Isikhumbuzo Esincane: Bhala Indaba Yakho Ngemizuzu Engu-40

Izindaba azidluliswa ngamagama asephepheni kuphela, kodwa futhi nangomdwebo, ukwakheka komculo, noma ukubaza. Sivame ukuzwa ukuthi, "Wonke umuntu unendaba yokuxoxa." Kodwa-ke, kaningi kakhulu umuntu uthi, "Ngifisa sengathi bengingakwazi ukubhala, ngoba ngifuna ukuyikhumbula le ndaba." Eqinisweni, uma sicabanga ngokwazisa, esikhundleni sethalente, noma ngubani angabhala imemo-mini ngemizuzu engama-40 akha ibhuloho phakathi kwesikhathi esedlule nesamanje.

Ezithangamini ezimbili ezihlukene eziqhakambisa ubuciko nezwi elilotshiwe muva nje, ngijabule ukubona inqubo yokwazisa izinkumbulo eseziphumelele ezifundweni zami - abafundi abasanda kufunda eyunivesithi nabase-octogenarians esikhungweni sokuhlala esisiziwe. Imfihlo elula iza nokubhanqa isithombe noma umqondo okhuthaza umuntu ukuthi abhale ipeni ephepheni, ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso, nokwakha inkumbulo.

I-Museum of Fine Arts eBoston ibibambe i- “To Tell A Story” ngo-Ephreli. Inhloso bekuwukuba ababambiqhaza babuke imisebenzi yobuciko yangaleso sikhathi futhi, ngosiba nepensela, benze indaba. Inhloso bekungukuletha ukuqonda okukhulu hhayi thina kuphela, kepha futhi "nezwe elisizungezile."

UDave Ardito: Umlando owakhiwe kabusha

Umbukiso wesithombe sikaDave Ardito, onesihloko esithi “Umlando Wokwakhiwa Kwezakhiwo,” e-Arnheim Gallery, eMassachusetts College of Art and Design, ubuze imibuzo kule ncwajana engaba kalula isisekelo sesikhumbuzo esincane.

Kwakukhona ukwakheka kwezihlalo zobukhosi futhi lokhu kwakuhambisana nemibuzo, "Siyini isihlalo futhi siyini isihlalo sobukhosi?"

Isihlalo esisodwa sasibhalwe ukuthi "Deja Vu," nokho, ngazibona njengezihlangene. Incwajana - eyenzelwe abafundi bezobuciko - ibuziwe, yaphendulwa, yaphinde yabuza: “Kusho ukuthini ukuthi“ deja vu ”? Kusho ukuthi 'sekuvele kubonwe' ngesiFulentshi. Yini esivele ibonakala kulesi siqephu? ” Le mibuzo iphenduke iziqalo zezingxoxo phakathi komhlangano ogeleza ngokweqile wama-art aficionados obambe ongezansi ngemiklamo eyingqayizivele. (1)

Ngazithola ngikhumbula "deja vu." Esikhundleni sezihlalo ezimhlophe, engikubonile kwakuyizitulo zokhuni ezinombala osawolintshi ezizungeze itafula lika-Anti Josie wethu. Lapho sisebancane futhi sizomvakashela, umndeni wawugcinwa njalo ujikeleze itafula lokusaqanda elilinganayo kulezi zihlalo ezingakhululekile. Naphezu kwegumbi elikhulu lokuphumula, sasingakwazi ukuhlala lapho ngoba ipulasitiki ekhanyayo yayimboze zonke izihlalo zangaphakathi. Kodwa-ke, njengoba ukuvakasha kwamaNtaliyane kuvame ukugxila ekudleni, noma ngabe senze ukuvakasha okungahlelwanga, ukudla okwenziwe kwaba yimpahla nalelo tafula kanye nalezo zihlalo ekugcineni kwaba yindawo ethokomele yokuhlanganyela ukudla nezindaba.

Kusuka kwimemori yomculo yaseBoston Athenaeum olwandle

Imvamisa imibono yesimemo esincane ifika kithi ngomfanekiso noma ngomsindo. Kwakusehholo lezithombe zikawoyela, lapho iCapital Trio eBoston Athenaeum * yayidlala khona, lapho ngangena khona ntambama. Ngokushesha ngazibona ngigxumela amagagasi amancane endlini yogogo nogogo. Kwakungesikhathi esithile ekuqaleni kweNtwasahlobo lapho savunyelwa okokuqala ukufaka izinzwane zethu emanzini avame ukuba yiqhwa.

