Lisa Snyder kanye nokufa kukaConner noBrinley

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ULisa Snyder oneminyaka engamashumi amathathu nesithupha ubhekene nesigwebo sentambo, obhekene necala lokubulala indodana yakhe eneminyaka engu-8 ubudala, uConner, nendodakazi yakhe eneminyaka emine, uBrinley, ngoSepthemba 23, 2019. Ngokusho kukaLisa, uConner wayecindezelekile futhi ethukuthele ngenxa yokuhlukunyezwa esikoleni futhi wazibulala ngokuzilengisa egumbini elingaphansi lomuzi wabo. Ukholelwa ukuthi wabulala udadewabo, owatholwa elenga izinyawo ezintathu kuye ngoba, njengoba wayemtshelile phambilini, wayesaba ukufa eyedwa.

Ukushona kwalaba bantu kwasusa izinsolo. "Kungaphepha ukusho ukuthi besinemibuzo ngokushesha," kusho uMmeli Wesifunda uJohn Adams. "Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalombili, engikwaziyo, kazizibulali." Kepha unephutha.

Ukuzibulala ePreteens: Ingabe Abantu Abaneminyaka Engu-8 Bayazibulala?

Yize kungavamile, izingane ezineminyaka engu-8 ziyazibulala. Cishe izingane ezingama-33 ezineminyaka ephakathi kwengu-5 nengu-11 ziyazibulala minyaka yonke; kuyimbangela yesithathu ehamba phambili yokufa kwaleli qembu leminyaka. NgoJanuwari 26, 2017, ngokwesibonelo, uGabriel Taye oneminyaka engu-8 ubudala wazibulala ngemuva kokukhahlelwa nokushaywa ngabaningana afunda nabo esikoleni samabanga aphansi eCincinnati, e-Ohio. Ezinsukwini ezimbili kamuva, wazilengisa ngothayi embhedeni wakhe wokulala.

Noma izingane zingazisebenzisi, imicabango yokuzibulala akuyona into okufanele ithathwe kalula. Izifo ezithile — ukucindezeleka, i-ADHD, ukuphazamiseka kwemikhuba yokudla, ukukhubazeka ekufundeni, noma ukuphikisana nokuphikisana nokuphikisana — kuvame ukubeka engcupheni yemicabango yokuzibulala. Kodwa-ke, kungahle kungabi yizifo ezihlukanisa izingane ezifuna ukuzibulala ngaphandle kwabantu abadala abazibulalayo. Yindima enkulu edlalwa yizimo zesimo. Ezinganeni, ukuzibulala kuvame ukuqhutshwa kakhulu yizimo zokuphila — ukungasebenzi komndeni, ukuxhashazwa, noma ukwehluleka komphakathi — kunezinkinga ezinde. Okungenani kwezinye izimo, ingane iba nokuhlangana okucindezelayo, izizwe icindezeleke ngokweqile kepha ingazi ukuthi izobhekana kanjani nayo, bese yenza izinto ngokuxhamazela ukuzilimaza.

Ingabe lezi zingane zilindele ukufa ngempela? Akukacaci ukuthi noma ngubani osenkingeni yokungacabangi ucabanga ngemiphumela yezenzo zakhe. Kepha ungalenzi iphutha, ngebanga lesithathu, cishe zonke izingane ziyaliqonda igama elithi "ukuzibulala," futhi iningi liyakwazi ukuchaza indlela eyodwa noma ngaphezulu yokwenza. Futhi yize kungenzeka bangayiqondi yonke imininingwane yokufa (ngokwesibonelo, ezinye izingane zicabanga ukuthi abantu abafile basakwazi ukuzwa nokubona noma baphendulwe izipoki), ebangeni lokuqala, izingane eziningi ziyaqonda ukuthi ukufa akunakuguqulwa, okungukuthi, abantu ukufa akubuyeli ekuphileni.

Ingabe Izingane Ziyazibulala?

Ngakho-ke, kusobala ukuthi ezinye izingane ziyazibulala. Kepha kuthiwani ngokuzibulala? Uma kuzokholakala ukuthi uLisa Snyder, indodana yakhe eneminyaka engu-8 ubudala yabulala udadewabo oneminyaka engu-4, ngoba wayesaba ukufa yedwa. Uma kuyiqiniso, lokhu, ngiyakholelwa, bekungaba okokuqala ngohlobo lwako. Owesilisa omncane kunabo bonke owabulala ukuzibulala engake ngathola kuye wayeneminyaka engu-14 ubudala, futhi njengabaningi (amaphesenti angama-65) ukuzibulala, isisulu kwakunguzakwethu (intombi).

