Setha izinqumo zonyaka omusha noma uphile ngenhloso manje?

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• Ungayibeka Kanjani Imigomo Yokuvelela Engaphezulu

Kuleli sonto, iklayenti lami lingibuze ukuthi ngizobe ngisebenza phakathi kukaKhisimusi noNyaka Omusha. Bengingazi. Bengilokhu ngishaja ijubane eliphelele phambili futhi bengingacabangi ngakho. Ngibonga iklayenti lami ngokungishukumisela ukuba ngibheke phezulu kwikhompyutha yami bese ngithatha isikhashana ukucabanga ngokuphela kuka-2020 nango-2021 osondela. Ngiyethemba ukuthi lokhu okuthunyelwe kwebhulogi kungasebenza njengesikhuthazo nakuwe.

Ukuphela kukaDisemba kubonisa iphuzu lokushintsha. Yisikhathi lapho abantu babelana ngemicabango yabo yokuthi unyaka odlule uhambe kanjani, injabulo yabo nosizi lwabo, futhi babeka izinqumo ngethemba lokuthi bazohamba kangcono kulo nyaka omusha. Sibambelele kumbono wonyaka ongcono, wethu ongcono, nekusasa elingcono. Unyaka omusha, ukuqala okusha, izinqumo ezintsha.

Umqondo nokuqaliswa kwezinqumo kungaba nzima kwabaningi ukubhekana nakho. Uma izinqumo Zonyaka Omusha zingakusebenzeli, ngikumema ukuthi ucabangele umqondo wokubeka izinhloso bese uqala manje.

Thatha isikhashana ucabange ukuthi izinqumo zikusebenzela kanjani

Sibeka izinqumo ezisuselwa ezintweni esifuna ukuzithuthukisa futhi siziguqule empilweni yethu. Isichazamazwi seCambridge sichaza izinqumo ngokuthi "isithembiso kuwe sokuthi uzokwenza noma ungenzi lutho." Into yokuqala efika engqondweni lapho ngifunda lokhu ukuthi: Kwenzekani lapho sizephula isithembiso kithi?

Ngokuvamile lokhu kuhamba kimi: Kuwo wonke uJanuwari, ngiyaqina ngalezo zinqumo. Woza maphakathi noFebhuwari, ubusha bonyaka omusha buyaphela futhi lokhu kuhambisana nezidingo ezengeziwe zempilo. Ngakho-ke lezo zinqumo ziqala ukuthatha isihlalo esingemuva. Lokhu kuletha ukukhungatheka noma ukudumala "ngokungaphumeleli," nokushiya kancane kancane izinqumo kube sengathi azikaze zibaluleke ngempela. Ngonyaka omusha olandelayo, ngangizobe sengikhohliwe ukuthi zithini izinqumo zami kwasekuqaleni, nokho ngabuyisela ezintsha futhi. Ukwenza into efanayo futhi silindele imiphumela ehlukile ...

I-Caveat: Uma ukubeka izinqumo Zonyaka Omusha kukusebenzele, yiba nakho. Lokhu kumayelana nokuthola okudingayo nokuthi yini okukusizayo wena uqobo.

Ukubeka izinhloso

Kuthiwani uma sigxila ekugxileni kokubeka izinhloso?

Izinhloso zimayelana nokuthi sifuna bani kube ngomzuzu wamanje nokuthi sifuna ukuvela kanjani ezimpilweni zethu. Izinhloso zisuselwa kulokho okuyizindinganiso zethu, okungukuthi, okubaluleke kithina ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene zempilo yethu, njengempilo yethu yomzimba, impilo yengqondo, umsebenzi, ukuzilibazisa, ubudlelwano nomndeni, abangane, abalingani, imfundo.

Izinhloso zehlukile ezinhlosweni ngoba izinhloso zimayelana nalokho thina yenza . Kodwa-ke, zihlobene ngoba izinhloso zisinikeza umkhombandlela futhi zizosinika amandla okusetha nokufeza izinhloso; ukwenza nokuthatha izinqumo ezihlonipha umuntu esifuna ukuba asekelwe kulokho okubalulekile kithi. Lokhu kungasenza sikwazi ukuphila impilo enenjongo futhi sibe nobudlelwano obugculisayo nabanye kanye nathi uqobo njengamanje.

Nawa amanye amaphuzu ambalwa okufanele ubhekwe maqondana nezicupho eziza nezinqumo nokuthi izinhloso zingangena kanjani ukusiza.

Ukuqala manje kunokulinda ikusasa

Izinqumo zithinteka ekufinyeleleni imigomo esikhathini esizayo (ngokwesibonelo, ekupheleni kwenyanga noma konyaka). Inselelo eyodwa ngalokhu ukuthi ukulinda ukuqala izinqumo onyakeni omusha kungakhuphula amathuba okuthi siziphathe ngendlela ehlukile kuze kube yileso sikhathi. Isibonelo, uma isinqumo sethu kungukudla ukudla okunomsoco onyakeni omusha, singazitika ngokudla okungenamsoco okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka ngaphambi kwalokho. Lokhu ngeke nje kubize impilo yethu okwamanje, kepha kuzofanele sisebenze kanzima ukuze sibe nempilo onyakeni omusha. Lokhu kungazilimaza ngoba kwenza isinqumo sethu singathandeki futhi kube nzima ukusigcina esikhathini eside esizayo.

Enye inselelo ngezinqumo ezigxile esikhathini esizayo ukuthi kungathatha amasonto nezinyanga ukuzwa izinzuzo zenguquko ngoba imikhuba ithatha isikhathi nokuphikelela ukwephula. Ngakho-ke, okwamanje, kungenzeka ukuthi asinakho ukuqiniswa okwanele okwanele ukusigcina siqhubeka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, sithambekele ekunciphiseni okungaphezu kwalokho esingakuhlafuna njengoba sibeka izinqumo eziningi, ezinkulu zonyaka omusha ngaphandle kwezinhlelo nezinhloso ezanele ngokwendlela yokuzifeza: Ngizolungela futhi nginciphise umzimba, ngiqale umdlalo wokuzilibazisa omusha, ngiyeke ukuphuza, ngisebenzele ukukhushulelwa esikhundleni. Kulula ukubona ukuthi lokhu kungakucindezela kanjani.

Kufana nomqondo "wokuphila ngempelasonto." Ngenkathi ukucabanga ngezinhlelo zangempelasonto kungasebenza njengomthombo wesikhuthazo sokuqhubeka nokuqhubeka, kungahle kube nemiphumela ebengahlosiwe. NgoLwesibili sesivele sibala izinsuku futhi ngeSonto ntambama kuya ngoLwesine kusihlwa singazizwa sibuhlungu ukudlula.

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