Ukuphela Kwendaba Akuyona Indaba

Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esathola umklomelo kaNobel uDaniel Kahneman sehlukanisa phakathi kobuntu obuzwayo nobuyena obukhumbulayo. Umuntu ozibonayo uzizwa ezenzeka njengamanje, kanti umuntu okhumbulayo ubheka emuva futhi azwe izinkumbulo zale micimbi. Ngokuphawulekayo, thina isipiliyoni imicimbi ngokungaguquguquki nangokugcwele kuyo yonke, kepha thina khumbula imicimbi ngokuya ngokuthi iphela kanjani.

Ake sithi senza inqubo yamazinyo eqhubeka ngokungafanele - kuze kube sekupheleni, lapho iphela ngemizuzu emi-5 yobuhlungu obulinganiselayo. Sibe sesiya kudokotela wamazinyo okwesibili bese senza inqubo efanayo, kepha ngemizuzu eyi-10 yobuhlungu obulinganisiwe maphakathi cha ubuhlungu ekugcineni. Noma sike sezwa ubuhlungu obulinganiselwa kwinqubo yokuqala, sizoyikhumbula njengokuthi Okuningi kubuhlungu ngoba ubuhlungu bufike ekugcineni.

Noma siya kumamuvi ajabulisayo futhi athokozisayo kuyo yonke indawo, ngaphandle kwesiphetho esidumazayo. Singase sikhumbule kamuva ukuthi i-movie yayingathandeki kakhulu, noma iningi lesipiliyoni sethu lalithandeka. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ibhayisikobho engasho lutho enesiphetho esakhayo, esijabulisayo ingakhunjulwa njengesikhathi esihle.

Umphumela ofanayo wenzeka ngamaholide ehlobo, izifundo zasekolishi, neminye imicimbi enwetshiwe. UShakespeare wayeqinisile uma ethi "konke kuhamba kahle lokho kugcina kahle." Kepha ngomqondo, isiphetho esingaphilile sisho ukuthi konke kunjalo hhayi kahle.

Kungani ukuphela kuthonya ngokungalingani imemori yethu kukho konke okuhlangenwe nakho?

1) Isizathu esisodwa ukuthi ukuphela kunganikeza incazelo kuwo wonke umcimbi, bese sikhumbula le ncazelo ephelele.

Uma ukudutshulwa kwamaphuzu amathathu ekupheleni komdlalo we-basketball osondele kunquma ukuthi ngubani ophumelelayo nokuthi ngubani olahlwayo, lokho kudubula kunikeza umdlalo incazelo. Noma izibukeli zihlangabezane nemidlalo eminingi ejabulisayo phakathi nomdlalo, ukuphela kuyaqondakala kakhulu kumuntu okhumbulayo. Ngokufanayo, ukhetho lwezepolitiki luthola incazelo yalo kusukela ekubalweni kokugcina kwamavoti, noma ngabe bekukhona izinqumo ezibalulekile nemicimbi endleleni.

2) Esinye isizathu esenza sigcizelele ukuphela ukuthi sibheka izindlela zobuciko ezilandisayo ukuhlela izimpilo zethu. Silinganisa imicimbi yethu yempilo ngezigaba ezichazayo ezilandelwayo.

Amabhayisikobho amaningi, amanoveli, izindaba ezimfushane, nezinkondlo ezibabazekayo ziya esiphethweni esigculisayo, isiphetho esizwakalayo esizwakala ngale kwendaba. Iziphetho kunzima ukuzibhala ngqo ngenxa yalesi sibopho sokuvalwa kokulandisa. UHemingway wakwazi lokhu ngenkathi ebhala iziphetho ezingamashumi amane nesikhombisa ezahlukahlukene Ukuvalelisa Ngezikhali ngaphambi kokugcina ukhethe eyodwa.

Ukuvela kokugcina kuhlala isikhathi eside. Futhi kwezobuciko, sithola kuphela ithuba elilodwa lokwenza okokugcina. Empilweni, noma kunjalo, asinaso isibopho sesiphetho esihle.

3) Esinye futhi isizathu sokugcizelela ukuphela inganekwane yaphakade, evame ukucelwa ngobudlelwano nemisebenzi. Lapho imishado iphela ngesahlukaniso, bangatolikwa futhi bakhunjulwe ngokuthi “bahlulekile” - noma ngabe badala iminyaka enenjabulo nezingane ezinempilo endleleni. Uma othile edilizwa noma exoshwa emsebenzini, umsebenzi okhiqizayo ungangcoliswa ukuphela okungazelelwe nokungajabulisi. Izinganekwane zingaba usizo ekulandiseni izindaba zezimpilo zethu, kepha inganekwane yaphakade ingathwesa umthwalo ngokungadingekile ekukhumbuleni kwethu.

Vele, asidingi ukulungisa izinkumbulo zemicimbi eneziphetho ezijabulisayo. Kepha singakwazi ukuhlela kabusha izinkumbulo zemicimbi ize neziphetho ezingemnandi. Angikhuthazi ukwenqatshelwa kwemiphumela yangempela. Esikhundleni salokho, ngincoma ukuqashelwa okugcwele nokukhunjulwa kokuhlangenwe nakho okuphelele. Lokhu singakwenza ngobudlelwano bezothando obuye buchitheke, ubungani buphele, amaphrojekthi angasebenzi, imisebenzi eqeda ngokungalindelekile, kanye nokulahleka okujwayelekile okwenzeka ezimpilweni zethu zonke.

• Impilo igcwele middles. Khumbula bese uqokomisa le micimbi emaphakathi. Vumela ukudabuka ngokulahlekelwa okukhulu, kodwa futhi uzivumele ucabangisise futhi uthokozele konke okwenziwayo.
• Uma kungenzeka, phinda ufake uphawu kumicimbi ekhunjulwayo ngokukhomba ukuphela okuhlukile. Khetha leyo ngxoxo ebamba amahora amathathu ngaphambi nje kokuba umngane wakho asuke - hhayi ukuvalelisa okude, okunzima.
• Ungaphathi impilo yangempela njengendaba ebhaliwe. Imicimbi yempilo ayihlelwanga ngezenzo ezintathu, iphetha ngeziphetho ezibhalwe kahle. Imvamisa ziyaxaka futhi azipheleli - futhi akufanele zibanjelwe emazingeni aqine obuciko bokulandisa. Okujabulisayo-okwenzeka njalo kumabhayisikobho. Ukuphuma ngomusa esiteji esisele kwenzeka enkundleni yemidlalo yaseshashalazini. Ukuthatha indlela yesinema noma yaseshashalazini empilweni kusisusa kuphela emicimbini yangempela ebukhoma.

Sichitha isikhathi sisebenzisa izinkumbulo zethu, ngakho-ke kufanele sibe abathengi abafundile. Akudingeki sinqotshwe ukuphela okugcizelelwe ngokweqile. Noma singeke sibe nenhlekelele enesiphetho esijabulisayo, singasebenzela ukuvimbela ukuphela ukuthi kubumbe isipiliyoni sethu sonke esikhunjulwayo. Esikhundleni sokugqamisa ukuphela okungathandeki, singagqamisa futhi sikhumbule ama-middle ethu ajabule. Impela, okuningi okwenzeka empilweni kwenzeka phakathi. Ukuphela kwendaba akuyona indaba.