I-Procrustean Syndrome: Kungani Sizonda Labo Abavelele?

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• Kwesinye isikhathi labo abazizwa bengelutho bazama ukulimaza abanamakhono kakhulu ngokubathobisa nokubacindezela.
• Yini i-Procrustean syndrome?
• Hlobo luni lwabantu abalubonakalisayo?
• Umsuka wegama: inganekwane yamaGrikhi yama-Procrustean
• Izindawo lapho kugcinwa khona
• Ububanzi bezemfundo
• Umkhakha wabasebenzi
• Ububanzi bomuntu siqu

Kwesinye isikhathi labo abazizwa bengelutho bazama ukulimaza abanamakhono kakhulu ngokubathobisa nokubacindezela.

Sisemphakathini oncintisana kakhulu lapho kufunwa ngokwengeziwe umuntu ngamunye. Kokubili emsebenzini nakwezinye izici ezibalulekile, siyacelwa ukuthi sisebenze kahle, sibe ngabokuqala, sibe nobuciko, sisebenze kahle futhi sisebenze kahle kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingcindezi enkulu yenziwa ifane, imvamisa kudelelwa ngubani ovelela kwelinye ithalente noma ikhono.

Lokhu kusho ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi labo abanamakhono amahle kakhulu abaqashwa noma abanakwa, bayahlukunyezwa futhi bahlaziswe. Imayelana ne-Procrustean syndrome, engizokuchaza ngokuningiliziwe ngezansi.

Yini i-Procrustean syndrome?

Isifo okuthiwa yi-Procrustean syndrome sisho ukuthambekela kokuthi abanye abantu, izinkampani noma imiphakathi kumele yenqabe labo abanezici ezihlukile kwezabo ngokwesaba ukunqotshwa noma ukubuzwa yibo. Kukhona ukuthambekela kokuzama ukugcina ukufana okungaguquguquki lapho ukwehluka kubhekelwa khona futhi / noma kujeziswa.

Ngale ndlela , kusungulwa isimo sengqondo sokubandlulula ngisho nasezingeni elithile lokuhlukumeza maqondana nomuntu ovelele futhi obhekwayo angasongela isikhundla noma isithunzi sakhe. Imibono yabo ayinakwa noma ayivezwa kahle, imizamo yokwenza izinto ngobuhlakani nobuciko iyagxekwa. Uma ubudlelwano nomuntu oshiwo bungeke bugwenywe, kuhloswe ukuthi lowo muntu agcine imingcele engadluli amathuba omuntu obenqabayo, ecindezela ukuze kutholakale ubungqingili obuthile kumakhono abonakaliswe ngokuziphatha.

Imvamisa ukuxhumana phakathi kwalezi zihloko zombili kuzenza okulungile hhayi ukuveza noma yiluphi uhlobo lwengxabano ngendlela eqondile, noma kunjalo ubudlelwano buvame ukonakala ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Imvamisa inikezwa abantu okungenzeka bangaphezulu, kepha kwesinye isikhathi abantu ababhekwe njengabanamandla aphansi kunawabo nabo bayaliwa (kulokhu kuhloswe ukuthi bashintshe ukuze bakwazi ukuzivumelanisa nombono womuntu onalesi sifo ).

Hlobo luni lwabantu abalubonakalisayo?

Ngokuvamile, i-Procrustean syndrome ivela ku abantu abanezinga eliphezulu lokukhungatheka kanye nomqondo omncane wokulawula, ukuzethemba okuphansi noma okubambekayo. Kwesinye isikhathi baye bahlushwa ukuhlukunyezwa kanye nezehlakalo ezahlukahlukene ezicindezelayo nezethusayo ezibadale ukuthi bangabaze ikhono labo, lapho abantu abazibona njengabakhulu noma abanamandla okuba khona bengafuni.

I- elinye icala lingakwenza futhi kwenzeke, umuntu onokuzethemba okweqile cishe imingcele ye-narcissistic ngubani obona ukuthi abanye bavelele futhi banakwa kakhulu kunabo.

Noma ngubani osebenzisa lesi simo sengqondo angakwazi ukusenza ngokuqaphela nangokungazi. Ngenkathi owokuqala ezozama ukulimaza umuntu ovelele ngokusongelwa, owokugcina uzojwayela ukucabanga ukuthi umbono wabo ulungile nokuthi abanye okufanele bazivumelanise nawo.

Umsuka wegama: inganekwane yamaGrikhi yama-Procrustean

Ukuze uqonde lesi sifo kalula, kungasiza ukwazi umsuka wegama laso, okuxhunyaniswe eduze nezimpawu zesifo okukhulunywa ngaso. Lo msuka utholakala ezinganekwaneni zamaGrikhi zikaProcrustean.

I-Procrustean, eyaziwa nangokuthi i-Damastes, ngokusho kwezinganekwane zamaGrikhi enye yamadodana kankulunkulu uPoseidon. Lokhu kwamukelwa kwabahambi endlini yakhe futhi kwabanika umoya wokungenisa izihambi omkhulu, ngokubaphatha ngobungane nangokuzimisela, behlongoza ukulala ubusuku lapho ehlala khona.

Kodwa-ke, lapho izivakashi zilala, uProcruste wayezibamba avale umlomo bese ebheka ukuthi usayizi wazo wehlukile yini kowombhede wensimbi ayelele kuwo. Uma kwenzeka lowo muntu okukhulunywa ngaye edlula usayizi wombhede, uProcrustean wayezisika izinto eziphume kuwo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma yayimfishane futhi ingenayo ngokuphelele, wayephula amathambo ayo ngesigaxa ukuze ayelule. Ngamafuphi, wenza izivakashi zakhe zihlale zijwayela izilinganiso zombhede wakhe.

