Hlangana Nesiqhwaga

Zingaki iziqhwaga laphaya ezifana noKevin?

Ngokwesifundo esisha, yiCenters for Disease Control and Prevention kanye noMnyango Wezempilo Yomphakathi eMassachusetts, impendulo ingaba ngaphezu kokucabanga kwakho. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi abafundi abayizisulu nabenzi bobubi maningi amathuba okuthi babhekane nodlame emakhaya. Iziqhwaga cishe zaziphinda kane amathuba okuthi zilinyazwe othile emindenini yazo kunabafundi ababengezona iziqhwaga noma izisulu zokuxhashazwa. Ukuqinela abanye kuyinkinga enkulu futhi kuhlotshaniswa nezinkinga eziningi ezingokwengqondo, ezinye zikhula zize zibe abantu abadala.

Ucwaningo lokuxhashazwa luye lwahlanganiswa no:

• Ukuzibulala
• Izinkinga zezifundo
• Ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa
• Izinkinga zempilo yengqondo
• Futhi manje, udlame lomndeni

Ngokubambisana, yini esingayenza ukumisa lo mjikelezo omubi ngaphambi kokuba ubangele ukubhujiswa okwengeziwe?

1. Bazali, Hlanganyelani!

Bazali, nidlala indima enkulu ekutheni ingane yenu iba yisiqhwaga noma cha. Ucwaningo olwenziwe nentsha eneminyaka eyi-10-17 lubonisa ukuthi izingane zinamathuba amaningi okuhlukumeza abanye uma zizwa ukuthi abazali bazo bahlala bezithukuthelele noma uma zizwa ukuthi ziwuhlupho kubazali bazo. Abazali abanobudlelwano obuhle futhi abakhuluma ngokukhululekile nezingane zabo bakhulisa izingane ezinamathuba amancane okuhlukumeza abanye. Kungani? Intsha idinga ukuholwa nokusekelwa kwabantu abadala okuhle, kanye nezinto ozifakile ezinganeni zakho. Ucwaningo luyaqhubeka nokuxhasa umbono wokuthi yize abazali bengacabanga ukuthi ingane yabo ayibukeli futhi ayilaleli, kodwa iyabona. Ngakho-ke, zinike isikhathi esimisweni sakho ozosichitha nengane yakho. Futhi, hlola ukuthi ingane yakho yenzani ku-inthanethi. Iziqhwaga zingaba nonya uma zivikelwe isikrini. Bazali, nibamba iqhaza elibalulekile emkhankasweni wokuyeka ukuhlukumeza.

Qaphela: Uma ungumzali futhi ulwa nobudlelwano bakho nengane yakho, ngicela uthole usizo. Iminyaka yobusha iyiminyaka emifushane, ebalulekile. Uma ubudlelwano bonakaliswa ngalesi sikhathi sentuthuko, bungaba nomthelela omubi ebudlelwaneni bakho besikhathi esizayo nengane yakho.

2. Bafundisi, Hlanganyelani!

Sekuyisikhathi sokuthi izikole zithathe izinyathelo ezinqala zokuyeka ukuxhashazwa. Ngenkathi iningi lezingosi zokuxhumana ezingalungile nokuthumelelana imiyalezo kwenzeka ngemuva kwamahora esikole, imiphumela yaso ivame ukungena esikoleni. Izingane eziningi ziyahlukumezeka lapho zingena esikoleni ngosuku olulandelayo futhi azazi ukuthi kusatshalaliswa ngani. Othisha kudingeka bavume ukuthi uma ukuhlukumeza kuthinta imvelo yezemfundo nganoma iyiphi indlela, lokho kuyinkinga yesikole. Ngithanda kakhulu ukuthi izwe laseNew Hampshire liwusekela kanjani umthetho walo wokulwa nobuxhwanguxhwangu ovumela izifunda zesikole ukuthi zingenelele "uma lokhu kuziphatha kuphazamisa amathuba okufunda komfundi noma kuphazamisa kakhulu ukusebenza okuhlelekile kwesikole noma umsebenzi noma umcimbi oxhaswe isikole."

