Yini Egcwalisa Ukuphila Kwami Kunenjongo?

Lokhu okulandelayo ezinye wezinto zempilo yami ezenza izinsuku zami zisho:

• Umshado wami weminyaka engama-43 nale ndoda engathandana nayo eminyakeni engama-47 edlule. Ngangisanda kuba neminyaka engu-22 lapho sishada. Nginenhlanhla engakanani yokuthi ngisho ngisemncane ngeminyaka engama-21, ngikwazile ukwenza isinqumo esibaluleke kangako nesilungile ngempilo yami.

• Ikhofi eyosiwe emnyama, ikakhulukazi isiphuzo sokuqala ekuseni. Ngivale amehlo ami futhi ngeneliseka, ngithola iphunga nokunambitheka kwalolu ketshezi olumnyama, oluhle kakhulu.
• Ukusa kwami ​​ekuseni ngihamba no-Emma, ​​indodakazi yami enoboya, obheke phambili kulama jaunts njengengane eya eDisneyland.
• Incwadi enhle - cha, incwadi enhle, engenza ngizizwe sengathi kufanele ngiyeke ukufunda ngaphambi kokuphela ukuze ngigcine. Vele, ekugcineni ngiyigcwalisile incwadi, kepha ngihlala nginenkinga efanayo. Ngabe ngiyayibeka phansi futhi ngikujabulele ukuthi ayikapheli noma ngiyabonga ukuthi ngiqedile umbhalo obaluleke kangaka?

• Ukubuka uchungechunge olukhulu kuthelevishini: IDownton Abbey, Umqhele, Ukuqhekeka Okubi, Umbuso weBhodiwalk, Mad Mad, Game of Thrones, Victoria. Kukhona abanye, kepha ngihlala ngizizwa ngimangalisa ngenkathi ngibukele futhi ngidangele kancane lapho ngiqedile uchungechunge.
• Amabhola we-Milk Chocolate Malt amathathu acwilisiwe aphuma esitolo esisodwa sikaswidi. Izulu emhlabeni. Ngine okungenani ezimbili ngosuku.
• Ngilele ngaphansi kwengubo yokulala ethambile no-Emma phezu kwami ​​phakathi nobusuku 'obubandayo' (60 degrees) baseLos Angeles njengoba ngibuka i-TV noma ngifunda.

• Ukubhukuda emathangeni ami nsuku zonke ngesikhathi sezulu esifudumele. Ngimangaliswa umuzwa wenjabulo ephelele yokuba semanzini, umuzwa ofanayo enganginawo ngiseyintombazanyana, ngishiya inkungu iSan Francisco ukuba inhlonhlo ibalekele ihlobo elibandayo.
• Ukunganga kumzukulu wami oneminyaka engu-1/2 ubudala ngamazwi akhe angacelwanga, “Ngijabule kakhulu ukukubona, Nana!”

• Ukumamatheka okukhulu kokwazisa okuvela kumzukulu wami oneminyaka emi-2 ubudala lapho engibuka emehlweni futhi ememeza, "Nana!" Bese esho amagama ancibilikisa inhliziyo yami: “Uppy.”
• Umsebenzi wami obalulekile eMnyuziyamu Wokubekezelela, lapho ngifundisa khona abanye ngokuQothulwa Kwesizwe kanye nobudlova bomuntu kumuntu — izimpawu eziyisixwayiso sonke okumele sizilalele.
• Ubungani besifazane besikhathi eside obunothisa umphefumulo wami. Sikhule ndawonye sisuka komama abancane saya kogogo. Eminyakeni edlule, sihlanganyele izinsuku zokuzalwa, iBar / Bat Mitzvahs, iziqu, izihlambi, imishado, ukuqanjwa kwabantwana futhi, ngokudabukisayo, ngisho nemingcwabo yabathandekayo bethu.
• Ukubhala ekuseni kakhulu (ngaphambi kokuhamba kwami ​​no-Emma), lapho ingqondo yami ingagcwele kakhulu futhi idala kakhulu.

• Izinkumbulo zami, engingazithathi kalula, ikakhulukazi lapho ngibone impi kagogo kababa ongubaba wami eyishumi ne-Alzheimer's Disease. Ngibuyela ngosuku lwami lokuqala nomyeni wami lapho ngangineminyaka engu-18 nje kuphela. Umdanso wethu wokuqala ku- “Abantu.” Ikhefu lethu langemva komshado eHawaii. Ukuzalwa kwendodana ngayinye yamathathu. Ezinye zazo zokuqala: amazinyo, ukuhamba, ukukhuluma, isikole. Ukuphothula kwabo iziqu nemishado kanye nezingane zabo. Abazali bami abathandekayo, abahlale besenhliziyweni yami, abangiqondisayo nabasenza namanje yize bengasekho lapha. Kunencazelo enjalo kuzo zonke lezi zinkumbulo ezithandekayo.