Isimilo sabaHoli Bethu: Sibalulekile noma asihambisani?

Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi - izinqubomgomo eceleni - umholi wezwe lentando yeningi kufanele abe ngumuntu onesizotha nobuqotho, isakhamuzi esihloniphekile, iMensch?

Ngabe udinga ukuba umuntu oziphethe kahle, ohloniphayo nonolwazi, oyisibonelo esikhuthazayo intsha (nabazali bayo) engafisa ukulingisa? Ngabe kufanele bazinikele kakhulu ezweni nasezakhamuzini zalo kunokuzibophezela kubo?

Ezweni elihle, ngifisa ukuphendula ngo "yebo" kule mibuzo. Abanye bangacabanga ukuthi ngibona ngeso lengqondo iphupho elingenakwenzeka, kanti ngokudabukisayo, “ezweni langempela,” bangahle babe neqiniso: Impela kungaba nzima ukuthola abaholi bezepolitiki abahlanganisa zonke lezo zimfanelo.

Ukuqhubekisela phambili izindaba, siyazi ukuthi ukuba ngumuntu oyisibonelo akuqinisekisi ngamakhono obuholi obuhlukile, futhi umholi okhethiwe ongumkhohlisi ongenacala angafeza intuthuko ethile ezweni lakhe.

Lapho osaziwayo namaqhawe bedalulwa futhi behlazeka, bavele bavele emseni. Ukungaziphathi kahle komuntu siqu noma ukungathembeki, imvamisa ezocansi, ezihlobene nezidakamizwa, ezinobudlova, noma zokukhwabanisa, zenzeka emisebenzini eminingi esweni lomphakathi, njengemidlalo, ezokuzijabulisa nezamabhizinisi.

Ukuvezwa kwabo kulandelwa ngokungenakugwenywa ukufakwa kweposi emphakathini, ukusolwa kwabezindaba, noma ukusulwa emisebenzini. Ukulahlwa okusobala enkantolo ngombono womphakathi kungaholela nasekugwetshweni ezinkantolo zomthetho.

Angibeki izaba ngamaphutha abo noma ngokuziphatha okubi, futhi uma kufanele, kufanele bajeziswe ngempela. Kepha iqiniso liwukuthi basayine ukuba babe namakhono amangalisayo kwezobuciko babo, ifomu lobuciko, ezemidlalo, noma ubungcweti. Bazinakekela izidingo zethu zezinkanyezi, futhi babesithokozisa, mhlawumbe besithokozisa, nathi sabe sibathanda ngempumelelo yabo evelele.

Kepha abazisayinisanga ukuba izakhamizi ezihloniphekile kanye nezibonelo zokuziphatha esingathanda babe yizo, okuchaza ngokwengxenye ukudumala kwethu nokuhlekwa usulu okungazelelwe lapho behluleka kulolo vivinyo.

Kepha izikhulu ezikhethiwe kanye nabaholi bezepolitiki basesigabeni esihlukile futhi kufanele babanjwe ezingeni eliphakeme lokuziphatha komuntu siqu. Benza, empeleni, "basayina": Ukufeza isikhundla sikahulumeni kufaka phakathi imithwalo yemfanelo yomphakathi kanye nobuholi. Izakhamizi zilindele ukuthi abaholi bazo bafanelwe ukuhlonishwa futhi zifuna ukuzwa ukuthi zinenhlalakahle yazo ezinhliziyweni futhi zingabantu abathembekile nabaziphethe kahle.

Ukuthi abaningi batholakale beswele akuyona inkinga yezinhlangano, ngoba abaholi abanamaphutha abo bavela ezinhlangothini zesobunxele nezangakwesokudla kohlangothi lwezepolitiki.

Okuningi kokungaqondakali okuqondiswe kuMongameli uTrump kuhloswe ngakho ukungaziphathi kahle kwakhe, ukukhuluma okuhlaselayo nokuziphatha komphakathi. (Angikhulumi ngezinqubomgomo zakhe noma isimo sakhe sengqondo, womabili axoxwa kabanzi kwabezindaba). Lezi zici zikhonjiswa ngokusobala 24/7 ekubukeni kwakhe esidlangalaleni, ezinkulumweni, ezingxoxweni, ekuziphatheni futhi nakuma-tweets akhe.

Ukhulume ngokubamba abantu besifazane ngendlela engafanele futhi ukujwayezile ukubukeka namakhono abo. Ubehlise isithunzi abagxeki bakhe bezepolitiki, futhi wamelela kabi amaqiniso nokufeza okuthile. Wenze izinkulumo zokuzwelana nabacwasi abanobudlova kanye namaNazi amasha, wagcona intatheli enempilo futhi ethuka ubaba wesosha eliwile.

