Umbuzo Wesibili Ovame ​​Kakhulu Ngiwuthola Njengesazi Sezengqondo

Ngivame ukubhala ngokudla ngokweqile, kodwa namuhla ngithanda ukwenza okulandelwayo endatshaneni yami yangaphambilini "Umbuzo Ovamile Ovame ​​Kakhulu Ngiwuthola Njengesazi Sezengqondo." Kulapho ngikhulume ngombono ovamile oweqile wokuthi izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo kufanele zibe zinhle kakhulu ekubeni nemizwa gxuma ukuze zingabuyisi ekhaya. Ngachaza ukuthi kungani lokhu kwakungelona iqiniso, nokuthi kungani kunalokho sithola okuhle ekubolekiseni amaklayenti umphefumulo wethu nokuvumela imizwa yabo ndlula thina. Siphinde sibe nekhono ekuhlolweni-ngoba uma uzoboleka umuntu umphefumulo wakho, udinga ukuthi uqiniseke kahle ukuthi ungamsiza, nokuthi wena ngokwakho ukulungele lokho, uma kungenjalo yenza uzizwe ulimele ngohambo.

Namuhla sizongena ngokuningiliziwe mayelana ne- okwesibili umbuzo ojwayelekile ngiwuthola lapho ngihlangana nomuntu omusha ngaphandle kwehhovisi empilweni yami: "Uyangihlaziya njengamanje?"

Ngamafuphi, cha, okungenani hhayi ngomqondo wokuthi umbuzo wenzelwe. Nakhu ukuthi kungani:

• Ukuhlaziya umuntu ngomqondo walokho okwenzekayo ekubonisaneni okusemthethweni empeleni kuwumsebenzi onzima kakhulu, kungaba sehhovisi noma nge-telemedicine. Ukuhlaziya othile ngobuqotho, kufanele ngizibeke esimweni sokugxila kakhulu, ngibeke eceleni izidingo zami, bese ngibuza imibuzo eminingi egxile kakhulu. Kufanele ngithathe amanothi aqaphile mayelana nalokho okushiwoyo futhi ngigxile engxoxweni ezindleleni ezithile zokuxilonga, ekuhloleni ubungozi, nasezindlela zokuxazulula izinkinga. Akukhona ukuthi izingcezu nezingxenye zalokhu kungenzeka zingangeni engxoxweni noma kunjalo ngaphandle Ihhovisi, kepha isimo somzwelo esidingekayo ukuthola umphumela onembile futhi ofiselekayo awukho nje. Empilweni yami, ngikhona okuhlobene, ayihlaziyi.
• Ngaphandle kwehhovisi, izinkomba eziningi ezibaluleke kakhulu azikho. Engxoxweni engaphandle kwehhovisi, izazi eziningi zengqondo zincike ekutholeni nasekwelapheni azikho ngokusobala. Isibonelo, lapho iklayenti licele, lihlelile, futhi lakhokhela ukubonisana ngosuku nesikhathi esithile, ungatshela okuningi ngokuthi avela kanjani egumbini lokulinda (noma ngabe libonakala), noma ngabe livela ngesikhathi, kanjani kuthatha isikhathi eside ukuthi baqale ukukhuluma, nokuzimisela kwabo ukubambisana nesikhathi nokwakheka. Abantu bayizidalwa eziyinkimbinkimbi, futhi noma imuphi umcabango noma indlela yokuziphatha enikezwe ingasho okuthile okuhluke kakhulu ezimeni ezahlukahlukene. Umongo ongaguquguquki wokubonisana okusemthethweni uletha umqondo ekugxileni ngendlela ehluke kakhulu kunalokho ongakufeza endaweni yokudlela, noma ngesikhathi socingo oluvamile. (Kunesizathu sokuthi odokotela abahlinzayo basebenze egumbini lokuhlinza kunokuba basebenze olwandle noma ephathini, ngokwesibonelo, futhi kunesizathu sokuthi odokotela bezengqondo basebenzise ukubonisana okusemthethweni.)
• Ubunzima bobudlelwano bomuntu buyayiphambanisa le ndaba. Ngoba ubudlelwano bomuntu siqu buhilela ukushintshana okuthe xaxa, kulula kakhulu ukudida izidingo zakho, imibono, kanye nemizwa yakho nomuntu osebenzisana naye. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zimane nje azinayo ilensi yezinhloso ezifanayo ngaphandle kwehhovisi vs. ngesikhathi sokubonisana komuntu siqu.
• Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo azikwazi ukubona ngaphakathi kwekhanda lakho. Asinawo umshini we-X-ray osivumela ukuthi ubone ukuthi ucabangani futhi uzizwa kanjani, noma "yini engalungile" ngawe. Esikhundleni salokho, sithembele ekuhlanganyeleni okuhlelekile njengoba kuchaziwe ngenhla, futhi, empeleni, vele uthathe ukuqagela okufundiswe kahle njengoba siqoqa imininingwane (nemizwa) ngalesi sakhiwo.

Ngaphandle kwalokhu okungenhla, ungawubona umehluko uma ukhuluma nodokotela wezengqondo ongaphandle kwehhovisi uma kuqhathaniswa nomuntu onokuqeqeshwa okuncane. Uma unentshisekelo engxoxweni enomphefumulo, ejulile, awu, nginjalo nakanjani umfana wakho! Ngakhetha i-psychology njengomsebenzi ngoba ngiyalwazisa uthando kunemali, inhloso nenjongo kunalokho okwenziwe ngaphandle, umphefumulo ngaphezu kwamandla. Kepha ngikuhlaziya ngaphandle kwehhovisi?

Cha! Ngaphandle kokuthi wonke umuntu njalo "ihlaziya" wonke umuntu. Sonke kufanele senze ukuhlolwa lapho sihlangana nomuntu mayelana nokuthi ungumngani noma uyisitha yini, yini abangayifuna kithi, ukuthi bayasahlulela yini nokuthi singaxhumana kanjani ngendlela ephephile futhi enobungani. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ngokwemvelo zingcono kulowo mdlalo, ngakho-ke, ngizobhekana nakho. Kepha ngokugcwele ukukuhlaziya?

Nah. Ngashiya lawo mathuluzi ehhovisi.

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