Kungani Izingane Zezombusazwe Zithathela Abazali Zazo Obala

Njengoba ukhetho lusondela, izingane zosopolitiki zenza izindaba ngokukhuluma ukuze zinqande abavoti ekusekeleni abazali babo. (Bheka indatshana kaBeth Greenfield.) Ingabe ukuhlubuka kwentsha okuvamile? Lokho kulula kakhulu. Ukuhlanganiswa komsebenzi omkhulu wokuthuthuka, abazali abavelele (nabazigcinayo), kanye nomphumela wokukhulisa wezindaba zedijithali kwenza isiphepho esihle salokho izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ezizokubiza ngokwahlukana kanti nabazali abahlaselwayo bangabiza ukungahloniphi noma ukuhlubuka.

Kodwa-ke ukhetha ukuyibeka ilebula, ukwehlukanisa nomndeni wenuzi kungumsebenzi obalulekile wokuthuthuka wabo bonke abasha nabadala. Wonke umuntu udinga ukuthola ukuthi angobani nendawo yakhe emhlabeni ukuze abe ngabantu abadala abaphumelelayo. Lokhu kuhlola kungaholela ekuhlolweni okuningi nabantu, imibono nezenzo. Lokhu kuholela ochungechungeni lokuziphatha okungabonwa ngabanye njengokuyingozi, ukudlubulunda noma ubuwula, njengokubandakanyeka ekuziphatheni okungavunyelwe, ukugqoka izingubo "ezilungile" ukukhombisa ukuzibandakanya kontanga, noma ukuhlubuka okuqondile. Ukuziphatha okubuyela emuva kuvame ukulingana 'negumbi' elingokwengqondo nokukhuthazwa okutholwa umuntu omusha njengoba enza lo msebenzi. Alikho igumbi = i-pushback engaphezulu (isb. Thompson et al., 2003).

Kunezindlela eziningi ezahlukahlukene zokuhlola ubunikazi nokuhlukanisa ngempumelelo emndenini wenuzi. Isimo sedijithali sengeze kwimenyu, sandisa ukufinyelela kwezinye izibonelo futhi sikhanyisela izindlela ezintsha zokuthuthukisa ubunikazi abanye abazithathile. Imithombo yezokuxhumana isho ukuthi kulula kakhulu ukuba nezwi. Eqinisweni, sekuyindlela ejwayelekile yokusebenzisa wonke umuntu lapho bengazizwa bezwakala. Akumangazi ukuthi intsha nabantu abadala abakhulele ezweni elixhumene nomphakathi bangasebenzisa lezi zindlela ukusakaza umbono wabo. Kunobufakazi obuningi bokuthi imithombo yezokuxhumana iqhakambisa izindaba zomphakathi, kusuka #BlackLivesMatter naku #MeToo kuya eParkland #NeverAgain. Imithombo yezokuxhumana ithuthukisa umqondo wenhlangano ebumbene. Lapho abantu bekholelwa ukuthi ababodwa ezindabeni zabo, kuyabakhuthaza ukuthi bathathe izinyathelo. Ezinganeni zabazali abaziwayo noma abafanele izindaba emkhakheni wezepolitiki onombango, izenzo zabo nazo ziba izindaba ngenxa yokusondela kubazali babo kanye nokufuna okungapheli kokuqukethwe kwezindaba okuzoheha ababukeli.

UCaroline Giuliani, uClaudia Conway, noStephanie Regan bonke bayizibonelo zezingane ezikhuluma kabi ngabazali bazo futhi ziveze imibono ephikisayo yezepolitiki. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi bonke abazali bahambelana nohlobo lukaTrump lweqembu leRepublican. I-poll ka-2016 ikhombisile ukuthi amaRephabliki ayengabasekeli bakaTrump ayesethubeni lokuba nesitayela sobuzali sokuba ngumzali (MacWIlliams, 2016). Umzali onegunya maningi amathuba okuthi azise ukulalela futhi mancane amathuba okuthi akhuthaze izingane zakhe ukuba zibe nezwi noma zikhulise ukuzimela kwazo. Imibono yobushiqela ethe xaxa nayo mancane amathuba okuthi isekele ukwehlukana kwezenhlalo okungahambisani nezinkolelo zabo noma okwephula umbono wabo wokuthi “kulungile.” Ayikho indawo yeqiniso elizithobayo noma imibono ehlukile. I-Authoritarianism ihlobene nesidingo sokuvalwa kokuqonda kanye nokucinga kanambambili, okumnyama / okumhlophe noma okuhlukanisiwe okuvumela ukuthi izinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi zinciphiswe zibe izixazululo ezilula (isb., Chirumbolo, 2002; Choma & Hanoch, 2017) kunokuba kube nokujula okungaphezulu, ukuhlola, noma uzwela oludingekayo ekubambisaneni noma ekuyekethiseni.

