Izimpawu Eziyisixwayiso Ezibalulekile Zokucindezeleka Kwangemva Kokubeletha

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• Amaphuzu abalulekile
• Ubuntofontofo:
• Ukukhathala njalo:
• Ukuzisola:
• Isifiso sokubaleka:
• Ngezansi:

Amaphuzu abalulekile

• Imibhangqwana ethola imishanguzo yokungazali inamazinga aphezulu okucindezeleka nokukhathazeka ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nangemva kokubeletha, ngokusho kocwaningo oluqhubekayo.
• Ukwazi ukuthi abantu abelashwa imishanguzo yokungazali bangaba namathuba amaningi okuthi babhekane nokudangala kwangemva kokubeletha kungabasiza ukuthi bathole usizo ngaphambi kokuvela kwezinkinga ezinkulu.
• Izimpawu ezijwayelekile zokudangala kwangemva kokubeletha zifaka ukuba ndikindiki, ukukhathala okungapheli, ukuzisola nesifiso sokubaleka.
• Ukunakekelwa kwezempilo yengqondo kochwepheshe abanolwazi kungasiza.

Imvamisa kuyamangaza lapho usaziwayo okwazi ukunakekela izingane ongcono kakhulu enezinkinga ezifanayo nezabesifazane abangaphansi, kepha ngikholwa ukuthi bekukhona uphawu olukhulu lwexwayiso okungenzeka ukuthi lusize uChrissy Teigen nomyeni wakhe, umculi uJohn Legend, ukuthola usizo ngokushesha. UTeigen ubenomlando omude ngokungabi nenzalo kanti nocwaningo lwami lukhombisa ukuthi lokhu kungaba yinkomba ebalulekile.

Okunye okutholakele okumangazayo kocwaningo esilwenza eNyuvesi yaseCalgary kukhombisa ukuthi imibhangqwana ethola imishanguzo yokungatholi inzalo inamazinga aphezulu okucindezeleka nokukhathazeka ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nangemva kokubeletha. Yize lokhu kungabonakala kungakhathazi, kunganikeza umbhangqwana ukuqala ikhanda. Behlome ngalolu lwazi, abesifazane abakhulelwe kanye nabalingani babo abangena kulesi sigaba bangathola owelapha ozobasiza ukuthi bahambise imizwa enzima okungenzeka ukuthi babhekene nayo futhi basuse izinkinga ezimbi phansi komgwaqo.

Kuningi ongakufunda endabeni kaTeigen. Njengoba abelana ngesikhathi kuxoxwa naye, ubenezimpawu ezijwayelekile zokuxwayisa.

Ubuntofontofo:

Ngaphelelwa isasasa lakho konke. ”

Ukukhathala njalo:

Angikwazi ukuvuka embhedeni. ”

Ukuzisola:

“Kunzima impela ukwazi ukuthi unelungelo elingakanani futhi usazizwa ukhungathekile, uthukuthele futhi unesizungu. Kukwenza uzizwe ungaphezulu kwe- b * * * *. ”

Isifiso sokubaleka:

Udokotela wabuza, “’ Unayo le mizwa? Ungajabula kusasa uma ungavukanga? ' Futhi yebo, kungenzeka ngibe. Yinto enkulu leyo! Angizange ngiqaphele ukuthi kwakukubi kangakanani ngaze ngaphuma kuwo. ”

Uma enye yalezi zimpawu ikhala insimbi, ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa noma ngemuva kokubeletha, sicela ungangabazi ukuxoxa ngakho nodokotela wakho bese uthola usizo. Akunasidingo sokuhlupheka buthule futhi kuningi ongakuzuza ngokuthola usizo zisuka nje.

Funda ngezingozi zokuphelela lapho ukhulelwe lapha.

Ngezansi:

UTeigen noLegend banethemba lokungeza ingane yesibili emndenini wabo futhi iqiniso lokuthi uthole usizo walulama kunethemba ngekusasa labo. Njengoba uTeigen asho, “Manje sengiyazi ukuthi ngiyibamba kanjani ngokushesha.” Ngokunakekelwa okuhle kwezempilo yengqondo kusuka kumelaphi onolwazi, imibhangqwana eye yabhekana nokungazali, kanye nomama abake bahlala ne-PPD ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwabo kwangaphambilini, bangathola usizo lokuthuthukisa imiphumela lapho belindele izingane ezizayo.