Abadala Abadala Baveza Okukhiqiza Ucansi Olukhulu

Abantu base-U.S. Baguga ngokushesha. Abantu abadala asebekhulile baba nesilinganiso esandayo sabathandi. Lapho imibhangqwana eneminyaka engamashumi ayisithupha, amashumi ayisikhombisa, nangaphezulu iba nabalingani futhi ikwazi ngokomzimba ukwenza uthando, iningi liya ocansini nomlingani walo njalo. Ucwaningo oluningi lukhombisa ukuthi uma kuqhathaniswa nabadala abahlanganisiwe abangahlanganyeli ekwenzeni uthando kozakwethu, labo abagcina izimpilo zocansi olusebenzayo bajabulela ukwaneliseka okukhulu kobudlelwano, impilo engcono ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, umbono oqondile, izinga eliphakeme lempilo, nokuphila isikhathi eside.

Kepha ebudaleni, ubulili buyashintsha. Iningi labantu abadala asebekhulile bazizwa bephuthuma kancane kwezocansi namandla, ikakhulukazi labo abanezimo ezingapheli zezokwelapha (izinhlungu, izinhlungu, isifo sikashukela, isifo senhliziyo, njll.). Amadoda amadala ngokuvamile akhula ngezinga elithile lokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile. Iningi labesifazane asebekhulile lilwa nokoma kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane nokuncipha kwezicubu (i-atrophy) okungenza ucansi lungakhululeki ngisho ne-lubricant. Futhi njengoba amakhandlela egcwala ikhekhe, kuya kuba nzima ngabantu abadala asebekhulile ukusebenza kuze kube se-orgasm.

Ukwehla Okukhulu Kokuvama Kunokugculiseka

Kepha ngenkathi imvamisa yezocansi yehla empilweni yakamuva, ukwaneliseka kuncipha kakhulu. Eqinisweni, abanye abadala bathi bazizwa benelisekile ngokwenziwa kwabo kothando kunanini ngaphambili. Abantu abadala bakugcina kanjani ukwanelisa ucansi? Abaphenyi eSonoma State University eCalifornia bameme abantu abadala abahlangene abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-50 ukuthi baqedele ucwaningo oluthunyelwe izinsuku eziyishumi kuwebhusayithi yeNBC News. Bangaphezu kuka-9,000 abantu ababambe iqhaza.

Ekuhlaziyweni kwabo, abacwaningi bahlukanisa izimpendulo ngamaqembu amane:

• Imvamisa ephansi, ukwaneliseka okuphansi (okuphansi-phansi, abaphenduli be-3,985).
• Imvamisa ephansi, ukwaneliseka okuphezulu (okuphansi-phezulu, 1,065).
• Imvamisa ephezulu, ukwaneliseka okuphansi (ephezulu-phansi, 951).
• Imvamisa ephezulu, ukwaneliseka okuphezulu (okuphezulu kakhulu, 3,163,).

Abaphenyi bagxile emaqenjini amabili: aphansi-phansi futhi aphezulu kakhulu, futhi bahlunga labo isimo sabo esiphansi esivela ezinkingeni zezempilo eziphazamise ukwenza uthando. Iqembu elaliphansi lalinabesilisa abaningi — amaphesenti angama-48 abesilisa abaphendula kulolu cwaningo, namaphesenti angama-38 abesifazane. Iqembu eliphakeme kakhulu bekungabesifazane ikakhulu-amaphesenti angama-38 abesifazane, namaphesenti angama-33 abesilisa.

Izinto Zocansi Ezinciphise Imvamisa Nokwaneliseka

Imvamisa ephansi nokwaneliseka okuphansi kwakuhlotshaniswa kakhulu ne:

1. Ukuhluka kwesifiso. Lapho omunye efuna ucansi kakhulu kunomunye, ukwenza uthando kuyahlupheka.
2. Isizungu. Ngemuva kwesikhashana, into endala efanayo ngaso sonke isikhathi iyeka ukuba mnandi.
3. Athule. Abathandi abangaxoxi ngezifiso zabo eziguqukayo kanye nezidingo zabo noma abayiyeka ukungena mayelana nalezi zinkinga ngemuva kweminyaka ethile beqala ukuzizwa bengaxhumene.
4. Kuchithwa izinsiza zokuzisiza. Lapho omunye umlingani ethula okokusebenza okunikela ngeziphakamiso zocansi kanti omunye ekuchitha, umethuli uyacasuka kanti omunye uzizwa evikela. Uma into efanayo yenzeka kaningi, bobabili abalingani baqala ukucasuka.
5. Akukho ukuhlelwa kwemizwa. Awekho amakhandlela, umculo, uhleko, noma uthando oluhlebelwayo ngaphambi nangesikhathi socansi.
6. Ukujaha ukuya ocansini. Ukuqabulana okuncane noma cha, ukuqubuzana, ukubhucungwa umzimba wonke, ukubhucungwa isandla sangasese, ucansi lomlomo, noma amathoyizi.
7. Ukungafani kwesikhathi. Imibhangqwana ephansi ibivame ukungavumelani ngokuthi ucansi kufanele luhlale isikhathi esingakanani, lapho umuntu ephikelela ukuthi ama-quickies avame ukudala intukuthelo komunye.
8. Ibanga elingokomzwelo nokungezwani kobudlelwano okungapheli. Lokhu kubulala isifiso futhi kuphazamise ukusebenza.
9. Umlando odabukisayo. Abadala abaphansi bathambekele ekubeni nemilando emide yokunganeliseki ngokocansi komunye nomunye.
10. Izinganekwane. Lapho omunye umlingani ethi, "Mina / sibadala kakhulu ukuthi singaya ocansini," omunye uzizwa ehlukanisiwe.