Umshayi wopiyano weThe Capital Trio, uDuncan Cumming, unikele ngocezu lweSchubert kuFrank Glazer, uthisha wakhe.

UCumming uthe uGlazer ukholelwa ukuthi kufanele kuvulwe imisindo yokuqala ethi, "Lalela, ngizokhuluma indaba."

Njengoba i-violin, i-cello nopiyano bexoxa, eyami indaba yaqala ukuvela. Angiqiniseki ukuthi uSchubert ubezokuthakazelela ukuzulazula kwami ​​ngesikhathi se- "Impromptu in C minor, Op. 90 No. 1." Noma kunjalo, lapho bengithatha i-splash yolwandle ngaphambi kokubuyela emuva ekhishini likaGogo lokubhaka ngesikhathi sokukhotha isithwathwa esitsheni ne-spatula.

Nanku umcabango wokuqala indaba yakho

Esigabeni sami se- "Memories to Treasure" sabantu abangama-octogenarians, ngakhetha isithombe futhi bazobhala noma yini efika engqondweni. Enye yezintandokazi zabo itilosi liqabula umhlengikazi osemncane nge-VJ Day. Sixoxe cishe imizuzu eyi-15 njengoba bekhumbula imicimbi. Ngemuva kwalokho umuntu ngamunye udale imemori ebhalwe ngesandla, yekhasi elilodwa cishe imizuzu engama-40. Kamuva sacubungula amagama ngamagugu amancane, sangeza isithombe esiyingqayizivele, futhi sahlela imisebenzi. Lezi zifake udonga lwegalari yephaseji njengoba kuboniswe ku-athikili nakuvidiyo. (2)

Abadala bakuthokozela kakhulu ukuthi bakwazi ukuxoxa izindaba zabo njengoba nathi sifunde kwiThe Memoir Project, ukusebenzisana kweNorth End kanye neGrub Street. Omunye wesifazane wathi ngalokhu okwenzekile. . . "kungisizile ngabona ukuthi ngibusiswe kanjani nokuthi ngiphile impilo emnandi kanjani. Kwengeze injabulo yami." (3)

Le yindlela elula yokukukhuthaza ukuthi uthathe isinqumo sokukhumbula inkumbulo. Bheka ngokucophelela ama-albhamu wezithombe ezindala. Noma ungaya ekhonsathini noma uvakashele igalari noma umnyuziyamu. Lapho ukumamatheka kuza ebusweni bakho, hlala ubonge, bese ubamba imicabango uze uqale ukubhala. Nayi ifomula yezinyathelo ezi-5:

• Qala ngokucabanga ngesithombe, isithombe, noma ukuvakasha okwakha inkumbulo ekhethekile.
• Bhala ngemizwa ekufaka emvilophini ngememori. Chaza.
• Chaza indawo nabantu oqale ukucabanga ngabo.
• Lalela amazwi abo, indlela abakhulume ngayo. Phinda wenze inkhulumomphendvulwano.
• Chaza ukuthi kungani ubonga inkumbulo.

Izinkumbulo ezijabulisayo nezidabukisayo

Akuzona zonke izinkumbulo ezijabulisayo. Ngenkathi ukubhala imemori kungaba ukwelashwa, futhi kungaba buhlungu. Umhlaziyi waseJungian uJohn A. Sanford, encwadini yakhe ethi "Healing and Wholeness," wabhala, "Impilo yethu kumele ibe nendaba ukuze sibe ngabaphelele. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi kumele siphikisane nokuthile, uma kungenjalo indaba ayinakwenzeka. "

Lapho ucabanga ngendaba yakho, qala ngokubhala izinkumbulo onokubonga ngazo, izinkumbulo okufanele uzazise. Mhlawumbe ngenkathi kwenziwa lokho, lezo zinkumbulo ezilimazayo zizongena endaweni yokuthula kwengqondo, noma nomuzwa wokukhululeka nenjabulo.

Imininingwane 2016 Rita Watson

Ilungu lezemfundo leBoston Athenaeum njengo-Adjunct Professor, uMnyango WesiNgisi, iSuffolk University, iBoston, MA.

Izinsizakusebenza

1. Umlando Owakhiwe kabusha: www.DaveArdito.com
2. Isikhumbuzo Sokubhala Amabhuloho Esidlule Nanamuhla | Psychology Today, nezethenjwa
3. I-Memoir Project / Grub Street
4. Ukubonga Okuqhubekayo: Umthandi Omncane Ka-Nonna kanye Nesikhumbuzo Sakho l Psychology Today