Iqoqo lomuntu: Kuyini Futhi yiziphi Izinhlobo ezikhona?

-Delile

• Ake sibone ukuthi uyini umqondo weqoqo lobuntu nokuthi lithuthuke kanjani.
• Buyini ubuntu?
• Yini iqoqo lobuntu?
• Amaqoqo amathathu obuntu
• ICluster A: Okungajwayelekile
• ICluster B: Ayizinzile / Iyamangalisa-ngokomzwelo
• ICluster C: Ukukhathazeka ngokwesaba
• Umqondo owusizo, kepha hhayi njengoba uvaliwe njengoba kubonakala

Ake sibone ukuthi uyini umqondo weqoqo lobuntu nokuthi lithuthuke kanjani.

Sonke sinokuthanda okuhlukile, imibono ehlukene, izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokwenza izinto, futhi sibona umhlaba ngendlela ehlukile neyomuntu siqu. Singabantu abahlukile, ababunjwe ngakho konke yi-biology yabo kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo empilweni. Kepha asiyeki ukuba ngamalungu ohlobo olufanayo.

Ngalo mqondo, kungenzeka ukusungula izinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zobuntu ngokufana okuthile komunye nomunye, lapho kwabiwa khona izinto ezithile eziyisisekelo. Futhi emkhakheni wezengqondo nokusebenza kwengqondo, lezi zinhlobo zobuntu ziye zahlelwa zaba izigaba zobuntu.

Usho ukuthini lo mqondo? Yini iqoqo lobuntu? Ake sikubone kuso sonke lesi sihloko.

Buyini ubuntu?

Ngaphambi kokubheka lokho okushiwo ngumqondo weqoqo lobuntu, kungahle kube lusizo ukuchaza kafushane into ebaluleke kakhulu kuyo: ubuntu.

Ubuntu sibubiza ngokuthi iphethini noma iqoqo lokuziphatha, ukuqonda, imizwa, imibono nezindlela zokubona nokuhumusha iqiniso kanye nokuhlobene nemvelo nathi uqobo esijwayele ukwenza kanjalo futhi esivame ukugcina sizinzile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nangezimo kukho konke ukuphila.

Ubuntu buchazwa kukho konke ukukhula kwethu kanye nasemjikelezweni wethu wempilo, kulungiswa ngokwengxenye ngokuya ngofuzo lwethu futhi kususelwa kokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu nokufunda kwethu. Yilokho okuchaza indlela yethu yokuphila nokwenza, futhi kuvame ukuguquguquka ukuze kuhambisane kahle nemvelo.

Kodwa-ke, kwesinye isikhathi uchungechunge lwezimo lubangela lokho ngasizathu simbe esikutholayo izici noma izindlela zokucabanga noma zokwenza ukuthi, yize zisivumela ukuthi siphile futhi sizivumelanise nemvelo, zingasibangela ubunzima obukhulu ezindaweni ezinjengobudlelwano phakathi kwabantu, umsebenzi noma ikhono lokujabulela impilo, futhi zingadala ukungasebenzi, ukungaphatheki kahle nokuhlupheka kithina noma emvelweni yethu. .

Lokhu kunjalo ngabantu abahlushwa ukuphazamiseka kobuntu. Futhi maqondana nalolu hlobo lokuphazamiseka lapho izinhlobo ezintathu eziyinhloko zeqoqo lobuntu ezivame ukusetshenziswa ziye zachazwa, umqondo esizowuchaza ngezansi.

Yini iqoqo lobuntu?

I-Cluster iqondwa njengenhlangano noma indlela yokuhlukanisa okuguquguqukayo okuningana kwamaqoqo ngamaqembu ahlukene afaka phakathi kwazo ngokuya ngohlobo oluthile lwesici esivamile noma isici.

Ngakho-ke, lapho sikhuluma ngeqoqo lobuntu esibhekise kulo ukuqoqwa kwezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zobuntu ezinohlobo oluthile lwento ezivumela ukuba ziqoqwe ndawonye. Lokho kusho ukuthi, ubukhona bezici ezivamile phakathi kwamakilasi ahlukene noma izinhlobo zobuntu buyaqalwa, okusivumela ukuthi sichaze ngezinga elikhulu lonke, ukuze izigaba ezahlukahlukene zenziwe zenziwe ngokobunye futhi zihlanganiswe kuzungeze ikhwalithi noma isici esithile.