Izikole zisebhizinisini lokufundisa. Yize izifundiswa zibalulekile, kanjalo namakhono okuhlalisana nawomzwelo. Kungumsebenzi wethu, njengabafundisi, ukufundisa intsha yethu ukuthi ibe ngabakhulumisi abaphumelelayo futhi ibalungiselele impilo eyimpumelelo ngale kwezindonga zesikole.

Nazi iziphakamiso ezimbalwa:

• Izifunda zenza lula ukuqeqeshwa okubanzi ezikoleni ngobuxhwanguxhwangu nobuxhwanguxhwangu be-intanethi.
• Yenza ucwaningo lwesikole lonke, umzali, umfundi kanye nothisha, ukuze uqonde ubukhulu benkinga yakho yokuxhashazwa.
• Letha izipikha zezivakashi ezizokhuluma nabafundi bakho.
• Qinisekisa ukuthi abasebenzi bakho baqeqeshiwe ukuthi bangazisingatha kanjani futhi bazibike izimo zokuhlukunyezwa.
• Thuthukisa uhlelo lokubika olungaziwa ukuze abafundi bazizwe bephephile ekubikeni isimo.
• Qaphela usebenzisa ukuxazulula izingxabano nokulamula kontanga ngoba kungenzeka kungabi izindlela eziphumelelayo zokumisa ukuxhashazwa. Ungafaki isisulu nomenzi wobubi egumbini elilodwa ukuxazulula inkinga yokuxhashazwa. Iziqhwaga zidla amandla futhi le ndlela yakudala yesikole empeleni ingenza isimo sibe sibi kakhulu kulowo ohlukunyeziwe.
• Sebenza nabahlukumezi esikoleni sakho. Sebenzisa abeluleki besikole bamaqembu nezikhathi zokwelulekwa komuntu ngamunye. Ngenkathi ukunika isisulu amandla kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile sokumisa ukuxhashazwa; Kumele futhi sinake isiqhwaga futhi "sibafundise" amakhono abanawo.
• Gcina usesikhathini ngocwaningo lokuhlukumeza. Isibonelo, ucwaningo olusha olushicilelwe ku-Pediatrics, luveze ukuthi bobabili abahlukumezi kanye nezisulu banamathuba amaningi okuvakashela umhlengikazi wesikole kunabafundi abangabandakanyeki ekuhlukumezeni. Ngakho-ke, baphathi besikole, ungahle uthande ukuqeqesha abahlengikazi bakho ukuthi babheke iso lokuxhashazwa njengoba kungenzeka babe phambili enkingeni yokuxhashazwa.

3. Basha, Hlanganyelani!

Basha, ninezwi elikhulu kunabo bonke phakathi kontanga yenu. Yibani abameli bezwi ukuyeka ukuhlukumeza.

Nazi iziphakamiso ezimbalwa:

• Ungabi umuntu obukelayo. Ngenelela uma ubona kwenzeka ukuhlukunyezwa.
• Ungabi "omunye wabo." Uma uneqembu labangane elishaya othile ku-inthanethi ungangeni. Batshele ukuthi "bangqongqoze."
• Siza ukusungula Umkhankaso Wokulwa Nobuxhwanguxhwangu esikoleni sakho. Mema izipikha zezivakashi futhi uma isikole sakho singenaso, qala uhlelo lokubika olungaziwa.
• Yiba yisibonelo esihle senhlonipho, ukubekezelelana nokwamukelwa.

Isiphetho:

Kuthiwa "Kuthatha isigodi ukukhulisa ingane." Lesi sitatimende siyiqiniso impela, ngamunye wethu unesibopho sokumisa le ndlela yokuziphatha noma ngabe ungowesifazane webhizinisi, ungummeli womthetho, uthisha, umzali, ilungu labefundisi, osemusha, umfundi wasekolishi, uchwepheshe wezokwelapha, i-cosmetologist, uyiqamba igama ... sonke dlala indima ekunqandeni ukuxhashazwa.

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