"Khumbula ama-Titans:" Ingabe Ibhola Lingabunciphisa Ubandlululo?
Kunama-movie amaningi ngobandlululo, futhi kukhona ama-bazillion movie ngezemidlalo. Kukhona ngisho neziningana ezihlanganisa zombili lezi zihloko, kepha intandokazi yami kulawa ma-combo-pack yibhayisikobho yakudala ethi “Khumbula amaTitans.” Ngokusekelwe endabeni eyiqiniso, sibona iqembu lebhola lezinyawo esikoleni esiphakeme liphoqeleka ukubhekana nokuhlanganiswa kobuhlanga kwesikole esimnyama nesikole esimhlophe ngo-1971 eVirginia. Iqembu ngalinye liholwa ngumqeqeshi onamandla futhi othandekayo, odlalwa ku-movie nguDenzel Washington (Coach Boone) noWill Patton (Coach Yoast). Yize ngicabanga ukuthi umbhali / umqondisi wale filimu enhle kakhulu ufunde inqwaba yethiyori yengqondo ngokubandlulula ngaphambi kokwenza i-screenplay, ifilimu icishe ilandele izinyathelo ezibekwe yizifundo zakudala zendlela yokwenza amaqembu amabili abantu anqobe izinkolelo-ze nokucwasana.
Ngenkathi ososayensi bezengqondo beqala ukuthola ukuthi banciphisa kanjani ubandlululo phakathi kwamaqembu amabili, umqondo owaziwa kakhulu wawubizwa ngokuthi yi-Contact Hypothesis (eyaqalwa ngumfana ogama lakhe linguWilliams ngo-1947). Umqondo ngukuthi isizathu sokungawathandi amanye amaqembu (ezinye izinhlanga, izinkolo, ukuthanda ezocansi, noma yini) kungenxa yokuthi asichithi isikhathi esiningi nabantu abahlukile. Ngakho-ke, konke okudingeka sikwenze ukuhlala nalabo bantu ngokwengeziwe, futhi poof! Ubandlululo lwethu luzophela. Ngakho-ke, "ukuxhumana" kuyisihluthulelo. Yize lokhu kuzwakala kukuhle kakhulu, ngeshwa akulona iqiniso. Kuvela ukuthi ukumane uzungeze abantu abahlukile KUNGENZEKA kuholele ebunganeni nasekunqobeni izithiyo - kepha kaningi, kubuyela emuva. Sigcina ngokubona nje izindlela zokuziphatha eziqinisekisa izinkolelo-ze zethu, sigcina ngezimpikiswano ezimbi, futhi sivame ukuzondana nakakhulu. Ku- "Khumbula ama-Titans," lo mkhuba omubi uboniswa kusenesikhathi njengoba amaqembu amabili ephoqeleka ukuthi ahlangane. Bancintisana ngezikhundla eqenjini elisha, bayenqaba ukwamukela umbono womunye nomunye, futhi bavele bagxile ezinkolelweni zabo zangaphambili. Ngakho-ke i-Contact Hypothesis ine-caveat enkulu, okungukuthi okubalulekile yi-TYPE yokuxhumana phakathi kwamaqembu. Yilapho-ke lapho singafunda khona kuzinkolelo zombili zengqondo kanye naseqenjini lebhola lempilo yangempela. Bacishe kanjani ukunqoba ubandlululo lwabo futhi basebenza ngokubambisana ukunqoba ubuqhawe bombuso? Isinyathelo 1 ekunciphiseni ubuhlanga: Isimo esilinganayo Isazi sezengqondo esiqale ngokunikeza isibuyekezo kwi-Contact Hypothesis kwakunguGordon Allport, owaphakamisa izindlela ezine zokuxhumana ngempumelelo nokunciphisa ubandlululo phakathi kwamaqembu amabili ahlukene.Indlela yokuqala ukuthi amalungu eqembu kumele abe nesimo esilinganayo; iqembu elilodwa alikwazi ukuba namandla amaningi, amalungu amaningi, imali eningi, noma enye into engelona elinye iqembu. Lokhu kulingana sikubona kumaTitans, lapho inhloko Umqeqeshi uBoone ekubeka ngokusobala ukuthi abadlali abahamba phambili bazothola izikhundla zokuqala, kungakhathalekile ukuthi ungowaluphi uhlanga. Umuntu ngamunye kumele asebenze kanzima ukuthola indawo yakhe, futhi nomzamo odingekayo uyalingana, noma ngabe isikhumba sakhe sinjani. Ngalesi simo esilinganayo kuphela lapho kungasuswa khona intukuthelo kunoma yiluphi uhlangothi. Isinyathelo 2: Izinjongo Ezivamile Umbandela olandelayo ka-Allport wokuxhumana ngempumelelo kweqembu elithile ukuthi iqembu kufanele libe nomgomo ofanayo, noma omkhulu. Umgomo kufanele ube nzima ngokwanele ukuthi alikho iqembu elincane elingakwazi ukuwufinyelela lodwa, kepha futhi lifezekeke (hhayi iphupho nje kuphela eliyoholela ekudumazekeni). Lesi sibonelo