Ukulimala Kokuhlasela Kwesixuku Esijwayelekile

Kulo nyaka wobhadane wembulunga yonke, manje njengoba sesifinyelele unyaka wokugubha usuku lwawo, thina njengomphakathi sibhekane nokulahlekelwa nezinguquko eziningi, ezinye okwesikhashana, ezinye zanyamalala unomphela, njengezibalo ezimangazayo zokulahleka kwabantu, kanye nempilo yezimboni ezimbalwa ezishayeke kanzima okubhekiswe ukusabalala okuvela emoyeni kwale coronavirus. Ngenkathi ukufika okumangazayo kwemithi yokugoma ephephile nephumelelayo ye-COVID-19 kusinikeza ithemba ebesingenalo unyaka owedlule, kusekhona ukungaqiniseki okuningi.

Ngaphandle kokulahleka okusobala, kubalulekile ukuthatha ikhefu bese ucabanga ngezinto ezincane, futhi, nezinto ezicashile esizithathe kalula ezweni langaphambi kobhadane okungenzeka ukuthi lihlala ngendlela ebabazekayo kodwa ebuhlungu buthule.

Njengoba abaningi bephawulile, ukuhlukaniswa komphakathi okuphoqelelwe okuthinte abaningi, kanye nomthelela ongezansi ongokwengqondo walolo shintsho. Ukuqamba nobuchwepheshe kusizile ekuthatheni okunye kokuncinyelwa kukho: Zoom neFaceTime, ukusakazwa kwezokuzijabulisa nemfundo, kokubili okuphilayo nokwandulelayo, izihlalo zomphakathi ezihlukanisiwe, imibuthano yangaphandle ehlukanisiwe, njll. Kepha kwabanye, ukuhlala unomphela ekhaya kwaba yindlela ukuboshwa okungokoqobo, ukuboshwa endlini, kanye nezimpi ezishubile zasekhaya, ikakhulukazi kulabo abazama ukwenza ukunakekelwa kwezingane nemisebenzi engasebenzi kahle ngaphambi kwalolu bhubhane.

Okuthokozisayo ukuthi ezinye izindatshana (ezifana nalezi zikaGillian Sandstrom no-Ashley Whillans ku-Ephreli 22, 2020 Ukubuyekezwa Kwebhizinisi LeHarvard ) baphawule ukulahleka okucashile kwezenhlalo kwezwe elihlukaniswe ngokucophelela. Akusekho ndawo yokuxhumana okuncane, okuzenzekelayo (noma lokho ababhali abakubiza ngokuthi "amandla amangazayo obudlelwano obuthakathaka") ebesinabo emsebenzini futhi sidlala ngenkathi senza imisebenzi yethu noma nabantu ebesibajwayele nje. Sike sancokola esikhathini esidlule ngogogo wakomakhelwane noma umkhulu othanda ukushaya umugqa omude kakhulu lapho ethenga ubisi esitolo, kodwa manje mhlawumbe mhlawumbe sibuqonda kangcono ubunzima babo bodwa.

Besingasenazo izingxoxo ezingenangqondo zokuphuza amanzi emsebenzini ngakho konke kusuka emdlalweni webhola wakamuva kuya kwinhlolokhono enkulu ye-Oprah. Sasingenazo izinhlalo ezinhle zokukhuluma ngesimo sezulu nge-Starbucks barista. Yonke into yayifihliwe, ukuxhumana okuncane kanye nokwesaba okuncane.

Impilo yasedolobheni, ikakhulukazi, ilinyazwe yilo bhubhane. IBustling Manhattan yaba idolobha lezipoki elilahliwe lapho kuphakama igagasi lokuqala ngonyaka owedlule, ngenhlanhla yabalekela emizini yabo yesibili ezindaweni ezingazodwa.Njengoba ngangihlale lapho eminyakeni engama-20, ubuhle be-NYC namanye amadolobha aminyene njengalowo mqondo wobuciko obungenzeka owenziwe ngabantu abaningi kakhulu eduze, ugesi wempilo eyenziwe ngumuntu engenakuqhathaniswa nezinye izilungiselelo. Ukugoqa ama-noodle ngenkathi uhleli ezitobhini ezincane zokulinganisa esitokisini esilinganiselwe ebhokisini lezicathulo, uxoxa ngokungahleliwe nge-movie ye-Avengers ngenkathi ubhaza i-hipster speakeasy, egxuma emathikithini angaphambili kuDavid Byrne Broadway show, ethenga imikhiqizo ye-K-beauty eK-town —Konke kungenziwa ekushayeleni kwenhliziyo kwakho okunganaki, ngesikhashana nje.

