Isayensi Iyeke Ukukholelwa Ekuluthweni Kwezocansi. Nawe Kufanele

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• Umlutha Ukufundwa Okubalulekile
• Ukudlala Indima Yevidiyo Yokudlala Ukuqeqeshwa Kwemilutha Yomtholampilo

Yize ukulutheka kocansi kungatholakali, futhi kungakaze kube khona, kunemboni enkulu yokuzisiza ezungeze umqondo. Kakhulukazi ku-inthanethi (yize kusezindaweni zenkolo, njenge-Utah, kunezindawo eziningi zokwelashwa kwabantu), le mboni ithuthukisa umbono wokuthi ukufinyelela kwi-Intanethi kwanamuhla, kanye nezithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezikhula lapho, kuholele ekuqhamukeni komkhuhlane, ngaphandle -ukulawula ukusetshenziswa kocansi, nezinkinga zokuphila ezibalulekile njengomphumela.

Eminyakeni edlule, izifundo eziningi seziqale ukuphakamisa ukuthi kukhona okuningi endabeni kune-porn kuphela. Esikhundleni salokho, sibe nezeluleko ezikhulayo zokuthi izingxabano nokulwela ukusetshenziswa kocansi kuhlobene kakhulu nokuziphatha nenkolo, kunokuba ne-pornography uqobo. Ngikumbozile lokhu kuchuma kocwaningo kokuningi okuthunyelwe nezihloko.

Manje, abacwaningi babeke isipikili ebhokisini lokulutha kocansi. UJosh Grubbs, uSamuel Perry noJoshua Wilt bangabanye babaphenyi abahamba phambili emzabalazweni waseMelika wezocansi, njengoba sebeshicilele izifundo eziningi behlola umthelela wokusetshenziswa kocansi, ukukholelwa ekuluthweni kocansi, kanye nomphumela wezocansi emishadweni. Futhi uRory Reid ungumcwaningi we-UCLA owayengumgqugquzeli oholayo oqoqa imininingwane ngomqondo wokuphazamiseka kwe-hypersexual ye-DSM-5. Laba bacwaningi abane, bonke abanomlando wokungathathi hlangothi, uma kungenjalo ukusekelwa okuqondile kwemibono yokulutha kabi kocansi, baye benza ukuhlaziywa kwemeta yocwaningo ngezithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi baphetha ngokuthi ukusetshenziswa kocansi akubikezeli izinkinga nge-porn, kodwa ukuthi inkolo iyakwenza.

Abaphenyi babeka impikiswano nemfundiso yabo ngokuphelele, bephakamisa ukuthi Izinkinga Zobulili Ezingcolile ngenxa ye-Moral Incongruence (PPMI) zibonakala zingamandla okushayela abantu abaningi ababika ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zocansi ezingalawulwa kahle, ezingalawuleki, noma eziyinkinga. Yize abantu abaningi abakhulele emikhayeni enenkolo, emindenini egcina imikhuba yezocansi inemizwa emibi ngezithombe zobulili ezingcolile, iningi labo bantu baqhubeka nokusebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Futhi-ke bazizwa benecala futhi benamahloni ngokuziphatha kwabo, futhi bazithukuthelele kanye nesifiso sabo sokubuka okuningi.

Ngasekuqaleni kweminyaka yama-1990, ngenkathi i-intanethi iqhuma ezikrinini zomhlaba, u-Al Cooper wayengudokotela wezengqondo owaphakamisa ukuthi i-Affordability, Anonymity, kanye nokuFinyeleleka kwe-intanethi kwaholela ekuqhumeni kokulutha kwezocansi. Yize inxusa intuitively futhi ivame ukucashunwa, inkolelo kaCooper yahlolwa kanye kuphela, ngo-2004, lapho kutholakala ukuthi okuguquguqukayo kokufinyeleleka, ukufinyeleleka, nokungaziwa empeleni akunakho ukuxhumana okuphathelene nokuziphatha kocansi, ushintsho, noma ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn ye-Intanethi. Kepha okwenziwa yi-Intanethi ukubeka izithombe ezingcolile ezandleni zabantu abangalungele ukuzilawula noma izifiso zabo zocansi. Ukukholwa kuhlotshaniswa nobunzima obuningi bezocansi; Izinkinga ezihlobene nocansi manje zingangezwa kulolo hlu.

