Ukulalela Izingane Kuphela Kungenza Izimangaliso Ngokuzethemba Kwazo

Njengoba izingane nabantu abadala bekhosele ekhaya kulezi zinsuku, kuyithuba elihle lokuthi abantu abadala basebenzise isikhathi esisezingeni eliphezulu nezingane zabo. Enye yezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu zokuxhumana eduze nezingane nentsha ukuthatha isikhathi sokubalalela ngempela. Ngokulalela imicabango kanye nokukhathazeka kwabo, abantu abadala bangasebenza kangcono ekusizeni izingane kulesi sikhathi esinzima. Ngaphambi kobhadane, izingane zabona abantu abadala ezimpilweni zazo cishe isigamu sesikhathi. Enye ingxenye babefunda esikoleni noma enkulisa. Namuhla, ukukhosela endaweni kungabeka ubunzima ekhaya, kepha futhi kungaba ithuba lokuxhumana njengomndeni. Yilokhu kuxhumana, lapho abantu abadala bezinika isikhathi sokuxhumana nezingane zabo, okungasiza izingane ukuthi zenze ukuzethemba kwangempela okungazizuzisa ezimpilweni zazo zonke.

Akukaze esikhathini sokuphila kwethu imindeni iphoqeleke ukuba ichithe isikhathi esiningi ndawonye njengoba kunjalo namuhla. Lapho abantu bechitha isikhathi esiningi bengekho emakhaya, imvamisa abanaso isikhathi esiningi sezingane ezisemindenini yabo. Ngenxa yalokho, izingane zifunda kusenesikhathi ukuthi zinesikhathi esilinganiselwe kuphela nabazali bazo abasebenzayo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, abantu abadala ezimpilweni zabo bavame ukukhathala ngemuva komsebenzi futhi kungenzeka bangabi sesimweni esihle sokuchitha isikhathi esiningi nabo, ingasaphathwa eyokulalelisisa abakushoyo. Lokhu kungaholela ekubeni izingane nentsha ikholelwe ukuthi ingeyesibili ezingqondweni zabantu abadala ezimpilweni zabo. Bangakholelwa ukuthi bangumcabango ongemuva okungaholela ekuzicabangeleni okuphansi kanye / noma ekungazikholelini.

Njengoba ubhadane lwe-COVID-19 lusigcina ekhaya, manje yisikhathi esifanele sokuchitha isikhathi ulalela izingane zakho. Yini okufanele bayisho? Yini abayicabangayo? Lesi kungaba yisikhathi esibalulekile sokwazi ngempela izingane zakho ngezindlela ongazange ube nesikhathi sokwenza ngaphambili. Ithuba lokubakhombisa ngempela ukuthi banendaba nokuthi bathini abakushoyo kunenani.

Esinye sezipho esikhulu kunazo zonke esingasinikeza izingane isikhathi sethu. Lapho sibalalela empeleni futhi sikhathalela imicabango yabo nemibono yabo ngomhlaba, kungenza izimangaliso ngokuzibona kwabo. Lapho izingane zikholelwa ukuthi lokho ezikushoyo kufanelekile futhi kunendaba, zingaqala ukubona ukubaluleka kwazo kanye nokuzihlonipha kwazo.

Abazali bangahle bangaboni ukuthi kunenzuzo engakanani enganeni uma uzimisele ukuthatha isikhathi futhi uxoxe nayo. Cabanga ngakho ... Imvamisa isikhathi lapho abantu abadala begxila kakhulu ekukhulumeni nezingane kulapho belungisa khona ukuziphatha kwabo noma bebaqondisa ukuthi benze okuthile njengokulungela ukuya esikoleni noma ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole. Cabanga ukuthi kwakukhetheke kangakanani kuwe ngenkathi useyingane futhi umuntu omdala empilweni yakho enentshisekelo kulokho owawuzokusho? Mhlawumbe ugogo noma ugogo, noma uma ube nenhlanhla, umzali uthathe isikhathi sokukhuluma nawe futhi akhuthaze ngalokho okubone kubalulekile. Lezo yizikhathi ezikhethekile.

Namuhla, lapho izingane nabantu abadala bekhosele ekhaya, isikhathi osithathayo ukuxhumana ngokweqiniso nezingane ezisendlini yakho singakhokha izinzuzo kumashumi eminyaka ezayo. Kungabanika ukuzethemba ukubona ukuthi babaluleke ngempela emhlabeni, futhi lokhu kungashintsha impilo. Izingane ezibona ukubaluleka kwazo zivame ukulwela izinhloso eziphakeme. Izingane ezibona ukubaluleka kwazo zinamathuba amaningi okwenza izinqumo ezinhle ezizuzisa ezimpilweni zazo.

Ukulalela izingane zikhuluma nje kungabonakala kungeyona into enkulu ekuqaleni. Kodwa-ke, isikhathi osichitha ubalalele yisikhathi lapho bezizwa bebalulekile khona. Kufana nokutshala imbewu yekusasa labo engaqhakaza ibe namandla angaphakathi nokuzethemba. Yile nkolelo kubo ngokwabo engabasiza bathuthukise isibindi sokulandela amaphupho abo esikhathini esizayo esingekude kakhulu.