Ukukhulisa izingane ngendlela yami noma ngomgwaqo omkhulu akuzenzi ithuba lokuthi izingane zifinyelele eziphethweni zazo. Imibono engavumelani ibhekwa njengokungathembeki noma ukungahloniphi. Lokhu kuyinkinga ikakhulukazi ngoba abantu abasha ngokwesiko sebesezingeni elikhululekile lesikali. Amandla okuzicabangela ayingxenye edingekayo yokukhula ngakho-ke akumangazi ukuthi izingane ezinabazali abangomashiqela kungenzeka ukuthi zidwebe umugqa esihlabathini.

Ukukhuthazwa ngokomzwelo nokuqiniswa kubalulekile ekwakheni ubunjalo bomuntu osemusha kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kanye nokuxhumana komphakathi kubumba indlela abaziphethe ngayo kanye nemibono yabo. Imithombo yezokuxhumana ikakhulukazi inikeza izinzuzo ezimbili kubasha kule nqubo: 1) ibanika ukufinyelela kwezinye izindlela zokuxhaswa ngokomzwelo nokuholwa ngabanye abathandekayo kanye no-2) ibanikeza inkundla enamandla yokubonisa ukuzimela kwabo.

Intsha ezulazula ngempumelelo 'kwinhlekelele' yentuthuko yokuthuthuka kobunikazi imvamisa isuke inemizwa enamandla yobunikazi kanye namandla okugcina amanani ayo lapho ibhekene nenselelo.

Ngenkathi isenzo sikaClaudia Conway singahle sibonakale njengokuthi siyahlubuka ngenkathi eya eTikTok ukudalula ukuxilongwa kwe-COVID kaKellyanne Conway, isihloko sikaCaroline Giuliani sikaVanity Fair sibonakala sicabanga futhi sicabanga. Akalingisi kodwa ufuna ukuhlukaniswa ngokuveza umbono wakhe. Ezimweni zombili, noma kunjalo, iphrofayili ephezulu yabazali isho ukuthi amazwi abo azoba nomthelela omkhulu. UCaroline Giuliani usebenzisa i-social-capital-by-proximity yakhe ukuthola umphumela. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kungabonakala kungathembeki — futhi ukwethembeka noma ukungathembeki kuye kwaba yindikimba engaguquguquki ekuphathweni kukaTrump. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kunesibindi ukubona ukuthi imali yenhlalo ingasetshenziselwa okuthile okholelwa kukho noma ngabe ukuwa komuntu siqu akujabulisi.

Izindaba ezimnandi zikaCaroline Giuliani nabanye abafana naye ukuthi abantu abadala abazimele nabazethembayo abangazicabangela bona mancane amathuba okuthi bathathe isitayela sobushiqela ngokwabo esibonisa impumelelo empumelelweni ezweni lezinkambiso eziguqukayo.

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IMacWilliams, M. C. (2016) UDonald Trump uheha abavoti abangaphansi kobushiqela, futhi kungamsiza ekutholeni ukuqokwa. LSC / USCentre. https://blogs.lse.ac.uk/usappblog/2016/01/27/donald-trump-is-attracting-authoritarian-primary-voters-and-it-may-help-him-to-gain-the- ukuqokwa /

UThompson, A., Hollis, C., noRichards, D. (2003). Izimo zengqondo zokuba ngumzali njengobungozi bezinkinga zokuziphatha. I-European Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, 12 (2), 84-91.