Lokhu kuzophela ngokufika kukaLesus, ngubani ongaphakamisa ukucabanga ukuthi ngabe uProcrustean ngokwakhe uthobele izilinganiso zombhede wakhe futhi, ngemuva kokubona ukuthi mkhulu, uzoqhubeka nokusebenzisa isijeziso esifanayo naleso uProcrustean asinikeze izivakashi zakhe, anqume ikhanda lakhe ambulale.

Le nganekwane ikhombisa ingcindezi yokufana lokho kuyisici se-syndrome esinegama elifanayo, kanye nesimo sokuqala sothando nokwamukela abantu abaningi ababonisa lesi sifo ukuphrinta ekusebenzisaneni kwabo, ngaphandle kokuthi ngokusobala kube kukhona ukungaphatheki kahle noma ukungqubuzana.

Izindawo lapho kugcinwa khona

I-Procrustean syndrome ingabonakala cishe kunoma yisiphi isilungiselelo, futhi ingaba nemiphumela emibi kakhulu kumuntu kangangokuthi angavelela. Ezinye zezindawo lapho lesi sifo sibonakala khona yilezi ezilandelayo.

Ububanzi bezemfundo

Emkhakheni wezifundo, labo abaphuma phambili zivame ukubhekwa kabi, zombili ngabanye babalingani babo futhi kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nangothisha uqobo. Empeleni, ngisho nasebuntwaneni, abantu abaningi abanesiphiwo balwela ukuthola amamaki aphakathi nendawo (sikhuluma ngamacala lapho lokhu kwenziwa ngokucophelela ngenxa yalesi sizathu hhayi ngoba ukufunda kuthathwa njengokungajabulisi), ikakhulukazi endabeni yamantombazane ngenxa yezinkinga zezinkolelo zobulili.

Kwezinye izikhathi i-Procrustean syndrome iye yabonakala ezimweni lapho abafundi nochwepheshe abehlukene begxeke esidlangalaleni futhi bahlazisa abanye, ngoba bakwazile ukuzizwa bengekho emandleni noma ubone ukuduma kwabo kusengozini uma omunye evelele. Lokhu kungenzeka ngisho nasebudlelwaneni bothisha nomfundi lapho owokuqala enokuzenyeza.

Kushukunyiswa indawo engadala ukuhlukunyezwa nokukhawulelwa kwamandla, umuntu ohlaselwe angakwazi ukufinyelela ezingeni eliphezulu kakhulu futhi abangele ukulimala ekuqeqeshweni okusetshenziswayo nakuleyo ndaba ehlaselwe umuntu obonisa isifo se-Procrustean syndrome. ezingathonywa kokubili esikhathini esifushane nesikhathi eside.

Umkhakha wabasebenzi

Lona umkhakha lapho i-Procrustean syndrome ingabonakala kakhulu, ikakhulukazi emkhakheni wezamabhizinisi, njengoba kunokuncintisana okukhulu emakethe futhi kungenzeka ukuthi abanye abantu abazilungiselele ngokwengeziwe noma abanamakhono angcono bawufanelekele ngokwabo umsebenzi uqobo.

Kule ndawo, kuzozama ukuthi umuntu ovelele angakwenzi lokho, ukubheka phansi iminikelo yabo noma ngisho nokuyabela, ukumisa izinga lokulawula ngokweqile kule ndaba okukhulunywa ngayo futhi kwezinye izimo kusatshalaliswa amahemuhemu maqondana nomuntu wabo noma umsebenzi wabo ngenhloso yokumehlisa isithunzi. Kwezinye izimo lapho umuntu ozizwa esongelwa enamandla okwenza lokho, kungenzeka bangaqashi noma bathuthukise abantu abasebenza kahle kakhulu kepha kunalokho abanye abalawulekayo futhi abangaba usongo oluncane.

Kule nkampani okukhulunywa ngayo, i-Procrustean syndrome imele umonakalo osobala, njengoba ingavumeli ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono nezinsizakusebenza zenkampani futhi imele ubunzima obungeziwe uma kukhulunywa ngokwandiswa nokujabulela impumelelo. Ukusebenzisana kwenziwa nzima kanye nesimo sokungezwani okulimaza ngokusobala impilo yazo zombili izifundo ezithintekayo kanye nesikhungo abasimele.

Ububanzi bomuntu siqu

Isifo i-Procrustean syndrome asigcini ngokugcinwa kochwepheshe noma kwezemfundo kuphela, kepha singadlulela nakwezomuntu siqu. Kulezi zimo, umndeni, abangane noma ophathina bazohlala begxekwa njalo nokwehluleka noma ukungaphatheki kahle umuntu angakubona njengosongo angakuzwa (kulokhu maqondana nokuzethemba lapho ecabanga ukuthi bangangcono kunaye uqobo) kuzoveza izinga elithile lentokozo nokwaneliseka (yize kwesinye isikhathi kungafiphazwa ngecala lapho kwenziwa ngokungazi).

Kungaba khona ukuthambekela kokugwema abantu abazibheka njengabakhulu kwezinye izici. Isibonelo, abantu abane-Procrustean syndrome izogwema abangahle babe ngabalingani bakho bahehe noma bahlakaniphe kakhulu kunabo. Uma kungeyena umngane oseduze, kuzojwayela ukukuhlukanisa, kukushiye noma kwehlise ukuzethemba kwayo ukuze namakhono ayo anciphe.

Kulokhu, bobabili umuntu one-Procrustean syndrome kanye nesisulu bazothinteka, kubangele ubudlelwane obunobuthi uma kwenzeka futhi budale ukuhlupheka kubo bobabili abathintekayo.