Ingabe Ungumuntu Onenhlanhla?

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• Amaphuzu abalulekile
• Ukuhlola inhlanhla
• Inhlanhla Yesikhathi Esizayo ayihlobene Nenhlanhla Yangaphambilini

Amaphuzu abalulekile

• Ukuzibona unenhlanhla kuhlotshaniswa nenjabulo enkulu.
• Ukuba nenhlanhla esikhathini esedlule ngeke kukwenze umuntu onenhlanhla ngokuzayo.
• Inani elithile lenhlanhla liyadingeka empilweni. Akukho inani lomsebenzi onzima nethalente elizonxephezela ukungabikho kwalo.

UFortuna, unkulunkulukazi wamaRoma wenhlanhla, uvame ukuboniswa evalwe amehlo futhi eqondisa umkhumbi. Uqondisa izimpilo zethu, futhi ukwenza ngokungaboni.

Inhlanhla yinto ebalulekile ezimpilweni zethu. Ukuzalelwa ohlangothini lwesokudla noma olungalungile lwamathrekhi, ukuthwala lezi noma ezinye izakhi zofuzo kuma-chromosomes ethu, noma ukuthatha lokhu noma okunye ukuvula usuku olubonakala lungabalulekile, kuzonquma ikusasa lethu. Akuyena wonke umuntu ovumayo: “Uma kukhulunywa ngenhlanhla uzenzela okwakho,” kusho uBruce Springsteen. Kuyiqiniso ngezinga elithile, kodwa-ke ngisola ngokuqinile ukuthi kunenqwaba yezinkanyezi ezisebenza ngokuzikhandla ezingaphandle lapho amathalenta azo engatholakali ngoba awakaze abe endaweni efanele ngesikhathi esifanele. Isipho sokudala nokusebenza kanzima kudlala izingxenye ezibalulekile kunoma iyiphi indaba yempumelelo, kepha inhlanhla enkulu ibaluleke ngokufanayo.

Ukuhlola inhlanhla

Njengoba semukele ukuthi kunokuthile njengenhlanhla, kunezindlela ezimbili zokuhlola ukuthi umuntu unenhlanhla kanjani njengomuntu. Owokuqala ukucabanga ukuthi umuntu ube nenhlanhla engakanani empilweni kuze kube manje. Mina, ngokwesibonelo, ngizibona nginenhlanhla. Angizikhohlisi ngokucabanga ukuthi izinto ezinhle engizibonayo empilweni yami ngabe zenzekile ngaphandle kwenhlanhla.

Ukwenza isibonelo, ngaba nenhlanhla yokuthola umuntu engangihamba naye edolobheni engingalazi kwelinye izwe, futhi kwenzeka ngenhlanhla. Ngangifikile kulelo dolobha ngemuva kokufaka isicelo somsebenzi wokuqala engawubona ukhangiswa encwadini yezokwelapha ngalelo sonto. Ngaba ngudokotela oqeqeshwayo ewadini lapho ayesebenza khona njengomhlengikazi. Isikhangiso esihlukile kumagazini ohlukile, noma ngeviki elihlukile, besingangiyisa kokungabazeka okubi kakhulu. Ngasikhathi sinye, kube nezimo ku-biography yami lapho ngibe nebhadi ngokumangazayo, kepha kubuhlungu kakhulu ukuzikhumbula.

Sonke siye saba nenhlanhla futhi saba neshwa ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene, kepha angingabazi ukuthi "inhlanhla" ejwayelekile empilweni ingamelwa yigrafu ejwayelekile yokusabalalisa, lapho iningi lethu lizotholakala khona maphakathi, libusiswe nge inani elingaphansi noma elingaphansi lesilinganiso senhlanhla.

Indlela yesibili yokuhlola inhlanhla yinkolelo yenhlanhla “yokuziphatha”; ngamanye amagama, inhlanhla njengesici somuntu siqu esingagcini nje ngokuthonya imicimbi esikhathini esedlule somuntu, kodwa lokho kuzoqhubeka nokunquma imicimbi ekusaseni lakho. Abantu abakholelwa enhlanhleni njengento ejwayelekile empilweni nalabo abakholwa ukuthi banenhlanhla uqobo lwabo bathambekele ekubeni nobuntu obuhluke kakhulu. Empeleni, abokuqala bathambekele ekubeni neurotic futhi bajabule kancane kunaleso sakamuva. Ngakho-ke kuyinto enhle ukukholelwa enhlanhleni yomuntu, kodwa futhi ayinangqondo, njengoba isibonelo esilandelayo sibonisa.

Inhlanhla Yesikhathi Esizayo ayihlobene Nenhlanhla Yangaphambilini

Okungahleliwe akunazwela futhi kuyaqhubeka kusebenza ngokungahleliwe, noma yini okungenzeka yenzeke kuze kube iphuzu elinikeziwe. Umdlali we-roulette angacabanga ukuthi ngemuva kwama-reds amahlanu alandelanayo, ngokuqinisekile i-spin elandelayo kufanele iwele kokumnyama, kulandela lokho okuye kwabizwa ngokuthi i- “Monte Carlo Fallacy.” Vele, amathuba okuthi abamnyama azohlala ngokunembile ngamaphesenti angama-50 ku-spin ngayinye, noma kunjalo izikhathi eziningi ezilandelanayo ibhola liwele kokubomvu noma kokumnyama. Ngo-Agasti 18, 1913, ibhola lawela ezimnyama izikhathi ezingama-26 zilandelana eMonte Carlo Casino (yingakho igama le-fallacy). Amathuba okwenzeka kwalokhu ayephansi ngokuhlekisa, ngakho-ke mhlawumbe akumangalisi, abagembuli ekhasino babheja kakhulu ibhola eliwela kumuntu omnyama ngalesi sikhathi, abanye balahlekelwa yinhlanhla kule nqubo.

Ngingasho ukuthi ukuzibona njengomuntu onenhlanhla nakho kuyinhlanhla, njengokuzethemba ukuthi uzokuma ezinyaweni zakho noma yini impilo ekuphonsa kuyo kufanele kududuze kakhulu. "Inhlanhla ikholelwa ukuthi unenhlanhla," kusho uTennessee Williams. Mina, njengabanye abaningi, ngincamela ukuhlala ohlangothini oluhle lweFortuna futhi ngingazami inhlanhla ngokweqile, hleze ngimdumaze.

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