Esifundweni sabo, uGrubbs, et al., Bahlaziya idatha evela ezifundweni ezingaba ngu-15 ezahlukahlukene ngabaphenyi abahlukahlukene (futhi babuyekeza ezinye eziningi), ezibandakanya ababambiqhaza abacishe babe ngama-7,000. Izifundo zenziwa mathupha naku-inthanethi, e-United States naseYurophu. Ithimba lithole ukuthi, okokuqala, inkolo iyisimo esinamandla, esicacile sokungaziphathi kahle kokuziphatha maqondana nokusetshenziswa kocansi. Lokhu kubalulekile, njengoba kukhombisa ukuthi singakwazi futhi kufanele sisebenzise inkolo yomuntu njengenkomba yamathuba wokungqubuzana kokuziphatha ngokusetshenziswa kocansi. Akubona bonke abantu abaphikisana nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile abakholwayo, kepha kubonakala sengathi inkolo ibamba iningi labantu elizizwa ngale ndlela. Njengoba kunikezwe ukuthi i-WHO ne-ICD-11 bancoma ukukhishwa kokungqubuzana kokuziphatha ocansini ekuhlolweni kweCompulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder, lokhu kutholakala kusikisela ukuthi lapho kutholakala i-CSBD, inkolo yomuntu yinto ebaluleke kakhulu.

Okwesibili, nangokuningi kuze kube seqophelweni, ukuhlaziywa kwe-meta kuthole ukuthi " [M] ukungaziphathi kahle ngomlomo mayelana nokusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuhlala kuyisimo esihle kakhulu senkolelo umuntu abhekene nezinkinga ezihlobene nocansi noma ukuhlukunyezwa, futhi ukuqhathanisa kwemiphumela ehlanganisiwe kuveza ukuthi kuyisibikezelo esingcono kakhulu kunalokho izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezizisebenzisayo ... ”Ukuhlaziywa kuthole imiphumela emincane phakathi kokusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile nezinkinga zokuzibona ngezithombe zocansi, kepha abacwaningi basikisela ukuthi lokhu kungenzeka kungumbhalo weqiniso elilula lokuthi, ukuze uzizwe ungqubuzana nokuziphatha ngokusebenzisa kwakho i-porn, empeleni kufanele usebenzise ezinye i-porn. Uma umqondo wokulutha kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile wawuyiqiniso, izinkinga ezihlobene nezocansi zingakhuphuka, ngaphandle kokuziphatha, njengoba ukusetshenziswa kocansi kuyakhuphuka. Kepha abacwaningi abakutholanga lokho.Eqinisweni, bacaphuna izifundo eziningi ezibonisa ukuthi ngisho nokuzizwa sengathi ulwela ukulawula ukusetshenziswa kwakho kocansi akusho ukubikezela ukusetshenziswa kocansi okuningi. Lokho kusho ukuthi abantu ababika ukukhathazeka okukhulu ngokulawula ukusetshenziswa kwabo kocansi empeleni abasebenzisi i-porn eningi; bazizwa kabi nje ngakho.

Ukuba nokungqubuzana kokuziphatha ekusebenziseni kwakho i-porn (PPMI) kuvela kukubi kuwe. Kodwa lokho akubangelwa i-porn. Esikhundleni salokho, amazinga aphezulu wokungqubuzana kokuziphatha mayelana nokusetshenziswa kocansi abikezela amazinga aphezulu okucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka, ukudangala, kanye nokuncipha kwenhlalakahle yezocansi, kanye nezimpi zenkolo nezingokomoya. Kokunye ukuhlola okwenziwa uPerry noWhitehead, izithombe zocansi zisebenzisa ukubikezela ukucindezeleka esikhathini esiyiminyaka eyisithupha, kodwa emadodeni kuphela athi akuvumelekile yokusetshenziswa kocansi. Ukuqhubeka nokusebenzisa i-porn lapho ukholwa ukuthi kubi kuyingozi. Ukukholelwa ukuthi ungumlutha we-porn futhi uzitshela ukuthi awukwazi ukulawula ukusetshenziswa kwakho kwe-porn kulimaza inhlalakahle yakho. Akuyona i-porn, kodwa ingxabano engaxazululiwe, engahlosiwe yokuziphatha.

Noma uGrubbs et al. ushiye iwindi livulekile, evuma ukuthi kungenzeka kube khona abantu ababika ukucwaswa kocansi ngaphandle kokuphikisana nokuziphatha, nokuthi kungenzeka kube khona abantu ababonisa ukusetshenziswa kabi kocansi okungafanele futhi banokungqubuzana kokuziphatha ngayo - ngamanye amagama, bazizwa kabi ngakho futhi empeleni basebenzisa okuningi kwayo - ayikho kulezi zindlela ezimbili zedatha ezibonakala zenzeka ezifundweni nakubahlanganyeli abazihlaziyile. Esikhundleni salokho, kuzo zonke lezi zifundo, ezizofaka la maqembu amabili uma ngabe akhona, ukutholakala kwezibalo ukuthi akukhona ukuzisebenzisa kwe-porn okudala ukubheja kocansi, nokuthi ukusetshenziswa kocansi ngabantu abanokungqubuzana kokuziphatha ngakho lokho kubhebhethekisa izingqinamba zesimanje ezihlobene nezocansi.

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Ukudlala Indima Yevidiyo Yokudlala Ukuqeqeshwa Kwemilutha Yomtholampilo