Izindlela Ezintathu Zokunqoba Izinselelo Zokuphila Ngaphambi kokuba Zenzeke

Kulezi zinsuku, wonke umuntu wazi kahle ukuthi ukunakekela imizimba yethu kahle kungavimbela izinkinga eziningi zezokwelapha ukuthi zingaveli kamuva. Sonke siyazi ukuthi sidinga ukuxubha nokuhlikihla amazinyo nsuku zonke, ukudla okunempilo, ukuzivocavoca umzimba nokulala ngokwanele. Yize singahle sikhuthale noma singawenzi kahle umzamo wethu ngezikhathi ezithile, sonke siyakuqonda ukubaluleka kwalezi zinto.

Sivame ukuba nokuqwashisa okuncane ngezenzo zokuvimbela okufanele sizithathe ukusiza ngezinkinga zempilo yengqondo; noma kunjalo, ukugcinwa kahle kwempilo yengqondo kubalulekile. Ngenkathi impilo yethu yengqondo ingase ibe mihle manje, abaningi bethu bazobhekana nobunzima kwesinye isikhathi. Izingcindezi, ukudumazeka nezinhlekelele kuyenzeka. Sizwa nokulahlekelwa ngabantu ababalulekile ezimpilweni zethu ezidlula emhlabeni. Akunakwenzeka ukudlula empilweni ngaphandle kokuhlukumezeka kanye nezinselelo, kepha imikhuba yethu yokuvikela impilo yengqondo ingasisiza ukuthi sibhekane nezikhathi ezinzima.

Kunezinyathelo ezintathu ezisebenzayo esingazithatha ukukhuthaza ukunakekelwa okuhle kwempilo yengqondo:

Yiba Nenkuthalo

Lapho usebenza ngokwengeziwe ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo, ngokomoya nangokwenhlalo, izinga lakho lokuphila kahle ngokwengqondo kungenzeka likhuphuke. Ukuhlala phansi nokungazibandakanyi kwenza kube nzima kakhulu ukunqoba izinselelo zempilo. Ukukhuthala kusiza ekunciphiseni ukucindezeleka futhi kuthuthukise ukujabula nokwaneliseka okuphelele ngempilo. Iya ekuhambeni, funda okuthile okusha futhi usebenzise ukucabanga. Kunezindlela eziningi zokuzibandakanya nokuzibandakanya nempilo. Okusemqoka ukuthola ukuthi yini ekugcina ukhuthazeka futhi unentshisekelo.

Xhuma

Ukuzihlukanisa nomphakathi kuhlotshaniswa nezinkinga ezinjengezinhliziyo, ukuvuvukala, izinguquko zehomoni nezinkinga ezingokomzwelo njengokukhathazeka nokudangala. Ukuzibandakanya njalo emisebenzini yomphakathi nabangane abasekelayo nomndeni kuthuthukisa ukuqina kwethu namandla ethu okubhekana nokudumazeka, ukuhlukumezeka nakho konke okunye ukuphila okusiphonsayo. Lokhu kungaba nzima lapho sithuthela edolobheni elisha noma lapho sikhula. Ukubandakanyeka nganoma iyiphi indlela, ngisho nokuzinikela ekilabhini noma enhlanganweni, kungakusiza ukuthi ube nomphakathi ngokwengeziwe, futhi amaqembu aku-inthanethi nawo angasiza ngalokhu.

Zibophezele

Ukuzibandakanya emisebenzini enikeza injongo yokuphila nenhloso kukhulisa umuzwa wethu wokuzethemba nokwaneliseka ngempilo. Uhlobo lwale misebenzi luyehluka kakhulu kuye ngomuntu nomuntu. Okusemqoka ukukhomba ukuthi yini eyenza impilo yakho ibe nenjongo. Ukuzinikela, ukusebenza kumaphrojekthi womphakathi, ukuqeqesha, ukufundisa, ukuthatha izinselelo, konke kungafaka isandla ekuzizweleni okuhle ngathi nangempilo yethu.

Imisebenzi eminingi ingabhekana ngaphezu kweyodwa, noma kuzo zonke izindawo ezintathu ngasikhathi sinye. Ukuthola abangane abambalwa ozohamba nabo ekuseni kungasiza ngokusebenza nangokuxhuma. Ukusiza ngesidlo sakusihlwa samasonto onke sabantu abangenamakhaya esontweni lendawo noma esikhungweni somphakathi kungabhekana nazo zontathu lezi zindawo. Okusemqoka ukwenza uhlelo bese unamathela kulo ngaphambi kokuthi uzithole ubhekene nezinkinga zempilo yengqondo. Uma usuvele unenkinga, qala ukuzijwayeza ukusebenza, ukuxhuma nokuzibophezela ekusizeni ukutakula kwakho.