukuthula isikhala — phakathi kokufunda nokubhala, phakathi kokulalela nokuqonda, phakathi kokuthikamezeka nokuba khona, phakathi kokwesaba nokubambisana, phakathi kokumangala nokuhleka, phakathi kokuvuma nokuguqulwa.

Ukuthula isikhala lapho sihlehla khona lapho sidinga isikhathi. Ukuthula kulapho sivumela izingqondo zethu ukuthi zibheke okungenzeka, lapho sihlanganisa khona okusha kokudala, lapho sinika khona ithemba lemizwa yethu.

Isikhala Sokubheka Amathuba

Kukhona ibhulogi enhle ngokubaluleka kokuphupha - leso sikhathi esihle lapho izingqondo zethu zihlola amathuba. Izingane zikwenza okuningi, futhi abantu abadala bakwenza ngaphezu kokucabanga kwabo. Ukuphupha kubhekwa njengokuchitha. Sifunda ukuthi ngaphandle kokuthi kukhona esikwenzayo, asenzi okulungile (ukulunga). Ukuhlala kule ndawo, sifuna izinto okufanele sizenze. Namuhla, singakhipha njalo ifoni yethu futhi 'senze okuthile'. Yini esilahlekile?

Sikhohliwe ukuthi singasisebenzisa kanjani isikhathi esingasebenzi ukuze sibonise. Ukucabanga yinto umphakathi wethu oyishiye ngemuva ekujaheni kwethu ukuphumelela. Ngokungafani nokucabanga noma ukuzindla, lapho inhloso yakho ukuhlakulela indawo enganyakazi yengqondo, inhloso yokuhlakulela ukuthula okukhanyayo ukuqaphela imicabango yakho bese uyivumela ukuthi yenze ukuxhumana noma ivuse ukuqonda. Kufika iphuzu lapho ukucabanga kuthula umzuzwana nje, futhi ngaleso sikhathi, kuvela ukuqonda okusha noma umbono.

Ukuthula emihlanganweni kubhekwa 'njengokuxakile.' Kepha yithina esikunikeza lokho kuhumusha. Umholi olungile ufunda ukuthi kusetshenziswa kanjani ukuthula emhlanganweni, akuvumele, aze akulindele futhi asize ababambiqhaza ukuthi bakulindele ngokwamukela. Kulezi zikhathi zokuthula, umuntu angawezwa amasondo ephenduka njengoba abantu bezindla futhi bebheka futhi bebona kabusha. Akuthuli lutho.

Ingqondo yami ivame ukuthuthela endaweni ethule kakhulu lapho ngisesitimeleni. Ngiyazi ukuthi nginesikhathi ngize ngime, ngakho-ke ngiyeka imicabango ematasa engqondweni yami ithule. Imvelo engaphandle ayithulanga, kepha ngaphakathi, ingqondo yami iyabona ukuthi angisakhulumi. Ngokubona leli thuba, isusa amagiya bese iqala ukucabanga ngokwehluke kakhulu. Ingqondo iqala ukuhlunga izinkumbulo namaqiniso, yenze ukuxhumana okungenzi mqondo bese kuthi nge-twist encane, izinto zingene endaweni futhi zenze umqondo ophelele.

Isikhala sokuhlanganisa

Amandla okuhlanganisa imicabango nemibono emisha kulokho esivele sazi kuthatha isikhathi nokuthula. Cabanga ngomthelela wokungalokothi uvumele izingqondo zethu ukuba zihluze futhi zihlele imicabango yethu. Ukungalali kahle kanye nomphumela wokulahleka kwesikhathi sokuphupha kungaphezu komzimba. Imicabango yethu 'iyakhathala', futhi.

Isidingo sokuhlanganiswa sibalulekile nasemidlalweni. Ukuthula ekusebenzeni kusetshenziselwa ukuvumela izethameli ukuthi zikwazi ukucabanga, ukuhlanganisa, ukunweba okungashiwongo. Uma ngibuka i-movie, ngihlala ngihlabeka umxhwele lapho umbhali weskripthi eshiya isikhathi sokuthi abalingiswa bangasho umugqa olandelayo, kungishiya ngicabanga. Lapho umbhali weskripthi engangethembi ukuthi ngikuqonde, egcwalisa umzuzu ngamunye ngamagama, ngiyadinwa.

