Ukuphela Kwendlela Yokudla Indlovu

UDesmond Tutu wake wathi ngokuhlakanipha "kunendlela eyodwa kuphela yokudla indlovu: ukuluma ngesikhathi esisodwa." Wayesho ukuthini ngalokhu ukuthi yonke into empilweni ebonakala inzima, ikhathaza, futhi ingenzeki ingafezwa kancane kancane ngokuthatha kancane ngesikhathi.

Uma ngabe wake wafuna ukufeza okuthile okukhulu, uyazi ukuthi ukuqala kungaba yinselelo ethile. Mhlawumbe unombono ongacacile ngalokhu okufunayo kepha awunalo ulwazi lokuthi ungakuthola kanjani. Noma mhlawumbe uhlala phansi ucabange ngakho konke okufanele ukwenze futhi wesabe ngokuphelele, uqandeke uzizwe ungakwazi ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala.

Lokhu kuyinto ejwayelekile, futhi yingakho abantu abaningi behluleka ukwenza amaphupho abo abe ngokoqobo. Bazama ukudla yonke indlovu ngokuluma kube kanye.

Ukhiye obaluleke kakhulu wokudla indlovu njengoba kuhloselwe ukudliwa ukubeka imigomo. Abantu abangazi uqobo noma abasebenze nami ekwelashweni bayazi ukuthi ngingumlandeli omkhulu wezinhloso. Impilo nomsebenzi wami kunginikeze ubufakazi obenele bokuqinisekisa ukuthi abantu banamandla amakhulu kakhulu kunalokho esingakucabanga.

Kepha ukuze sisebenzise amandla ethu angenamkhawulo, kufanele sazi ukuthi yini esifuna ukuyifeza. Ukubeka izinhloso kuwumkhuba obalulekile wokwakha impilo enenjongo, eyenelisayo, nempumelelo. Futhi ngenkathi umkhuba wokubeka imigomo, ngokuvamile, ubalulekile, kunezindlela ezithile zokuzibekela imigomo eqhubeka nokwandisa amathuba okuphumelela.

Indlela enamandla kakhulu yokubeka izinhloso isebenzisa isichazamazwi esihlakaniphile i-SMART ukuqondisa inqubo yokuguqula amaphupho amakhulu abe yiqiniso. Uma usuqhamuke nomgomo, hlola ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uhlangabezana nale mibandela elandelayo:

Ngokuqondile

Cacisa futhi ukhonkolo mayelana nalokho ofuna ukukufeza. Kulula kakhulu ukusebenzela ukuthola umgomo othile (ulahlekelwe ngamakhilogremu ayi-12) kunokusebenzela ukufinyelela kokungaqondakali (fometha). Lapho usebenza kulesi sici senhloso yakho, ngeso lengqondo ukuthi wena nokuthi impilo yakho izobukeka kanjani uma usuyifezile. Lokho kuzokusiza ukuthi uchaze kahle lokho ofuna ukukufeza.

Iyalinganiseka

Setha umgomo okuvumela ukuthi ukale intuthuko yakho ukuyifeza. Zibuze lo mbuzo olandelayo: Ngizokwazi kanjani ukuthi ngiwufezile umgomo wami? Abanye abantu bakuthola kuwusizo ukwehlukanisa umgomo omkhulu wehlele ezinhlosweni ezincane, ezilinganisekayo.

Isibonelo, uma inhloso yakho enkulu ukuqala ibhizinisi, ungakudiliza lokho kuzo zonke izinyathelo eziqhubekayo ozozithatha lapho usendleleni: Dala igama lebhizinisi, ubhalise ibhizinisi, usethe i-ID yentela, njll. Inhloso elinganisekayo iyindlela ebalulekile yokuzigcina usendleleni. Ibhonasi ukuthi ungabungaza endleleni njengoba ufinyelela ngayinye yezinjongo ezikusondeza empumelelweni!

Kuyatholakala

Yenza imigomo yakho ibe ngokoqobo. Olunye lwezingibe ezinkulu empumelelweni ukwenza umgomo ube mkhulu kakhulu. Awufuni ukuluma ngaphezu kwalokho ongakuhlafuna, ngakho-ke zinike isikhathi sokucabangisisa ngenhloso yakho futhi uqiniseke ukuthi kunengqondo futhi kunengqondo. Uma useminyakeni yama-30s futhi unothando lwe-baseball, kuzokwenza umqondo omkhulu ukusetha umgomo wokuba ngumqeqeshi weLittle League kunokuhlose ukuba ngumdlali odumile we-MLB. Thuthukisa amathuba akho okwenza amaphupho akho afezeke ngokufaka iqiniso ngokoqobo ezinhlelweni zakho.

Kuyafaneleka

Setha umgomo osho okuthile kuwe. Ukusebenzela izinhloso zakho, noma ngabe kukhulu noma kuncane kangakanani, kudinga umsebenzi. Ngokubeka umgomo ozithandayo futhi ofuna ukuwufinyelela, uzoba sethubeni lokuhlala ukhuthazekile endleleni. Lapho ukuhamba kuba nzima, ungazikhumbuza ukuthi ufuna kangakanani ukufinyelela impilo yokuqeda bese uthola amandla okuqhubeka.

Isikhathi Esibekelwe

Setha umnqamulajuqu, bese uzibophezela kuwo! Ukubeka izitembu zesikhathi ezinhlosweni zakho kuyindlela yokuzibophezela futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uhlala ugxile futhi usebenza. Ungadinga ukwenza ucwaningo ukuthola ukuthi ungalindela isikhathi esingakanani ukuthi kufanele usebenze emgomweni wakho ngaphambi kokukufeza. Uma ungabeki umnqamulajuqu, ngeke ube nethuba lokuhlala uzibophezele futhi ugcine amasondo esebenza.

Ngena ngomnqamulajuqu wakho njalo futhi ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uhlala ungokoqobo, futhi uwusebenzise njengendlela yokuhlala ukhuthazekile.

Umqeqeshi okhuthazayo uZig Ziglar usikhumbuza ukuthi "igoli elibekwe kahle lifinyelelwa maphakathi." Ukuzibekela umgomo kufana nokudla indlovu. Kancane kancane, luma ngokuluma, wenza lokho obekubonakala kungenakwenzeka ekuqaleni. Usondela kancane ekuphileni impilo yakho enhle kakhulu. Unakho okudingekayo; manje thola i-SMART bese uguqula lawo maphupho abe yiqiniso!