Ilungelo Lokuphila

-Delile

• Ukuzibulala Okubalulekile Okufundwayo
• Kungani Ukuzibulala Kwe-U.S kwehle ngo-2020?

UMfula uGale. UPiper Ann. I-Ava. UPierce, uChase noJameson. Lawa ngamanye amagama ezingane eziyi-18 zaseMelika ezafa ngokuzibulala ngoJanuwari 2021, izingane impilo yazo enqanyulwa ngabantu obekufanele babathande kakhulu.

Lokhu akwenzeki nje e-U.S.A. ERussia, u-Oksana Patchin oneminyaka engu-36 ubudala weqe kuvulandi nendodakazi yakhe eneminyaka emihlanu, wababulala bobabili. E-Australia, uKatie Perinovic wagwaza izingane zakhe ezintathu (iminyaka engu-7.5, no-3) ngaphambi kokuzibulala. Futhi eNdiya, uGirag Rana oneminyaka engama-28 ubudala wanquma imiphimbo yengane yakhe eneminyaka emibili no-4 nomkakhe ngaphambi kokuzilengisa.

Ingabe lokhu kuba ubhadane? Angicabangi ukuthi yimina ngedwa onake ukwanda kwezibalo zokubulawa kwabantu ezibikiwe ngonyaka odlule. Futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuthi lime. Kepha ngaphambi kokuthi simise, kufanele siqonde ukuthi iqala kanjani.

Ubuso Bokuzibulala

Phezu kwamacala asabekayo ahlasele abezindaba muva nje, ukuzibulala akuvamile. Yize lungekho uhlelo olusemthethweni lokulandelela lolu hlobo lobugebengu, ukuqagela kwethu okuhle, ngokususelwa ocwaningweni, ukulinganiselwa kokunye phakathi kuka-1000 no-1500 wase-US abazibulalayo minyaka yonke. Lokhu kungaphansi kakhulu kokuzibulala kwaminyaka yonke okungama-48,000 noma ukubulawa kwabantu okungu-18 830.

Ukulungiselela le ndaba, ngacwaninga ngemithombo yezindaba ezahlukahlukene ngoJanuwari 2021 ngathola izisulu zokuzibulala ze-109 ngalezo zinsuku ezingama-31. Uma siphumelela ngaphandle unyaka wonke, lokho kungaba izisulu zokuzibulala ze-1308 ngo-2021. Abangu-18, noma cishe amaphesenti ayi-17, kwakuyizingane. Lokho kuyahambisana nezinye izifundo ezitholile amaphesenti aphakathi kuka-14 kanye no-25%.

Kukhona isendlalelo sakho konke ukuzibulala futhi ngamunye uhlukile. Kepha sithola izingqikithi ezivamile. Uma kunokuzibulala “okujwayelekile”, kungahle kubonakale kanjena: Indoda ephethe izibhamu icindezelekile enomlando wodlame lwasekhaya nokusetshenziswa kotshwala, ngenxa yokunciphisa izingcindezi ezinjengokungqubuzana kobudlelwano okwandayo, ukwahlukana / isehlukaniso kwakamuva noma okulindile, noma izingqinamba zezezimali uzizwa ephelelwa yithemba futhi adubule abulale umkakhe / omunye obalulekile naye uqobo. Ukubulala uqobo kungahle kube ngokuxhamazela (phakathi kwengxabano eshubile noma phakathi kwemizwa enamandla yosizi) noma isenzo esihleliwe esihloselwe ukuxazulula inkinga yomuntu kepha cishe njalo kunemicabango esivele ikhona yokuzibulala elele ngemuva.Amalungu omndeni enwetshiwe aphatheke kabi kodwa awethuki; bakubona njengokukhula kokuhlukunyezwa okudala.

Kepha izinto ziba nzima kakhulu uma izingane zibandakanyeka.

Ubani Ongaqeda Izingane?