Amaqoqo amathathu obuntu

Yize ngokomthetho kungenzeka ukwenza izihloko zobuntu ngokuya ngemibandela ehlukene, lapho sikhuluma ngalo mqondo ngokuvamile sibhekisa kwabathathu ikakhulukazi, lapho ukuphazamiseka kobuntu kuye kwahlukaniswa futhi kwafakwa ohlwini. Ngalo mqondo, okwamanje, kucatshangelwa amaqoqo amakhulu amathathu wobuntu, ngokuya ngohlobo lwendlela yokuziphatha abazibonakalisa njalo.

ICluster A: Okungajwayelekile

ICluster A ifaka phakathi izinhlobo zokuphazamiseka kobuntu ezinokuthile okufana nokwenziwa kwezenzo kanye nokugcinwa kwezindlela zokucabanga nokuhumusha umhlaba obhekwa njengobabazekayo futhi ongajwayelekile, kwesinye isikhathi kufana nokusebenza kwabantu abanezakhi zengqondo (yize kulokhu icala sikhuluma ngezimpawu zobuntu hhayi ukuphazamiseka uqobo).

Yilezi zindlela zokuziphatha nezindlela ezenza ukungasebenzi kahle noma ukungaphatheki kahle esihlokweni. Ukuphazamiseka kobuntu kwe-Paranoid, schizoid, ne-schizotypal kufakiwe ngaphakathi kwaleli qoqo.

ICluster B: Ayizinzile / Iyamangalisa-ngokomzwelo

Ukuqoqwa noma ukuhlelwa kokuphazamiseka kobuntu okwaziwa njengeqoqo B kubhekisa kusethi yokuguqulwa kobuntu okunesici esivamile ukuba khona kwesimo somzwelo esiphakeme, esinzima kakhulu, futhi esivame ukwethula isimilo sokuziphatha futhi kwesinye isikhathi kube yaseshashalazini.

Ukuba khona kokuntuleka kokulawula imizwa nothando kuvame ukubonwa, kanye nokungathembani okuthile kwabanye kanye / noma nokuhlonipha kwabo. Ngaphakathi kwaleli qembu sithola ukuphazamiseka kobuntu okungafani nomphakathi, imingcele, i-histrionic kanye ne-narcissistic.

ICluster C: Ukukhathazeka ngokwesaba

Leli qoqo lesithathu lihlanganisa isethi yezinkinga ezifana nokuba khona kwezinga eliphakeme lokwesaba noma ukukhathazeka (noma ukungakwenzi), okuholela ekutheni benze ngendlela eyehla kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka. I-eksisi noma umnyombo wokuziphatha kwabo okuningi ukugwema lokho okusatshwayo. Ukubekezelelana okuphansi kokungaqiniseki futhi okuvamile.

Ngaphakathi kwe-cluster C sithola ukuphazamiseka kobuntu okugwemayo, okuxhomekile futhi okucindezelayo.

Umqondo owusizo, kepha hhayi njengoba uvaliwe njengoba kubonakala

Umqondo weqoqo lobuntu, njengoba ubhekisa okungenani ezinhlotsheni ezintathu ezisetshenziswa kakhulu, waqala wasetshenziswa ngo-1980 ngeDSM-III. Lokhu kwenziwa ngenhloso yokwenza ukuqoqwa kokuguqulwa kobuntu obekungavumela ukuthi ukuphazamiseka kuhlukaniswe ngendlela elula, ngasikhathi sinye lapho kukhuthazwa ucwaningo oluqhubekayo ngalolu hlobo lwezinguquko.

Kusukela lapho, amaqoqo wobuntu asetshenziswe njalo ukukhomba indawo lapho kuguquka khona ubuntu. Lokhu akusho ukuthi zisetshenziselwa ukuxilonga (ngoba iqoqo akusilo ukuxilongwa ngokwalo futhi alikusunguli), kepha linganikeza umbono wohlobo lwezimpawu noma umthelela inkinga ethile engaba nawo impilo yansuku zonke yesihloko. .

Kodwa-ke, yize inhlangano ngamaqoqo ingaba wusizo olukhulu lapho kusungulwa izigaba ezinqunyelwe phakathi kwezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zobuntu, iqiniso ukuthi ukusebenza kokuhlaziywa okuhlukile kwamafekthri akusekeli ngokungaguquguquki ukuthi la maqoqo ahlala eqine njalo futhi kwehlukaniswe komunye nomunye: ngokwesibonelo, ekwenziweni kwemitholampilo akuvamile ukuthi isiguli esifanayo siveze izici ngisho nokuphazamiseka okungamaqoqo ahlukahlukene.