Ngaya ekhonsathini ngesinye isikhathi lapho umculi ayedlala izingcezu eziyi-12 ezivela eSarlarlti. Wahamba ngokushesha esuka kolunye uhlangothi waya kolunye ngaphandle kokuvumela iminwe yakhe ukuthi ishiye okhiye be-harpsichord. Ukusebenza kwakhe kukhombise ubukhazikhazi obumangazayo, kepha, ukube ubenikeze izethameli ikhefu elifushane phakathi kwezingcezu, izingqondo zethu bezizokwazi ukuhlukanisa izingcezu, zingenise ngasinye, futhi sazise isipho esivela kumqambi. Ingqondo yami isebenze kanzima ukugcina yonke into imi endaweni elinde ngaze ngathola isikhathi sokucubungula lokhu ebengisanda kukuzwa ukuthi ekupheleni komsebenzi, bengikhathele. Bengidinga ukuthula.

Abagqugquzeli bemicimbi basebenzisa ukuthula (okuholwa nokubanjwa ngumgqugquzeli) ukuvumela ukuhlangana. UDonna Mac, umqeqeshi wezokuxhumana uthi ukuqeda isigwebo bese “ume [ngamandla] okuthula unikeze izethameli zakho ithuba lokugaya imininingwane yakho.” U-Emma Gonzalez, umfundi waseMarjory Stoneman Douglas High School, ubambe izethameli zakhe imizuzu eyisithupha nemizuzwana engama-20 ethule ngamandla amakhulu. Ngisho nezethameli azizange ziqonde waze wachaza injongo yakhe, kwase kuba khona umzuzu wokubonga okujulile ngesenzo sakhe.

Isikhala sokunikeza ukukholelwa kumzwelo

Ukuma phambi kobuciko wobuciko buthule - kungaba ngezandla zomuntu noma kusitudiyo semvelo esiningi — kunesikhathi lapho ingqondo ithula khona ngoba awekho amagama angabamba 'umzuzu wobuciko wobuciko'. Uma ungangixolela ukujabula kwami, lezi yizikhathi lapho inhliziyo yami icula khona — ngingenamazwi, ngingahlabeleli, kodwa imizwa yenjabulo iyangigcwalisa. Ungasho ukuthi kungenxa yokuthi sengivele ngikwahlulela njengenye yohlobo noma engcono kunanoma yini enye noma eyenziwe ngumculi odumile, kepha lokho akulona iphuzu nhlobo. Ubuciko bangempela bangempela obuthinta inhliziyo yakho ngaphambi kokuba kuvele noma yimaphi amagama engqondweni yakho. Ukuthula kugcina amagama engekho endleleni ngendlela ozizwa ngayo.

Ngempela izehlakalo ezichitha umhlaba zivame ukuhlangabezana nokuthula. Ngo-1942, lapho ososayensi bephumelela ukudala ukusizakala kwenuzi okokuqala ngqa, umthelela omkhulu womcimbi wenza ososayensi bathula ukuze lokhu kukhulu kungene. Lapho umuntu ehamba enyangeni okokuqala. Kube nokuthula isikhashana ngaphambi kokuqhuma kommangaliso nenjabulo.

Lapho ngiqala ukuzwa ngemibhoshongo engamawele, ngashaywa ngathula okwakungangivumeli ukuthi ngiqhubeke nesethulo ebengiphakathi kokukunikela. Kwakungekhona ukuthi kuzwakale kungafanelekile ukubuyela ngokushesha ebhizinisini. Kwakungukuthi izwi lami belingakwazi ukukhuluma. Lapho ngifunda ngezingane ezikhala ngosizi lokulahlekelwa ngabazali, umzimba wami wonke waquleka ngokumemeza buthule.

Zonke kwakuyizikhathi ezashintsha umhlaba, futhi ukuthula kwasivumela ukuthi sizizwe. Lezi yizikhathi lapho ingqondo ibhekene nomzwelo. Yisikhathi esingenamazwi esigcwele ukwesaba, ukwesaba, ukucasuka, injabulo.

Athule uZero

Ulimi lungelinye lamandla amakhulu esintu, kepha njenganoma yimaphi amandla, lungaba ubuthakathaka uma lusetshenziswa ngokweqile futhi, ezweni lanamuhla, mhlawumbe luhlukunyezwe. Ulimi luhlala lufuna ukuhlukanisa, ukuhlukanisa ngezigaba, ukuchaza, ukuchaza. Akukho nokukodwa kwalokhu okudingekayo lapho kubukwa umsebenzi wobuciko wobuciko, kucabanga ngamathuba, kudonsa imininingwane emisha noma ukuzwa, noma ukubhekana nemizwa.

Ukuthula kufana nenombolo zero. Isetshenziswe njengesibambi kuze kube ngaphezu kweminyaka eyinkulungwane edlule lapho izazi zezibalo eNdiya zibona ukuthi uziro uyinombolo yangempela futhi ungaphezu kwesibambi-ndawo, kakhulu kakhulu kunalutho.

Sengiphethe ngokuthi ukuthula impophoma ebhongayo. Njengeziro, ukuthula akuyona indawo yokuphumula, kepha kunamandla amakhulu.