Lapho i-Autism Abazali Bemanqikanqika Ukwabelana Ngokuxilongwa

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• Ukufundwa Okubalulekile Kwe-Autism
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Njengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, ngisebenza nabazali bezingane ezine-autism, ngakubona kubalulekile ukuxoxa ngesihloko esisanda kumenyezelwa.

Kube nenkulumo eningi futhi “nezindaba ezingamanga” muva nje kuxoxiswana ngokuthi uBarron Trump, indodana encane kunazo zonke manje, uMongameli okhethiwe, uDonald Trump, angabonisa yini izici ezihambisana nokuxilongwa kwe-autism spectrum disorder (ASD).

Ake ngiqale ngivumelane nabangane bami abaningi kanye nozakwethu abasemphakathini we-autism ukuthi lokhu kucabanga kudinga ukuyeka ngokushesha.

Mina, kanye nabo bonke abantu abaxoxa ngokuxilongwa kukaBarron Trump, noma ukungabi bikho kwakhe, angikaze ngibone uBarron Trump nganoma imuphi umqondo wezokwelapha (ukubona nje amavidiyo ambalwa ahleliwe online), futhi angikho esimeni sokwenza kahle, noma ukuphatha -noma yikuphi ukuxilongwa, ingasaphathwa eyokuxilongwa okunzima njenge-ASD.

Abaningi babona indlela indodana kaMnu Trump yokuziphatha nokuziphatha kwakhe ekubonakaleni kwakhe okumbalwa esidlangalaleni njenge "njenge-autistic-like," noma ukuphawula okwenziwe nguMnu Trump ezinkulumweni njengobufakazi bokuxilongwa.

Njengoba ngingeyena owokuqala ukukhomba, i-ASD iyisimo esihlukahlukene futhi esihlukahluka ngokwedlulele - yingakho ibizwa ngokuthi "isifo esibonakalayo." Isibonelo, ngenkathi abanye abantu abatholakala ukuthi bane-autism bengakhombisa ukukhuluma okungaphelele futhi okufanelekile, abanye bangakhuluma okuncane, kungabi nokukhulumisana ngomlomo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengoba nje umuntu otholakale ene-autism engabonisa ukunyakaza okubonakalayo okubonakalayo, okuphindaphindayo nokungasebenzi noma izindlela zokuziphatha ezi-stereotypic, abanye bangase bangahlanganyeli nhlobo ngalesi sici.

Ekhomba amavidyo kliphu ambalwa, amafushane endodana kaMnu Trump nokusho ukuthi isimilo sakhe sibukeka njengomuntu one-autism, akuyona into eyenzekile nje kuphela, kodwa futhi ayinanhlonipho futhi ayihloniphi umphakathi we-autism.

Ngokuhambisana nalesi sihloko, kubuye kwaqubuka ukwahlulela nokuhlekisa ngokuthi kungani uMnu Trump engazange adalule emphakathini ukuthi indodana yakhe inayo, noma ayitholakalanga ukuthi ine-ASD. Okungenze ngacabanga ngomzabalazo wabazali abaningi bezingane okutholakale ukuthi bane-autism maqondana nokuthi benze ukuxilongwa kwengane yabo emphakathini noma cha. Vele, kulokhu "umphakathi" awubhekisi kulo lonke elase-United States (futhi mhlawumbe nasemhlabeni), kepha kunalokho, umphakathi wangaphakathi wabangane, amalungu omndeni, izikole kanye nomphakathi.

Abazali bangakhetha ukugodla olunye noma lonke ulwazi oluphathelene nezinselelo, ukusilela noma ukuxilongwa kwezingane ngenxa yezizathu eziningi (lolu akulona uhlu olubanzi - sicela ukhululeke ukwengeza imicabango yakho kumazwana):

1. Akuyona indaba yakho

Eminye imindeni, uma ukuxilongwa sekuqinisekisiwe, ngokushesha ujoyine zonke izingxoxo nezingxoxo ezikhona, wazise bonke othisha, utshele bonke ogogo, umkhulu, umalumekazi, umalume nomzala, futhi wenze iphuzu lokuba yilungu elikhuthele nelinezwi lomphakathi we-autism . Kepha kwabanye, isinqumo sokuthi bazokwabelana nini nokuthi kanjani nokwabelana ngesifo se-autism yengane yabo singacindezela futhi sibe yinselele.

Umndeni ngamunye unelungelo lokuzikhethela nesinqumo sokuhlanganyela nokudalula noma yiluphi ulwazi oluphathelene nokuxilongwa kwengane yabo (Imicabango yami ngalesi sihloko ayihlangene nakancane nokuthi ngavotela uMnu. Trump noma cha, noma uma ngivuma noma akavumelani nanoma yiziphi izinqubomgomo zakhe - noma ngisho nokuphawula kwakhe esidlangalaleni okuhlobene ne-autism noma impilo yengqondo). Abazali nabanakekeli kufanele banikezwe ithuba lokunquma ukuthi yini elungele bona nezingane zabo uma kukhulunywa ngokukhipha imininingwane yokuxilonga.

2. Akuyona indaba yakho

Cha, lesi akusona isiphepho. Kuyiqiniso elilula.

3. Abazali bakhathazekile ngokuthi bazothola ukwahlulelwa nokubhekelwa kwabanye

Yize kwenziwe ucwaningo olukhulu maqondana nokukhula nokuxilongwa kwe-autism, abazali abaningi basathola ukusolwa necala ngezinselelo zezingane zabo. Abazali bangakugwema ukuxoxa ngokuxilongwa kwengane yabo ukuvimbela ukugxekwa nokungavunyelwa okungenasisekelo, noma ukunciphisa iziphakamiso noma izincomo ezingafuneki.

4. Abazali bakhathazekile ngokuthi ingane yabo izophathwa ngokungafanele

Ngeshwa, kusele ukucwaswa okukhulu okuhlobene nezinkinga zezempilo yengqondo kuleli, ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa nge-ASD. Abazali bangakhathazeka ukuthi uma ukuxilongwa kwengane yabo kwaziwa bangase bagconwa, noma bahlekwe usulu ngumndeni nontanga, banikeze amathuba amancane esikoleni noma emphakathini, noma badatshukelwe ngokungafanele nangokungenasidingo.

5. Abazali abakaze babe nengxoxo nengane yabo uqobo

Ngokuya ngeminyaka nokukhula kwengane, abanye abazali kungenzeka bakhethe ukulinda ukuze baxoxe ngokuxilongwa kwengane yabo. Ingane kungenzeka ukuthi ayibonanga noma ayibonanga umehluko uma uziqhathanisa nontanga yabo, noma kungenzeka ingakakwazi ukubamba iqhaza engxoxweni ewusizo ehlobene nezici zesifo. Noma kunjalo, abanye abazali bangakhathazeka ukuthi ngokuxoxa ngokuxilongwa kwe-autism nengane yabo, bangathinta ukuzethemba kwengane yabo, noma babeke ingane yabo ukuthi ithembele ekutholeni ukuthi iyisizathu.

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