Ngenkathi abaningi beshilo ukuthi ukwehlukaniswa kwezenhlalo kube nzima kanjani ikakhulukazi kuma-extroverts aphumelela ngokuhlangana okuzenzekelayo nokuhlangana kwabantu njalo, ngisho nezethulo ziye zaphucwa indawo yaseshashalazini yokuphila enikezwa amadolobha nezindawo ezifanayo ezinabantu abaningi. Kwesinye isikhathi kuyindlela elula yomfana we-pizza okuqaphela njalo lapho uthola ucezu lwesikhathi sakho sasemini noma umshayeli wetekisi oxoxa ngomqondo ophusile ojwayelekile ngemicimbi yamanje. Usengakuzwa ukukhohlisa kwenkampani, okungenani ngenkathi uhleli kwi-laptop yakho emakhefi noma ubuka abantu emnyuziyamu ngemuva kokushaya ithikithi online noma ukuphequlula izingubo zasehlobo e-Uniqlo. Ukulahleka kwesixuku esingajwayelekile, kokubili ngezingxabano ngezikhathi ezithile nobuhle, okugcwala kakhulu ekushintsheni komphakathi okuwubhadane.

Futhi ngaphandle kwabo bonke ubuchwepheshe bethu, kuseseyinto enzima ukuphinda siyenze noma siyivumelanise nezimo ngokuphepha ngesimo sethu samanje. Akekho obonakala ecabangele indlela ephathekayo nephephile yokufaka amagciwane emoyeni njalo ezikhala ezincane, ngaphandle kokuhlunga umoya kwe-HEPA, nakho uqobo okungekhona ukukhohlisa futhi kungabiza. Ukufihla imaskhi kuyasiza, kepha hhayi kakhulu ezindaweni zokudlela noma ezindaweni zokuphuza lapho kudingeka zisuswe khona (futhi-ke, ziyasula izinkomba zenhlalo yethu).

Ngaphandle kokuhleleka kwempilo yomphakathi, i-inthanethi ayivumeli ngaso sonke isikhathi uhlobo olufanayo lokuxhumana okujabulisayo, okungajwayelekile okubandakanya impilo yethu yansuku zonke. Kunemizamo ethile, njengegumbi lokuxoxa lomsindo lakamuva leClubhouse noma i-Zoom amahora ajabulisayo nokunambitha iwayini nabantu ongabazi, kepha bonke bazizwa bezungezwe kakhulu, benziwe benziwe futhi bephoqelekile ngendlela yabo.

Ukukhononda okungakahlelwanga kwempilo yomuntu yansuku zonke esikulahlile futhi sisalila. Siyizidalwa ezidingekayo futhi sizijwayeze ngemisebenzi yokuzindla efana nengadi, ukubhaka, iPeloton, i-chess eku-inthanethi, ukuhamba kwemvelo, nokuningi. Kepha njenge Isibuko Esimnyama Isiqephu, kusazizwa sengathi sisezingxenyeni zobukhona obubonakalayo, asisasizwa isigqi esimangele, esingavunyelwanga sesiyaluyalu senhlalo yasemadolobheni, sokunyakaza okubalulekile okungahleliwe ezweni elinabantu abangu-3-D. Wonke umuntu udlulisele kuma-avatar akhathazekile.

Ngethemba, yize kunokwesabisa okungakacaci kokungafani okuzayo, imikhankaso yokugoma izobuyisa okungenani okunye okwehlukile futhi okudingeka kakhulu ezimpilweni zethu ezinciphile futhi. Izilinganiso zobungozi zingaphinde zishintshele imisebenzi ethile futhi, njengokuhamba okuhleliwe kahle, okufihliwe noma uhambo lomnyuziyamu noma ukuyothenga. Kepha kusazoba nesibalo sokuqapha kwengqondo ngemuva kwaleyo misebenzi, ukukalwa njalo kwezinzuzo uma kuqhathaniswa nobungozi osekuyinto yethu entsha raison d'etre . Okwamanje, singabheka lokho esilahlekelwe yikho sikusebenzise njengesikhuthazo sokwenza okusemandleni ukubuyela ngokuphepha emhlabeni ebesiwuthatha kalula. Kuthatha isigodi, leso esisikhumbula kakhulu.