Ngokudabukisayo, kunezingane eziningi ezifa ngokuzibulala, kepha yizo izisulu. Bangaphezu kuka-1 300 abantu abashone ekubulaweni kwabantu eMelika ngo-2017, cishe abayi-11 ngesonto. Abangu-42 bekuyizingane nentsha engaphansi kweminyaka engu-18 ubudala. Abenzi bobubi? Abesilisa nabesifazane abadala, amalungu omndeni, abalingani abasondelene nabo manje noma abake baba nabo, omama nobaba. Ngokwezibalo, obaba abaphindwe kabili kunabomama abazibulala lapho kubulawa khona ingane, izingane ezindala zivame ukuba yizisulu kunezingane, futhi ngaphambi kokubulala, umzali wakhombisa ubufakazi bokudangala noma kwengqondo. Okusibuyisela kuLisa.

Kuthiwani Ngomama Abulala Izingane Zabo?

Eminyakeni engamashumi amathathu edlule, abazali baseU.S. Benze i-filicide — ukubulala ingane eneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-1 — izikhathi ezingaba ngu-500 minyaka yonke. Omama ababulala izingane zabo bavame ukwehluka kuye ngeminyaka yengane. Isibonelo, omama abenza i-neonaticide — ukubulawa kwengane kungakapheli amahora angama-24 izelwe — bavame ukuba ngabancane (abangaphansi kweminyaka engama-25), abesifazane abangashadile (amaphesenti angama-80) abesifazane abakhulelwe ngokungafuneki abangatholi ukunakekelwa ngaphambi kokubeletha. Uma kuqhathaniswa nomama ababulala izingane ezindadlana, mancane amathuba okuthi bacindezeleke noma babe nengqondo futhi babe namathuba amaningi okuthi bakuphike noma bakufihle ukukhulelwa selokhu bakhulelwa. Ukubulawa kwezinsana, ukubulawa kwengane eneminyaka ephakathi kosuku olungu-1 nonyaka owodwa, kwenzeka ikakhulu komama abanenselelo yezomnotho, abahlukanisiwe emphakathini, nabanakekeli besikhathi esigcwele; imvamisa, ukufa kwenzeke ngengozi futhi kwaba umphumela wokuhlukunyezwa okuqhubekayo ("ubengayeki ukukhala"), noma umama ubephethwe ukugula okunzima kwengqondo (ukudangala noma ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo).

Uma kukhulunywa nge-filicide, okungukuthi, ukubulawa kwezingane ezingaphezu kweminyaka engu-1, kuba nzima kakhulu.Ucwaningo luphakamisa ukuthi izinhloso eziyisihlanu eziyinhloko ziqhuba ukubulawa kwezingane ezindadlana: 1) Kwi-filicide yokuzidela, umama ubulala ingane yakhe, ngoba ukholelwa ukuthi ukufa kuzozuzisa ingane (ngokwesibonelo, umama ozibulalayo angahle angafisi ukushiya engenamama ingane ukubhekana nezwe elingabekezeleleki); b) ku-filifying psychotic psychotic, umama ophethwe yisifo sengqondo noma owesabekayo ubulala ingane yakhe ngaphandle kwesizathu esiqondakalayo (ngokwesibonelo, umama angalandela imiyalo yokubona); c) lapho kwenzeka ukubulawa kabi kwefilidi yokuphathwa kabi, ukufa akuhlelwanga kepha kubangelwa ukuhlukunyezwa kwengane, ukunganakwa, noma i-Munchausen syndrome ngummeleli; d) ku-filicide yengane engadingeki, umama ucabanga ngengane yakhe njengesithiyo; e) i-rarefish, i-revenge filicide filicide, yenzeka lapho umama ebulala ingane yakhe ikakhulukazi ukulimaza ngokomzwelo uyise wengane.

Ngenkathi uLisa Snyder emsulwa aze atholakale enecala, amanye amaqiniso avelile athinta lokhu. Okukodwa, ngo-2014, izingane zikaLisa Snyder zasuswa ekhaya labo yi-Child Protective Services. Babuyiswa ngoFebhuwari 2015. Ababili, omunye wabangane abakhulu bakaLisa Snyder utshele amaphoyisa ukuthi emasontweni amathathu ngaphambi kokushona kwezingane, uLisa wamtshela ukuthi ucindezelekile, akasakwazi ukuvuka embhedeni, futhi akasakhathalele izingane zakhe .

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