Ukuthi "Ukulala Kahle Embhedeni" Kungaba Yini Into Engalungile

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• Ucansi Lubalulekile Ukufundwa
• Ukuzisola Ngokobulili Akukushintshi Ukuziphatha Ngokobulili Kwesikhathi Esizayo

Iningi labesilisa lingathanda ukuzwa ukuthi "balungile embhedeni." Kodwa ingabe lokho kungaba yinto embi?

Ukuba muhle embhedeni

“Isithandwa sami sangaphambilini saqoqa yonke imininingwane etholakalayo ngami safunda izincwadi eziningi zokuthi singabanelisa kanjani abantu besifazane. Ngezwa ukuthi akangiboni futhi akangizwa, wenza nje ngomshini kanye nolwazi lwakhe olusemthethweni ngabesifazane nami. Wayemuhle embhedeni, kepha kwadingeka ngimshiye. ” —Umfazi ongashadile

Encwadini yami yakamuva, I-Arc Yothando: Zishintsha Kanjani Izimpilo Zethu Zothando Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, Ngithi isikhathi simaphakathi ekuthuthukiseni uthando olujulile. Ngiphinde ngithi imisebenzi yangaphambi nangemva kocansi, njengokuqabulana, ukugonana, nokugona, ithuthukisa ikhwalithi yobudlelwano futhi yenyuse ukubekezela kwabo. Ikhwalithi yezocansi iphinde ivezwe ngemuva kokuhlala isikhathi eside, okudlala indima enkulu kune-orgasm ekusunguleni ukwaneliseka kwezothando okuhlala njalo. Lapha, ngigxila ekuhlanganyeleni ngokocansi uqobo futhi ngihlole isimangalo esibonakala siyindida sokuthi kuhle kakhulu embhedeni kungaba kubi.

Ziningi izinto ezenza ukuba kuhle embhedeni.Indlela ebonakalayo - nini, kuphi, nokuthi uthinta isikhathi esingakanani - ngokwesibonelo, yizinto ezingafundwa. Bese kuba khona inqubo yengqondo - okushoyo kumlingani wakho, nokuthi ukusho kanjani futhi nini. Ngokwengeziwe, kunesimo sengqondo - isimo sothando esihlala njalo sozakwethu.

Imvamisa, ikakhulukazi ekuzihlanganiseni kocansi okufushane nje, isici sesithathu siyaphela ngokubaluleka. Uma kukhulunywa ngothando oluhlala njalo lwezithandani, isimo sengqondo siphumelela umklomelo. Izici ezimbili zokuqala zinquma izinga lakho lokwaneliseka elivela kokuhlangenwe nakho kocansi; owesithathu unquma ukuthi ungathanda ukubona umlingani wakho ekuseni ngakusasa.

Ukukhathazeka kwami ​​lapha akukhona ngamasu omzimba noma engqondo (yize kunolwazi oluningi laphaya ngabo), kepha kunalokho ngesimo sengqondo esihambisana nesifiso sokuba ndawonye isikhathi eside.

Imibono yabesifazane mayelana nokuthi yini efanelekela indoda ukuthi ibe yinhle embhedeni

Nazi izimpendulo ezimbalwa ezinikezwe ngabesifazane embuzweni othi, "Yini eyenza umuntu afaneleke njengombhede?"

“Ukubuyisela. Ukulalela engibatshela khona kuzwakala kungcono kakhulu. ”

"Kuyashisa kakhulu uma ekuyisa endaweni yokudlela ebiza kakhulu kuqala."

“Ukuqabulana. Uma ungalungile ekuqabuleni, vele uye ekhaya. Angikaze ngithole inkomba engcono yokuthi umfana ulunge kangakanani embhedeni kunokuthi uqabula kanjani. ”

"Ukwenza umzamo nokuzinika isikhathi sokuqinisekisa ukuthi uqedile, noma eseqedile."

"Ukubekezela nokuzimisela ukwenza ngcono."

“Yiba nomdlandla. Ungabi yi-jackhammer, zama izinyathelo ezintsha. Thatha isikhathi sakho, kufanele ube nesikhathi esimnandi khumbula? ”

“Ngiyacela, ngicela, ngiyacela, ngothando lukaNkulunkulu hhayi cabanga ukuthi ngenxa yokuthi ufike kuqala kusho ukuthi sesiqedile. Ungalokothi ushiye intokazi yakho iphezulu futhi yomile. ”

Ukukhulumisana kahle kuyinto eshisa kakhulu embhedeni. ”

"Umfana ongazami ngamandla nokufaka isenzo kumnandi kakhulu ukuba naye kunomuntu ozama ukuba uhlobo oluthile lwenkanyezi yezocansi."

“Ukuvuleleka / ukungabi nokwahlulela ... Ukuzimisela ukuthatha isiqondiso. Ngithanda ukuzizwa sengathi unamehlo kimi kuphela ... Ungangeqi isendlalelo ... Ukusondelana. Ingxenye enkulu kimi izinga lokuthembana nothando enginalo nomlingani wami kuvezwa ngocansi ... Ukuphindaphinda ... Ukuxhumana ... Kuhlanganise kancane. Ungimangaze ngesimo esihlukile, iphupho noma isikhundla ... Emva kokunakekelwa! Ukugona nokuqabulana ngaphambi kokuba uquleke kuyindlela engcono yokuqinisekisa ukuthi ngilala eceleni kwakho ngimamatheka. ”

“Ususebenzise lesi sikhathi ukuba seduze nami ngendlela umuntu angaba ngayo - ngiqonde ukuthi, awukwazi ukusondela kakhulu kunokuthi ube ngaphakathi kimi ngaphakathi; lokho ukuxhumana okunamandla ngokweqile, okusondelene. Ngakho-ke ukusuka ku-60 kuye ku-0 ngemuva kwalokho cishe ... kuyabuhlungu, ngandlela thile? Ngakho-ke angicabangi ukuthi akunangqondo ukufuna ukubanjwa / ukwangwa nokuqiniswa ngemuva kwalokho. ”

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