sisobala lapho amaTitans kumele asebenze ndawonye ukunqoba umdlalo ngamunye webhola futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi akhule njengeqembu ukuzuza ubuqhawe. Sibona izibonelo ezithile zendlela amalungu eqembu okumele asebenze ngayo ngokubambisana njengoba icala nokuvikela kukhomba ubuthakathaka kubadlali bolunye uhlanga; okubalulekile kule nqubo ukuthi “uhlangothi” ngalunye loqhekeko lwalunamandla nokubuthakathaka okuphindayo, futhi futhi kwaletha umuzwa wokulingana. Ingxenye eyodwa ebalulekile yomqondo "womgomo ofanayo" ukuthi amaqembu amabili okuqala (lapha, abafundi abaMnyama kanye nabafundi abaMhlophe) kumele babumbane ukuze bakhe ubulungu obusha beqembu. “Us” uma uqhathanisa “Nabo” kumele babe “Thina.” Leli qembu elisha elihlanganisiwe liba lula ukwakha lapho kunesitha esivamile; esibonelweni sethu, ngamanye amaqembu ebhola aqhamuka kwezinye izikole. Isinyathelo 3: Bona Abantu, Hhayi Amalungu Eqembu Nje Enye yezindlela zokuziphatha esoteric evezwe ngu-Allport ukuthi ukuze izinkolelo-ze zisuswe ngempela, iqembu ngalinye kufanele libone amalungu eqembu eliphambene njengabantu abahlukene hhayi nje njengommeleli weqembu lonke. Uma kuvela umfokazi ovela kuPlanethi X futhi ngimazi njengoBlark the Alien, kuhle lokho. Kepha, uma uBlark ewathanda ngempela ama-hotdogs, noma ngabe singabangani, ngisengacabanga ukuthi bonke abantu abavela ePlanethi X ngokufanayo bathanda ama-hotdogs. Futhi, noma ngabe lokhu kuyinkolelo enhle noma enobungozi, ngisacabanga okuthile ngesakhamuzi SONKE sePlanethi X. Lokho kusengumbono ohlukile. Ukunqoba izinkolelo zami, kufanele ngiqaphele ukuthi uBlark ungumuntu ongahle angabi nezintandokazi ezifanayo nawo wonke umuntu wasePlanethi X. Lesi sici esithile sombono siqokonyiswa ekuqaleni kwekamu lokuqeqeshwa kwebhola lapho umqeqeshi uBoone edinga ukuthi umfundi ngamunye oMnyama ahlangane nomfundi ngamunye waseMhlophe, ngamunye, futhi bobabili abafundi kumele bafunde imininingwane yomuntu mayelana nozakwabo. Ngokufunda ukubona umehluko phakathi kwamalungu eqembu, bayaphoqeleka ukuthi babone ukuthi "labo bantu" (bazo zombili izinhlanga) abafani. Ngakho-ke, izinkolelo-ze mayelana "nalabo bantu" azisho lutho. Umbandela wokugcina ka-Allport wokuqeda ubutha phakathi kwamaqembu ukuthi iziphathimandla ezikhona kumele zisekele ushintsho nokuhlanganiswa. Kulezi zinsizwa, izibonelo zazo ngabazali nabaqeqeshi bazo. Uma bebona izibonelo ezimbi, nabo bazolandela. Lesi sinyathelo esibaluleke kakhulu kule nqubo sibonakala ku- "Khumbula ama-Titans" njengoba abazali bomphakathi bebona izingane zabo zakha ubungane nolunye uhlanga, futhi baphoqeleka ukuthi babhekane nobandlululo lwabo. Okubaluleke nakakhulu kubadlali bebhola, noma kunjalo, ukuxhumana phakathi kukaCoach Boone noMqeqeshi Yoast. Njengabadlali nje, laba baqeqeshi bobabili bayancintisana, bayasola futhi banenkani. Kodwa-ke, ngenxa yezinyathelo ezi-3 ezibalulwe ngenhla, nabo bafunda ukubona okuhle komunye nomunye futhi ekugcineni babe ngabangane. Kuyavunywa, ukuzwana kwezinhlanga akulula njenge-movie yamaDisney yamahora amabili. "Khumbula amaTitans" yenza lula izinkulungwane, uma kungenjalo izigidi, zeminyaka yobutha obuhlanganayo kusukela lapho abantu babeqala ukubanga isikhala emhumeni. Kepha kusekelwe endabeni eyiqiniso. Izinkulungwane zabantu zidlule kokuhlangenwe nakho okunjalo okuguqukayo futhi zafunda ukuvula izinhliziyo zazo kubantu abangabonakala behlukile ngaphandle, kepha babelana ngamaphupho nomoya ofanayo ngaphakathi. Futhi asikwazi ukwenza ukuphela kwe- "Titans" kube yinjongo yethu? Imidlalo yamaqembu, kwesinye isikhathi, ingaholela ekunqobeni okuningi kunaleyo esenkundleni. I-Copyright Wind Goodfriend, Ph.D. 
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