Izinto Zocansi Ezithuthukisa Imvamisa Nokwaneliseka

Imvamisa ephezulu nokwaneliseka okuphezulu kuhlotshaniswe kakhulu ne:

1. Ukuvumelanisa. Imibhangqwana ephakeme kakhulu ikwazile ukuxoxisana ngezikhathi zobulili zombili ukuthi zingaphila ngokukhululeka noma kancane.
2. Inoveli. Noma yini entsha nehlukile ivusa ukukhululwa kwe-dopamine, i-neurotransmitter yokushisa kocansi. Imibhangqwana ephezulu kakhulu yenze uthando ngezindlela ezintsha ezindaweni ezintsha, nangezikhathi ezihlukile. Babevuleleke ekuzizweleni, futhi babonga ukubethula kwabo.
3. Ingxoxo. Yini ukusondelana kwangempela? Ukuzembula usebenzisa amagama. Ukuthula kubulala ukusondelana futhi kubanga izibopho ezingokomzwelo. Imibhangqwana ephezulu kakhulu yayizimisele ukuxoxa ngezifiso zayo zocansi, izidingo, kanye nezinguquko. Baphinde bancoma uthando lomunye nomunye, futhi bacela impendulo. Abaningi bashayela noma bathumela imiyalezo ngaphambi kwezinsuku zocansi bethi babheke phambili ekwenzeni uthando.
4. Ukusetha imizwa okusebenzayo. Imibhangqwana ephakeme kakhulu yayikuthanda amakhandlela, isizinda, umculo, uhleko, ithi, "Ngiyakuthanda."
5. Ukudlala okuningi. Igama elijwayelekile elithi “foreplay,” kepha lokho kusho imisebenzi eyandulela ukuya ocansini. Abathandi abaningi asebekhulile bakuthola kunzima ukuya ocansini noma kungenzeki ngenxa yezinkinga zokwakhiwa kwamadoda, kanye nokomisa kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane kanye ne-atrophy. Abathandi asebekhulile abasezingeni eliphakeme bavamise ukubukela phansi noma ukuyeka ukuya ocansini futhi bagxile ekuqabulaneni, ekugoneni, ekuhlikihlaneni umzimba wonke, emisebenzini yezandla, eminwe, ocansini lomlomo, amathoyizi, futhi mhlawumbe nokudlala okufana nokukhishwa kwendunu (kovala amehlo, ukushaya).
6. I-whoopee enwetshiwe. Ngokukhula kweminyaka, kuthatha isikhathi eside ukufudukela emdlalweni wobulili. Imibhangqwana ephezulu kakhulu ijabulele ukudlala okuningi okungekhona okobulili ngaphambi kokufinyelela phakathi kwemilenze yomunye nomunye.
7. Ukutshalwa kwemali ngokomzwelo. Imibhangqwana ephakeme kakhulu ibisebenza njalo ebudlelwaneni bayo futhi yamukela izingxoxo.
8. Umlando omuhle. Imibhangqwana ebiphakeme kakhulu lapho isencane ivame ukuyigcina njengoba ikhula.
9. Ukuzibophezela ukuhlala ucansi. Emibhangqwaneni ephezulu kakhulu, bobabili abashadikazi bakholelwa ukuthi ucansi lubalulekile ebudlelwaneni, futhi bobabili ahlukanga ekwenziweni kothando ngenxa yobudala noma ezinye izizathu.

Akuhlukile Kwasebekhulile

Ngenkathi lolu cwaningo lugxile kwabashadikazi abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-50, izinto ezifaka isandla ekwanelisekeni ngokocansi noma ukungabikho kwazo zizimele ngokweminyaka. Izizathu zemvamisa ephansi futhi ephezulu nokwaneliseka zisebenza kubathandi bayo yonke iminyaka.

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