Ngenkathi amaphesenti angaphezu kuka-90 okubulala okubhekiswe kubantu abathandana kakhulu kungamadoda, izibalo ziyashintsha uma kukhulunywa ngokuzibulala kwabantu. Eqinisweni, ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi phakathi kwamaphesenti angama-25 kuye kwangama-50 okubulala okubandakanya izingane kwenziwa ngabesifazane. Uma sibheka ukuzibulala okubandakanya izisulu zezingane kuphela, amaphesenti angama-40 enziwa ngabenzi bobubi besifazane.

Izisusa zokuzibulala zibukeka zifana ocansini. Abanye abenzi bokuzibulala besilisa ababulala izingane kubonakala sengathi baqhutshwa isifiso sokujezisa / ukuziphindiselela kumlingani osondelene naye. Ngenyanga kaMeyi 2020, njengengxenye yokushintshaniswa kwenkantolo eyalela inkantolo phakathi necala lokwehlukanisa, uStephen Hatch wabuyisela indodana yakhe eneminyaka engu-10 ubudala, uCaleb, egumbini lakhe lokulala endlini yomkakhe owayengasahlali naye - ebulewe ngokudutshulwa ekhanda lakhe; wabe esedubula naye wazibulala. Phakathi kwamaphesenti angama-25 kuye kwangama-30 ezingane ezibulawa ngabenzi bobubi besilisa bezingahlobene ngokwemvelo nombulali wazo; babengabantwana bomlingani wabo osondelene naye, ngokusobala ababulawa befuna ukuziphindiselela. Abesifazane mancane kakhulu amathuba okubulala ngenxa yokuziphindiselela, kodwa kuyenzeka.

Kunesinye isisusa esidlalwayo lapho kuhileleka ukuzibulala nge-filicide; abanye abacwaningi bakubiza ngokuthi ukuzidela okungafanele noma isihe esonakele. Kubandakanya inkolelo eyiphutha yomenzi wobubi yokuthi ukufa kuyindlela engcono kakhulu enganeni. Njengoba umzali eqhubeka nokudangala futhi efuna ukuzibulala ngenxa yezimo zabo, bayazikholisa ukuthi into efanele ukuyenza ukuhamba nezingane. Ukubashiya bodwa emhlabeni (noma okungenani ngaphandle komenzi wobubi) kuyinto embi kakhulu kunokufa.

Lokhu “kuzidela okungafanele” kuvame ukubangelwa ukugula okungalashwa. Ngicabanga ukuthi lezi, okungenani, izincazelo eziyingxenye. Iningi labantu alisoze lakucabanga ukubulala ingane yabo, noma ngabe zinjani izimo. Yebo, umzali ozibulala angakholelwa ngokweqiniso ukuthi ingane yakhe ingaphila kangcono ngaphandle kwakhe noma ukuthi ibe wumthwalo empilweni ejabulisayo yengane yakhe. Kepha akasoze akhohlwa iqiniso lokuthi izingane zikwazi ukubekezelela ngokumangalisayo noma ukuthi ingane yakhe ingumuntu ohlukile onezidingo zakhe, imicabango, nemizwa yakhe. Lokhu, ngicabanga, ngumehluko omkhulu phakathi komzali ozibulala nalabo abahamba naye obuka abangenacala; izinga lokunethezeka abelana ngalo.

Enye yezinto ezimangazayo engizibonile lapho ngicwaninga ngokuzibulala ngama-filicide ukuthi umzali owonayo wayehlonishwa kangaki njengomama onothando olukhethekile noma ubaba ozinikele ezinganeni zakhe. "Ubephilela lezo zingane." “Bekuyizwe lakhe lonke.” “Leyo bekuyinto yokugcina ebengingayilindela.” Abaphenyi baqaphele ukuthi amalungu omndeni amaningi avame ukuchaza ubudlelwane obuseduze phakathi kwamalungu emindeni ebulala abantu kunalawo lapho ilungu lomndeni lizibulala khona. Kepha kunephuzu lapho ukusondelana kufakwa khona.

Ukuzibulala Okubalulekile Okufundwayo

Kungani Ukuzibulala Kwe-U.S kwehle ngo-2020?