Ukhuthaze udlame olubhekiswe kwabezindaba nakubantu abahlukumezayo futhi usekele ubuzwe babantu abaningi. Uyazenyanya izifundo zomlando, ezokuxhumana, nezesayensi.

Futhi-ke: Uhlala ethambile futhi ethandwa ngesisekelo sakhe esivuthayo, esithanda izikhulu zakhe zobushiqela. Lapho bezwa ngokwengeziwe ngezenzo zakhe ezimbi nangenjabulo yakhe yokweyisa “izitha” zakhe, kulapho bedonsekela ngokwengeziwe kuye.

Ukuqhuma okunamandla kwabaholi kuvamile emibusweni eminingi ngakwesobunxele nangakwesokudla. Manje sibona i-populism efanayo ethukuthele evezwa ngabazimele njengamanje abaphethe noma bekhula "izindlalifa-ezibonakalayo" kwamanye amazwe amaningi. Ubuntu besiphathimandla buvusa imibono ephikisanayo, banconywe ngabasekeli futhi beshaywa ngabahlambalazi.

Lapho abantu bebona izingcaphuno ezifanayo zabezindaba, ukuthatha kwabo kwehluka kakhulu, kuya ngobumbano noma ukwenyanya kwabo umholi. Babuka iziqeshana ezifanayo kodwa baphikisana ngokuqinile nemibono ngalokho abakubonile. Ifilimu yakudala URashomon, iqondiswe ngu-Akira Kurosawa omkhulu, ikhombise ngokusobala abantu ababambe iqhaza emicimbini efanayo bekhumbula ama-akhawunti ahluke kakhulu walokho abakubona.

Imibono ingaphansi kokukhohliswa futhi izinkolelo ezinamandla zinganqoba amaqiniso abonakalayo. Ukucwaninga kwami ​​ngamalungu okholelwa ngokweqiniso ezinkolo kukhombisile ukuthi ukukhulekelwa ngentshiseko komholi okhohlisayo kungayihlanekezela kakhulu imibono, kukhungathekise ukuqonda, futhi kuguqule imizwa. Akukhona nje ukuqondana kwezinto ukuthi abaholi bezinkolo zobuMesiya kanye nezidemokhrasi bobabili baheha abantu abanganelisekanga ngezimpilo zabo futhi bafuna izimpendulo.

Lapho abantu abasindwe yizinkinga zezezimali behlala phakathi kwengcebo ewubukhazikhazi, futhi lapho bezizwa bengavikelekile ngezinguquko ezisheshayo zezobuchwepheshe nezenhlalo, bakhungatheka kakhulu. Lapho kungekho mpumuzo obonakalayo futhi becabanga ukuthi izimo zabo ezinzima ziya ngokuya ziba zimbi, bayadangala, baphelelwe yithemba, futhi baphelelwe yithemba.

Basengozini enkulu emazwini akhangayo omholi kazibuthe ozwakalisa ukuzwelana kwakhe okujulile futhi anikeze ukwethembeka kosizi nentukuthelo yabo. Umholi uthatha amandla abo athwelwe ukukhungatheka futhi ngozwela “ubadlalisa” kubo.

Lo mholi onethezekile uqinisekisa izethameli zakhe ukuthi “uzithola” ngokuphelele izikhalazo zabo futhi uyabafuthelana nentukuthelo yabo ebilayo. Ngaso sonke isikhathi usola "abanye" ekhaya nakwamanye amazwe ngokuhlupheka kwabo, futhi uzibophezela ekubajeziseni noma ekubaxosheni. Uthembisa ukuholela abalandeli bakhe endleleni ecacile eya empilweni engcono nenjabulo yomuntu siqu.

Lezi zethembiso zizwakala “njengemana evela ezulwini,” okuyizipho ezinhle ngokumangalisayo ezinikezwa ngumholi obona ngokweqiniso.

Manje sengiyakubuza: Yiziphi izici zomuntu siqu zomholi ezingase zikhange izakhamuzi ezikhungathekiswe kakhulu nezisongelwayo: Integrity-Civility-Reason-Benevolence, noma Intukuthelo-Aggression-Authoritarianism-Nativism?

Futhi ngokwengeziwe, yiluphi uhlobo lomholi olubalulekile kuwe nakubantwana bakho?